Involvement client or escort

[Bosguy]

Just wondering if any clients or escorts have ever been in a situation where they were hesitant about a meeting or meetings with a new person or repeat person for concern about the possibility of this liason turning into a real involvement with the other party. I'm not talking about stalking, but the possibility that spending time with this person could lead to another relationship which may not be the mutual goal of the 2 people.

 

This topic may have been addressed under a different thread. If so, I apologize.

 

Bill K.

[Guest Rich.]

Bosguy,

 

I'm not sure which side you're coming at this from, but I dated and lived with an Escort for a couple of years. He contacted me, and to be honest I never hesitated about us getting together. However, it wasn't long before I started to realise that I'd made a mistake. It wasn't just the chaotic nature of having a relationship with an Escort, I also had to deal with the lack of respect shown towards our partnership by friends, and eventually the loss of self-respect I started to feel.

 

It has been a long time since that first date, living together and splitting up, but we remain good friends to this day.

 

Joey Bryant touches on some of these issues in his thread, Do you ever meet guys while traveling?

 

Richard

[gcursor]

What? Me worry?

 

No I don't have that problem. I tend to keep people at an arm's length and people have mentioned that (all kinds of people, friends, the lady checking me out at WAL-MART, the fast food drive-thru person, etc.)

 

I'm quite aloof as a rule. I'm too hung up on my feelings about me inside. often times though people get to see brief "glimpses" of me when I'm with them ...and when I'm not worried about making a good first impression or worried about....

Gcursor

 

Just wondering if any clients or escorts have ever been in a situation where they were hesitant about a meeting or meetings with a new person or repeat person for concern about the possibility of this liason turning into a real involvement with the other party. I'm not talking about stalking, but the possibility that spending time with this person could lead to another relationship which may not be the mutual goal of the 2 people.

 

This topic may have been addressed under a different thread. If so, I apologize.

 

Bill K.

[Lohengrin1979]

Choices

 

I don't hire escorts very often but I do hire masseurs quite a bit and I've had several become friends and sometimes closer than friends in the 7 years or so since I started. All of the additiOnal developments have been by my choice but I never could go back to a working relationship after the friendship or "more than friendship" faded. You picks your poison in this case, sad to say.

 

Regards,

 

Lohengrin1979

[JoeyBryant]

but I never could go back to a working relationship after the friendship or "more than friendship" faded. You picks your poison in this case, sad to say.

 

That's why I rather not see a client outside of scheduled meetings. Because then if the relationship fails, not only has 1 lost a friend maybe even a lover...but a chance at possible income. That's just as incongruent as asking someone who's been getting it free all along to pay for it. It's going to fall flat.

 

But otherwise no, I've never been afraid to meet someone because I think it'll turn into something more. That cannot possibly happen unless 2 people consent to that.