Why would an escort put this in his ad?

[BSR]

I just saw a couple of escort ads that said, "looking for generous clients only." One listed a rate of $350/hour, the other $150/hour. What the heck is that supposed to mean?? Is it a none-too-subtle hint that the escort is expecting a tip on top of his listed rate? If that's the case, then why doesn't the $150/hour guy just charge more? The $350/hour guy didn't look to be worth the rather steep fee (granted, that's all in the eye of the beholder), so the notion of tipping on top of the $350 gets a "yeah, dream on" from me.

 

Isn't "looking for generous clients only" a red flag to potential clients? Or is the phrase code for something else? Or is it just that these particular working guys are tired of being taken to TGIFridays? If anyone can shed any light on this, please do, because I'm baffled.

[adriano46]

I have found the phrase "looking for generous clients" to be a put of - I was burned twice in the past with a young guy wo expected me to be his SUGAR DADDY, and that is a dangerous and $$$$ costly road to follow. And in the end, the sex become less exciting and more perfunctory.

 

I have mentioned in other threads, at my age (which I think may be common for many here - late '50's), I have a lot of deal-breakers built into my mind as I select guys these days. I x-out those on the high end spectrum (over $300 are not even given a glance); "bisexual" is another red flag for many; "pnp" is a no-go; "looking for generous clients" or "generous clients only" is another; and of course, "only those who send a photo first" is yet another.

 

Too bad most escort site "advanced search" engines do not include these catch phrases that I could use to filter out some more.

 

I am lucky that in most cities where I travel, I can still find my ideal (no more than $250/hr but with ability to adjust price for multiple hrs., 5'5"-6'1"; GAY, KISSER, Versatile-bottom; 150-220 lbs; generally no age restriction beyond "over 21", and most races are fine; NO TATOOS, NO PIERCINGS, smooth-shaved-hairy all fine as long as neat). That leaves me enough to choose from, I find.

[instudiocity]

I'm looking for generous escorts only, myself.

 

Yup, someone who puts that in an ad is telling more than he really should. It's an off-putting statement, "I'll give you this, IF you give me all your money." I would expect a menu of items to come in the house with the escort.

 

1. Getting me here ... $350

2. Getting me naked ... $150

3. Touching me ... $500

4. Me touching you ... Your House, Your Car, Your Bank Account!

[Diverdan]

Well said, instudiocity! I had one experience like this many years ago. After 15 minutes of talk and nothing else, I walked out and left a fraction of what he was asking for on the table as I went out the door. He started after me and I told him to stop and go back in his apartment or I was going to raise holy hell in the hallway and in the lobby. He went back in his apartment and the next day his ad was gone.

[Juan Vancouver]

I'm looking for generous escorts only.

 

Nice!

 

I celebrate that. I have to confess that when I find a generous client I feel incredibly lucky and blessed. However, my definition of generous may differ a little from the common one; paying my fee is not generous, it is just honouring an agreement that we made previously. To me real generosity is when the person that I am with opens up a little, shows a little more of himself than he thought possible, when he shares who he is and what he likes and lets me inside his body, inside his world, even for a little. That is to me real generosity and when that happens I feel very satisfied and excited because I truly believe that generosity has to happen both ways in any human interaction.

 

Here's to giving and receiving!

[instudiocity]

To me real generosity is when the person that I am with opens up a little, shows a little more of himself than he thought possible, when he shares who he is and what he likes and lets me inside his body, inside his world, even for a little. That is to me real generosity and when that happens I feel very satisfied and excited because I truly believe that generosity has to happen both ways in any human interaction.

 

Here's to giving and receiving!

Juan, You're a freaking MINDREADER! ME, TOO! I don't want just a Slam-Bam, Thank You, Sir. I want our time together to build toward a friendship, too.

[ChiTown]

Nice!

 

I celebrate that. I have to confess that when I find a generous client I feel incredibly lucky and blessed. However, my definition of generous may differ a little from the common one; paying my fee is not generous, it is just honouring an agreement that we made previously. To me real generosity is when the person that I am with opens up a little, shows a little more of himself than he thought possible, when he shares who he is and what he likes and lets me inside his body, inside his world, even for a little. That is to me real generosity and when that happens I feel very satisfied and excited because I truly believe that generosity has to happen both ways in any human interaction.

 

Here's to giving and receiving!

 

Thanks, Juan . . . very well said as usual. Afterall, isn't that what it is (or should be) all about, giving and receiving.

[Romann]

Right!

 

1. Getting me here ... $350

2. Getting me naked ... $150

3. Touching me ... $500

4. Me touching you ... Your house, your car, your bank account!

 

Priceless!

[orbital sander]

I just saw a couple of escort ads that said, "looking for generous clients only." One listed a rate of $350/hour, the other $150/hour. What the heck is that supposed to mean?? Is it a none-too-subtle hint that the escort is expecting a tip on top of his listed rate? If that's the case, then why doesn't the $150/hour guy just charge more? The $350/hour guy didn't look to be worth the rather steep fee (granted, that's all in the eye of the beholder), so the notion of tipping on top of the $350 gets a "yeah, dream on" from me.

 

Isn't "looking for generous clients only" a red flag to potential clients? Or is the phrase code for something else? Or is it just that these particular working guys are tired of being taken to TGIFridays? If anyone can shed any light on this, please do, because I'm baffled.

 

Well, I am not baffled by these guys, I just avoid them like the plague...

[jasoncarter_dfw]

My favorites are the ones that have something like this in their ad:

 

Incall: 200

VIP Incall: 300

 

So what's the difference?

[JoeBlow]

Reading "Seeking Generous Men Only" in a guy's ad profile would completely turn me off to this escort. No way would I hire him.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Maybe looking for generously endowed clients. Probably not, but that's where my mind is tonight.

[BSR]

OK, so "looking for generous clients only" isn't code for something else. What is even more baffling then is why on earth a client would actually hire an escort like that. But I guess some men are overachievers who will settle for nothing less than first-ballot induction into the PT Barnum Hall of Fame.

 

Besides "no games, no blocked calls," it's a wonder these working guys don't add "no crucifixes, no garlic."

[Guest greatness]

Juan you are so sweet and romantic...

 

Nice!

 

I celebrate that. I have to confess that when I find a generous client I feel incredibly lucky and blessed. However, my definition of generous may differ a little from the common one; paying my fee is not generous, it is just honouring an agreement that we made previously. To me real generosity is when the person that I am with opens up a little, shows a little more of himself than he thought possible, when he shares who he is and what he likes and lets me inside his body, inside his world, even for a little. That is to me real generosity and when that happens I feel very satisfied and excited because I truly believe that generosity has to happen both ways in any human interaction.

 

Here's to giving and receiving!

[leigh.bess.toad]

Nice!

 

I celebrate that. I have to confess that when I find a generous client I feel incredibly lucky and blessed. However, my definition of generous may differ a little from the common one; paying my fee is not generous, it is just honouring an agreement that we made previously. To me real generosity is when the person that I am with opens up a little, shows a little more of himself than he thought possible, when he shares who he is and what he likes and lets me inside his body, inside his world, even for a little. That is to me real generosity and when that happens I feel very satisfied and excited because I truly believe that generosity has to happen both ways in any human interaction.

 

Here's to giving and receiving!

 

The only thing to say after that post is you had me at the first "I". You are so absolutely amazing. Your sexiness knows no bounds does it? Un-freaking-real. That is what generosity is -- sharing of yourself, both physically, mentally and spiritually -- giving in to the whole experience. And that for me is the perfect match between escort and client. But, you knew that, didn't you? You are just incredible.

[seeker630]

My favorites are the ones that have something like this in their ad:

 

Incall: 200

VIP Incall: 300

 

So what's the difference?

 

A warm washcloth at the end?