Working Out

[SteveEscort]

I know a lot of escorts are slaves to the gym but a recent client told me that he found gym freak escorts to be quite shallow and self centered and a bit "I love me, who do you love".

 

I don't have a defined body but I do have an treadmill in my spare bedroom and work out on it for an hour a day, first thing every morning. I usually do about 4-5 miles a day on it and those 25-30 miles a week keep my weight in check and make sure my essential features stay reasonably toned. I get plenty of other exercise bouncing around the bed with clients.

 

Do you prefer the more toned washboard type or just someone who looks after themselves.

[jjkrkwood]

Muscles are a turn-on, but Real life dictates that "you Cant always get what you want". Unfortunately I am one of those people that "NEEDS" to be turned on by a guy in order to perform, and for me thats a guy thats in good shape and cares for himself. Occasionally I score both good shape AND muscles, but thats when the hookup Gods are smiling down on me....

[bigvalboy]

Now me, I'm a gym rat. Sexually I am only attracted those who at any age really take care of themselves...In the gym it is amazing to see how many guys even at my age have astounding 6 packs. I guess that is one of the many reasons why I hire. I can't get turned on unless the person is physically my type.. and to find someone who fits that discription and is attracted to someone my age is almost impossible to find, now before everyone starts bustin my balls here....is that shallow, You bet, but I don't care, it is my money and I will spend it how I please.

[jimboivyo]

we pay for perfection. some of us pay top dollar and expect a guy who turns heads.

 

I want a guy who takes care of himself, has a great body and knows the way the world works. there's a difference between being a muscle head and just being in great shape.

[Phil_musc]

I'm only interested in guys who take care of themselves - age doesn't matter. It's also not enough to be lean - there needs to be some muscle on the dude too. I'm not forking over the ducats for "average" - no way, no how. Shallow - maybe, but we all have our preferences.

[+ Travis69]

I hired Marcel from Toronto once and he was actually too shredded and ripped up. I prefer an athletic body but not too pumped up or shredded. The important thing is to do what you feel comfortable with for your body. If you try to get the 6 pack then think of all the time you'll have to go to the gym to maintain it. In my eyes the guys who had the great bodies but then let them go would have been better off not doing it in the first place. Some of that muscle turns to fat if not maintained. If you are happy and your clients are happy stay with your program. Seems like you make up for any lack of shredded muscle with your very nice personality and love of hot, sweaty, fun sex.

[jjkrkwood]

I think we are aLL in agreement that when Hiring, you choose and pay for your Fantasy guy, the guy that turns heads and turns YOU on. But I think the question is more relevant when NOT hiring, and you are selecting from the choices in the Real World buffet. Would you take what you can get just to have sex, still hold onto your strict list of preferences and stay "picky" or just Go without ??? (I mean if Hiring WAS NOT an option). I would suspect not everyone here has a money tree in their yard like BVB does ? (but I love him and hate him at the same time)....

[nynakedtop]

When I see in someone's profile (in a setting that is either commercial or not) that they are in the gym 4-5 hours a day, 5-7 days a week I quickly think not how shallow, but rather how dull this person must be. I am not young, but I go to the gym often, am mindful of what I eat, and so on... I like myself, guys like me, and I like guys who have the same attitude that I do. Accordingly, give me a guy who is in good health, has a pleasing body, and has some content below the surface. Lean and ripped works much better for me than the bulky-body-from-God some guys claim to have.

[bigvalboy]

I hired Marcel from Toronto once and he was actually too shredded and ripped up. I prefer an athletic body but not too pumped up or shredded. The important thing is to do what you feel comfortable with for your body. If you try to get the 6 pack then think of all the time you'll have to go to the gym to maintain it. In my eyes the guys who had the great bodies but then let them go would have been better off not doing it in the first place. Some of that muscle turns to fat if not maintained. If you are happy and your clients are happy stay with your program. Seems like you make up for any lack of shredded muscle with your very nice personality and love of hot, sweaty, fun sex.

That's the point Travis, you have to maintain it. It is not all about looks, many go for health reasons as well. My main reason was to stay healthy, the body was an added benefit. There are guys at the gym who still look amazing even in there 70's and 80's. I look around at guys who are my friends that have not maintained there health and I feel so much better about my commitment to a healty life style. Now each to his own, if it is not your thing, well I completely understand. But for me, going to the gym gives me energy and a better feeling about life in general, AND of course the men!!!

[jjkrkwood]

That's the point Travis, you have to maintain it. It is not all about looks, many go for health reasons as well. My main reason was to stay healthy, the body was an added benefit. There are guys at the gym who still look amazing even in there 70's and 80's. I look around at guys who are my friends that have not maintained there health and I feel so much better about my commitment to a healty life style. Now each to his own, if it is not your thing, well I completely understand. But for me, going to the gym gives me energy and a better feeling about life in general, AND of course the men!!!

 

And some men go to the gym just to sit at the snack bar and drink energy shakes. Different Strokes...

[bigvalboy]

When I see in someone's profile (in a setting that is either commercial or not) that they are in the gym 4-5 hours a day, 5-7 days a week I quickly think not how shallow, but rather how dull this person must be. I am not young, but I go to the gym often, am mindful of what I eat, and so on... I like myself, guys like me, and I like guys who have the same attitude that I do. Accordingly, give me a guy who is in good health, has a pleasing body, and has some content below the surface. Lean and ripped works much better for me than the bulky-body-from-God some guys claim to have.

Who in the heck goes to the gym 4-5 hours a day, 5-7 days a week. I know professional Bodybuilders who compete on pro level that go only 1-2 hours a day and only 5 days a week. Anyone spending that much time in a gym is not training that long but it is mostly socializing.

[jjkrkwood]

Who in the heck goes to the gym 4-5 hours a day, 5-7 days a week. I know professional Bodybuilders who compete on pro level that go only 1-2 hours a day and only 5 days a week. Anyone spending that much time in a gym is not training that long but it is mostly socializing.

 

Shhhhh, I am usually prowling for used jockstraps in the lockeroom....

[bigvalboy]

I think we are aLL in agreement that when Hiring, you choose and pay for your Fantasy guy, the guy that turns heads and turns YOU on. But I think the question is more relevant when NOT hiring, and you are selecting from the choices in the Real World buffet. Would you take what you can get just to have sex, still hold onto your strict list of preferences and stay "picky" or just Go without ??? (I mean if Hiring WAS NOT an option). I would suspect not everyone here has a money tree in their yard like BVB does ?

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[Steven_Draker]

he found gym freak escorts to be quite shallow and self centered

 

A cliché.

 

I wouldn't judge a person until I get to know him first.

[SteveEscort]

He's the one that met them so I think he was speaking from experience. Hardly a cliche

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

When I see in someone's profile (in a setting that is either commercial or not) that they are in the gym 4-5 hours a day, 5-7 days a week I quickly think not how shallow, but rather how dull this person must be.

 

I have a neighbor that due to back problems needs to be in the gym a couple of three to four hours a day to avoid taking large quantities of pain killers - about an hour of pilates or yoga, an hour of strength training focus on his core strength, and at least an hour of cardio to keep is weight in check. This guy is anything but shallow or dull.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Do you prefer the more toned washboard type or just someone who looks after themselves.

 

While I do enjoy the guy who has the washboard abs, I have to admit that I am less intimidated by the escorts that just look after themselves and more likely to contact them first.

[whipped guy]

I prefer a body built by hard work... not steroids. Plus, I appreciate a guy who puts a lot of effort into his health, well being, and nutrition... and steroids don't fit comfortably into that equation. Plus, at least one escort has exclaimed, "damn steroids!" when his tool refused to cooperate for the final denouement. As for gym freaks being shallow... that is not necessarily the case... and Steven is right on in that regard.

[Poolboy21409]

If you can do it legally with steroids, that's fine with me. "Better living through chemistry". And it is a total myth that muscle turns to fat - muscle atrophies and may be replaced by additional fat. If the escort I hire needs to spend 2-4 hours a day int he gym to maintain his attractive body, that is part of his job also like going to the tanning parlor if he thinks a tan is attractive (which it is!). The attractive escort doesn't have to be body builder built, I would prefer not, but for me needs to have some muscle meat on the bones. Shredded to pure muscle fiber is a bit extreme. All of us who exercise really do have have washboard abs- like we all have an extra firm mattress on the bed. Unfortunately too many of us also have a down filled comforter on top of that mattress. Remember, the major part of washboard abs are made in the kitchen!!

[zeyfur]

I agree with Mr Draker. Do not judge a book by it's cover.

[Michael Wayne]

u can be (and should be as an escort ) in great shape. However, you do NOT have to have an attitude if u r in shape. Clients call me because I am in shape but they call me back because I am NICE to them. That is the whole key to the biz right there. http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[Epigonos]

In my youth, a thousand years ago, I did the whole gym routine. I worked out six day a week for an hour to an hour and a half each day. I went from weighing 145 and 6’ tall to 217. I built my biceps from 11¼-inches to 17½ inches, etc. etc. To say I accomplished this without the aid of steroids would be a bold face lie – it just “ain’t” possible.

 

I have ALWAYS been turned on by MEN with huge chests and lats, huge biceps and triceps, tiny waists and great thighs and calves. I get hard immediately and almost drool when I play with bodybuilder type guys.

 

I agree clients hire escorts who fulfill their fantasies and I’m sure as shit no exception

[jjkrkwood]

u can be (and should be as an escort ) in great shape. However, you do NOT have to have an attitude if u r in shape. Clients call me because I am in shape but they call me back because I am NICE to them. That is the whole key to the biz right there. http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

 

Well the last time I looked on Daddys Reviews, there were several escorts shown who did not appear in Great shape or that attractive, yet obviously there are still people that find them such, and therefore hired them, and enjoyed their experience...

 

I dont think physical beauty is a necessarily a prerequisite of escorting, its more about a guy thats available and willing to have sex with you whom you find appealing for whatever the reason.

[seeker630]

I have ALWAYS been turned on by MEN with huge chests and lats, huge biceps and triceps, tiny waists and great thighs and calves. I get hard immediately and almost drool when I play with bodybuilder type guys.

 

I agree clients hire escorts who fulfill their fantasies and I’m sure as shit no exception

 

Well the last time I looked on Daddys Reviews, there were several escorts shown who did not appear in Great shape or that attractive, yet obviously there are still people that find them such, and therefore hired them, and enjoyed their experience...

 

I dont think physical beauty is a necessarily a prerequisite of escorting, its more about a guy thats available and willing to have sex with you whom you find appealing for whatever the reason.

 

I think you're both right. Fortunately, we all have different fantasies & preferences: muscle gods, twinks, jocks, bears, enhancements, etc. And the preferences go beyond the physical - rought trade, BFE, etc.

 

Ain't diversity wonderful!

[jjkrkwood]

I think you're both right. Fortunately, we all have different fantasies & preferences: muscle gods, twinks, jocks, bears, enhancements, etc. And the preferences go beyond the physical - rought trade, BFE, etc.

 

Ain't diversity wonderful!

 

YES it is, and if I had BVB's money Tree, it would be even Better.....