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OK, heres a question for you. What should the clients expectations be regarding an overnight? I'm not talking 12 hours of sex (that's even a bit much for me - ha ha), but what about the wee hours between the night session and the morning session, when you wake up with the best hard on you've had in months and there's a hot stud in your bed. It would be a crime to let that go to waste!

 

I'd like to hear from both the escorts and the clients on how to handle and what to expect. If that period is off limits, then I think I'll just book two sessions - one night and one early morning and get some shuteye in between. Any one use this approach? Escorts, would you accept this kind of booking?

 

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OK, heres a question for you. What should the clients expectations be regarding an overnight? I'm not talking 12 hours of sex (that's even a bit much for me - ha ha), but what about the wee hours between the night session and the morning session, when you wake up with the best hard on you've had in months and there's a hot stud in your bed. It would be a crime to let that go to waste!

 

I'd like to hear from both the escorts and the clients on how to handle and what to expect. If that period is off limits, then I think I'll just book two sessions - one night and one early morning and get some shuteye in between. Any one use this approach? Escorts, would you accept this kind of booking?

 

GTX

 

Ask the escort you're interested in hiring.

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OK, heres a question for you. What should the clients expectations be regarding an overnight? I'm not talking 12 hours of sex (that's even a bit much for me - ha ha), but what about the wee hours between the night session and the morning session, when you wake up with the best hard on you've had in months and there's a hot stud in your bed. It would be a crime to let that go to waste!

 

I'd like to hear from both the escorts and the clients on how to handle and what to expect. If that period is off limits, then I think I'll just book two sessions - one night and one early morning and get some shuteye in between. Any one use this approach? Escorts, would you accept this kind of booking?

 

GTX

 

I don't think there are any "standard" expectations as I believe there are many different ones depending on the individual client's needs/wants. There is nothing wrong with any expectations as long as you realize they may not be met unless, as MiamiLooker says, you discuss it in advance. For myself, I like to play before bed and then once in the middle of the night but rarely want to play after waking up in the morning so I always find out if the escort is fine with being woken up in the night for that.

 

In some ways your idea of a session in the evening and early morning could be cost effective as for overnights we tend to pay a lot for people to sleep. I would think two different escorts, one in the evening and one in the morning, would be a fun alternative to the standard overnight.

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Just booking two sessions isn't a bad idea. I did once due to the fact that escort can't be with me for an overnight. I enjoyed it. It's up to you. But by having dinner together and sleeping together you can get to know more about the escort too. Hugs~~~

 

OK, heres a question for you. What should the clients expectations be regarding an overnight? I'm not talking 12 hours of sex (that's even a bit much for me - ha ha), but what about the wee hours between the night session and the morning session, when you wake up with the best hard on you've had in months and there's a hot stud in your bed. It would be a crime to let that go to waste!

 

I'd like to hear from both the escorts and the clients on how to handle and what to expect. If that period is off limits, then I think I'll just book two sessions - one night and one early morning and get some shuteye in between. Any one use this approach? Escorts, would you accept this kind of booking?

 

GTX

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I'm not buying that line even for a minute, gtx :)

 

Maybe 120 hours might be too much but a puny 12? Come on, man. You've got to be real with us here.

 

OK, Lee, you got me - I probably could do 12 hours if properly fed and hydrated! Would be fun to try. Do we at least get naps?

 

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oh my Lee and gtx, You guys are supermen! I can't even last 30 minutes!

 

I'm not buying that line even for a minute, gtx :)

 

Maybe 120 hours might be too much but a puny 12? Come on, man. You've got to be real with us here.

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Ahhhh....overnights....my favorite Hooville pleasure! Having done well over.....ahem.....let's just say.....a hundred or so.....uhhhh.....errr.....yeah...that's it....100 of them.....I have seen it all from the guys we hire. Some are all nighters, some go late into the night, some play during the night, some are early-to-bed, frisky and ready for action by 6 AM, and some can't be roused from slumber by nothing less than a thermonuclear detonation. Some are cuddlers, spooners, affectionate, grope you all night long, etc; some are leave me alone and don't touch me while I sleep; some talk in their sleep, and some just talk dirty...HA! As for me, I appreciate alot of different styles of overnight pleasure, and don't have a preference, as long as there is plenty of passionate kissing and hot hot sex. It can be all before bed, sprinkled during the night, evening and morning, whatever, just plenty of it....that's the deal! :)

 

If there is something you really want to do, during the night, or early in the morn, when you wake up sporting that wood, check with your guy, tell him your desire, and make sure he is OK with what you want. BECAUSE, no matter how hot or nice the guy is, AND since you are paying overnight money, if he doesn't "come" through on what is most important to you, you will feel deflated the next day, and harbor regret about a missed opportunity. If the guy is not OK with your specific request, move on and make other arrangements. Don't settle for less than what you want.

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This thread really hits home for me. As a general rule I like SLEEPING alone at night. Thus I have found that two separate evening sessions rather than an overnight frequently works best for me. This is true UNLESS I am traveling with an escort for a number of days. Then I like to sleep at night and play around any time after coffee in the morning till bedtime in the evening.

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Ahhhh....overnights....my favorite Hooville pleasure! Having done well over.....ahem.....let's just say.....a hundred or so.....uhhhh.....errr.....yeah...that's it....100 of them.....

 

H O L Y C R A P ! I'm the one in awe. over a 100 - you must have an unlimted budget and unlimited sex drive. I bow down to the true champion! All hail, jawjateck!!!!! Man do I want some of what you've got.

 

It's hard to know exactly what you want until you get there. I thought I was OK with hot sex before sleep and hot sex in the morning. Then I wake up during the night with this super hard boner and don't know how to engage the stud sleeping next to me. See as I'm new to this and coming from the straight sex side, I know how to cuddle up and start a slow arousal of the female persuasion - just didn't know how to go about that with a paid gun. Maybe I don't need to be so sensitive after all I'm the one paying, eh?

 

Thanks for the input.

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About the paid guns....

 

Because of my rather remote location, I have only done overnites. The key is to be very specific about what you expect up front. I used to enjoy actually sleeping with the guys. But I always told them, no cuddling required.... So being in the same bed made that 3 am hard on an issue. Most of them were all about it. (Tyger, for one, was hard like 24/7 and woke me numerous times as did Bill/Portland). If you have talked about it and they know that 3 am sex could happen, the easiest way to get it going is some surprise oral on them.... a hot, wet mouth is usually all the inspiration a man needs to wake up... and once a guy is hard, well... most like a satisfying end, so to speak.

 

Nowadays, I get a suite for them and a room for me and David. And I assure every one that makes the trip, that once we're done and the lights are out, that I won't bother them again until morning. Now, if they choose to play some more amongst themselves, that's their decision...

 

I usually end up sometime in the night moving into my own bed. Just been single too long to really get comfortable sleeping with another person. And that's no refection on David. He's the perfect sleep partner and the only guy that I have let in my bed at all....

 

Just part of that jaded old maid stuff, I guess.

 

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H O L Y C R A P ! I'm the one in awe. over a 100 - you must have an unlimted budget and unlimited sex drive. I bow down to the true champion! All hail, jawjateck!!!!! Man do I want some of what you've got.

 

100+ sounds like alot, but remember I started this little hobby in July 2000, when I hired my first stud while on business in Denver.....yummm....what memories! :)

I'm no where as prolific as some of the hall of famers who used to hang around here. I have hired anywhere from 5-15 times annually, most of them overnights, weekends, trips, etc, and if you pursue this hobby as long as I have, it adds up. And believe me, my budget is not unlimited, but I have an actual fun fund, and as long as there is money in the fund, I play, take trips/vacations, hire Hoostuds, etc. I set aside some money for the fund annually; I keep about half of it invested, and the rest in cash. Some years I have used it up and laid low for awhile; other years, there just was not enough interest on my part to use it up. I have to admit that this year I set aside less for the fund, because like alot of businessmen and working professionals, the great recession has made its impact on me in the past 12 months. If I spend the fund or the investments don't perform well, I will go away and live to play another day. At least, I hope too! Regardless, these 11 years have been money well spent, and a joy investment for sure. Lots of happy good times! No regrets at all.

 

P.S. Check out Okie's other thread....Now there's a man with an unlimited budget and sex drive......Okie is the charter member of the Hooville slut's club! HA!

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Be naked and git all man sexxxed up all night long... be nice and provide food/beverages though~ Some guys I have been with like to go all night long and it;s great. Others like to spoon and snuggle up for a few hours. Thats great too~ Have fallen asleep after fucking a guy and woke up still inside of him and hard. great fun there too~ Food and beverages help to keep that stamina going.

 

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I provide food and beverages but it doesn't last more than an hour. I don't think I can handle more than that. I don't think you guys are exaggerating.. But I have a serious doubt that some of you can do it all night...

 

Be naked and git all man sexxxed up all night long... be nice and provide food/beverages though~ Some guys I have been with like to go all night long and it;s great. Others like to spoon and snuggle up for a few hours. Thats great too~ Have fallen asleep after fucking a guy and woke up still inside of him and hard. great fun there too~ Food and beverages help to keep that stamina going.

 

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Especially chocolate!:p:mad:

 

Oh the things one can do with frosting~ Fun to be able to eat and play at the same time~ Everything tastes soooo delicious~

 

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I just experienced my first overnite last month and I'm wondering why I waited so long to do this. I was very apprehensive about this since I am not the greatest sleeper and like to sleep alone. The saving grace of this was that I had spent multiple hours with the escort and we had discussed this matter in length since he likes to get some rest during the night. As a result it was absolutely fantastic!

Next month I will be spending a long weekend (3 overnites) with another phenomenal escort. In talking about this, we found out that he is a night person and I am an early riser. To give us a little space, I decided to upgrade to a suite which has a living and bedroom area--the escort said it would give him space to chase me, but this hunk will not have to chase me far--I'll be like a puppy and just roll over.

Just communicate your concerns, etc. beforehand and you both will be in for a real treat.

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Aww you guys are so cute~~~ Have fun~~

the escort said it would give him space to chase me, but this hunk will not have to chase me far--I'll be like a puppy and just roll over.

Just communicate your concerns, etc. beforehand and you both will be in for a real treat.

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I just experienced my first overnite last month and I'm wondering why I waited so long to do this. I was very apprehensive about this since I am not the greatest sleeper and like to sleep alone. The saving grace of this was that I had spent multiple hours with the escort and we had discussed this matter in length since he likes to get some rest during the night. As a result it was absolutely fantastic!

Next month I will be spending a long weekend (3 overnites) with another phenomenal escort. In talking about this, we found out that he is a night person and I am an early riser. To give us a little space, I decided to upgrade to a suite which has a living and bedroom area--the escort said it would give him space to chase me, but this hunk will not have to chase me far--I'll be like a puppy and just roll over.

Just communicate your concerns, etc. beforehand and you both will be in for a real treat.

 

Lol. Tell ty ill see him at the pool at 3am and you and romann can tell us how breakfast was lmao

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Whatever expectations you have, in order not to be disappointed, it's best to convey your expectations before you hire the escort. As long as you are clear as to what you are looking for, there shouldn't be any time period that would be "off limits". When I do an overnight, I'm always horned up for sex before we go to bed, hopefully in the middle of the night, and especially in the morning. For me, early morning sex is awesome.... waking up with naked a client and we both have our morning woodys, HOT!!!

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Lol. Tell ty ill see him at the pool at 3am and you and romann can tell us how breakfast was lmao

TC,

 

I assume that at 3 a.m. you and Ty will be "swimming" and in the a.m. Romann and I will be having "breakfast in bed".

 

This brings the old adage of "borrowing a cup of sugar from your neighbor" to a whole new level.

 

Reminds me of a sequel to Sophia, Rose, Dorothy, and Blanch in "Golden Girls Gone Bad"

 

Bill

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TC,

 

I assume that at 3 a.m. you and Ty will be "swimming" and in the a.m. Romann and I will be having "breakfast in bed".

 

This brings the old adage of "borrowing a cup of sugar from your neighbor" to a whole new level.

 

Reminds me of a sequel to Sophia, Rose, Dorothy, and Blanch in "Golden Girls Gone Bad"

 

Bill

Lmao. Ok bill im a night owl but not necessarily coherent. I actually meant swimming and breakfast. Lol. No double entendre intended. Though very funny.

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