Escort X 3 or 4

[miaguy290]

Looking for some advise. My BF and I just started hiring together and have had mostly good to great experiences.

For his birthday I would like to put together 3 or 4 escorts for a fun evening.

What is the best way to handle it?

Contact one and ask him to find the other two or three or just try to put it together myself.

Any advise welcomed!

Thanks!

[maxwellissmart]

Looking for some advise. My BF and I just started hiring together and have had mostly good to great experiences.

For his birthday I would like to put together 3 or 4 escorts for a fun evening.

What is the best way to handle it?

Contact one and ask him to find the other two or three or just try to put it together myself.

Any advise welcomed!

Thanks!

 

Have you given some thought to hiring all the same type or asking the escorts who they would like to play with? Most multi-ways I've been in, the client liked to sit back and watch us go at it for at least some of the time. This might be a good opportunity to go "buffet-style" and hire a little here and a little there.

[Juan Vancouver]

You are going to get many different responses and in a sense they may all be right in one way or another. In the end I believe nobody really holds the perfect way, but it is good that you are wanting others to share their experience.

 

I think there are two ways in which you can go about this: you could try to get together three perfectly reliable escorts who have been reviewed consistently, and who hopefully have specific reviews about working with other escorts. When you chose them, you can let them know about the two other escorts that are going to be joining, and make sure that they are ok with your choices. (It sounds unnecessary to have to check with escorts whether they are comfortable working with other escorts, but I know as a fact that there are many colleagues of mine who would not work with some. Checking in advance is better rather than having a session in which chemistry seems to be not happening. If you want your celebration to be a success, you have to do whatever you can.)

 

The other way to go about it would be to start with escorts that either work together with a specific duo partner and ask them if they have a suggestion about a third one, or look for previous combinations of escorts that other clients have tried before and reviewed positively. You know that either the chemistry is there, or they are professional enough to make sure everyone has a great time.

 

Clearly your location, your boyfriend's personal taste and your budget will limit or widen the pool, but I am sure there will always be good quality guys that you can work with.

 

Whoever you chose, I hope that it turns out to be every bit as fun as it sounds, and please, deliver a birthday pat on your boyfriend's bum on my behalf.

[jjkrkwood]

Have you given some thought to hiring all the same type or asking the escorts who they would like to play with? Most multi-ways I've been in, the client liked to sit back and watch us go at it for at least some of the time. This might be a good opportunity to go "buffet-style" and hire a little here and a little there.

 

I think multiples in sessions are a bit tricky, since in order for everyone to have a good experience, you really need to make sure that everyone is attracted and compatible sexually with one another. Max always has great suggestions and I agree that you should finf the First guy you want to hire, and ask him for reccommendations on other compatible participants. However not sure I would fly blind without at least speaking to the others beforehand, and laying out for them how you want the session to take place, only to make sure everyone is on the same page..

[maxwellissmart]

I think multiples in sessions are a bit tricky, since in order for everyone to have a good experience, you really need to make sure that everyone is attracted and compatible sexually with one another. Max always has great suggestions and I agree that you should finf the First guy you want to hire, and ask him for reccommendations on other compatible participants. However not sure I would fly blind without at least speaking to the others beforehand, and laying out for them how you want the session to take place, only to make sure everyone is on the same page..

 

Yeah, I woudn't definitely fly blind on this one. One thing you COULD do is to pick a theme for the party, say—cowboy gear or something, and have everyone show up in boots and hats (or whatever floats your boat). I would also give it a sex party dynamic as opposed to "I've hired 4 escorts and they all need to pay attention to me and me only" sort of thing. Block off 2-3 rooms, turn off the lights, light some candles and get up and be a voyeur at some point. I think that could be incredibly hot.

 

And most definitely—borrow/rent/buy a sling.

[miaguy290]

Maxwellissmart:

 

I see party planning is your thing You are hired!

[Bosguy]

You might want to contact Dave (AKA Rockin) in DC. He does do this type of arranging and may be able to assist you. I guess the most crucial element is that the guys are able to work together without control issues and that the proposed activities are clear and agreeable to all in advance.

 

Have a great birthday celebration!!! A whole lot better than a cake.

 

Boston Bill

[maxwellissmart]

Maxwellissmart:

 

I see party planning is your thing You are hired!

 

Where's your party again?

 

[miaguy290]

To be honest I am very open to the location....Where are you?

[jjkrkwood]

To be honest I am very open to the location....Where are you?

 

Ill glady provide the hair and makeup !

[miaguy290]

No working at the party...will just add your name to the guest list!

[maxwellissmart]

No working at the party...will just add your name to the guest list!

 

Sent you a PM.

[adriano46]

Great advice, especially from Juan.

 

I have done this (though not at all of the scale of OKIE here) and have done it successfully two ways.

 

1) I hire guys individually asking them up front are they comfortable in a 3- or 4-way. I will give them the other names of guys contacted if they are agreeable to the scene, and even suggest they contact each other and talk it over before the date.

 

2) I hire one escort I know well and trust and who knows my tastes, and let him be the planner of the event as many escorts have worked with others in 3-ways or more-ways and know who they have good chemistry with, and I like it if two or more of the escorts get off sexually with each other and I get turned on watching the sparks fly spontaneously.

 

I did twice do a theme party (locker room) but both times it fizzled. First was in Amsterdam with 3guys from an agency. One was clearly bisexual and not very interactive, one was so feminine, he had a problem even finding his inner jock self!!!, and so I was left with only one hot guy. The feminine one, BTW, was Russian (my secret vice) but absolutely HATED all sports talk and banter, and in the end put a damper on the party (full disclosure, he got i to the swing of things at the end when the good guy of thengroup topped him fiercely and had him squeeling like a towel boy!!!) Tried the same thing in Prague with 4 guys, but agent who set it up completely played me for a fool, guys were hot but unwashed, sweaty, and absolutely not interested in even touching each other. Complete waste of time and money. Lesson learned.

[SteveEscort]

As an escort who does sometimes partake in such events it would be better asking a trusted escort that you've hired in the past if they have any guys they work with and if they do you're half way there.

 

The problem with doing a pick and mix (random guys who sound good) is that some of them may already know each other and may not work well together (there's been history between them).

 

If you've already decided on one guy, ask him first and see if he can arrange a few more. It could make for a more harmonious experience

[leigh.bess.toad]

Miaguy -- what a thoughtful bf you must be. You've said you've hired with your bf, presumably for 3 ways. But have you ever talked about 5 or 6 guys together at once? Putting together a fun 3 way where everyone gets along can be dicey enough. I can imagine adding a few more can multiply any issues. Just make sure you think it's something he'd like.

 

Others have commented with some great advice. There are two ways I see: do it yourself or turn the recruitment over to a trusted escort. The latter way may be more likely to assure that they play well together but the others may not be your type (or your bf's type). If you do the latter way, make sure you know who the others are to make sure that they are attractive to you (and the bf).

 

If you do it yourself, you do run the risk of guys not working well together. A good pro will still be able to get through it, but it will be, in the end, less than you might imagine. If you do follow this course, you simply must let each participant know who the other guys are. I know of escorts who even the mention of a name of another specific escort have to pop an extra blood pressure pill. Some guys just don't like each other (imagine that).

 

Hope you and your bf have a great time. And tell him happy birthday for us.

[Diverdan]

Juan has given you very good advise. Start with someone that you and your bf really enjoy being with. Ask that guy if he has anyone that he has worked with before and would enjoy being with again with the two of you. I always make sure that the escorts will enjoy being with each other. On one occasion, I had asked my main guy with whom I had been several times about what I wanted to do. He did not know the other guy, but thought it would be fun to do, and I trusted him to make things work. The irony was when we got togther my main guy and the other guy had met before, but in a more social setting and they were unaware of their working life. It turned out ok, but not as well as I would have liked. On another occasion, with my same main guy, we engaged a third whom neither one of us had met before, but had been high on my list. It was spectacular, and we have plans to get together again. As Juan has suggested, advance communication and prior experience is the key. But it is necessary to know if whom ever you are bringing together has had a bad experience with the other guy(s) as that can lead to disaster, no matter how professional they are. Chemistry in such a situation always rules, and discomfort is very hard to hide in such a situation.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out... and like Okie, I hope you write a review too !

DD

[Guest Magnus]

Seek the Master little Grasshopper:

http://daddysreviews.com/review/chris_andrew_arpad_romann_heath

 

I believe his nom de plume here in Candyland is "Okliehomo" if you want to try PMing him for advice.

Also, you might get more suggestions by posting your query in the "Deli" section of the Forum.