The Man Behind The Screen Name

[Guest RyanCade]

I have had the privilege of spending quite a bit of time with a very special client/friend over the past year and a half. He has treated me and several other guys like kings. Well deserving of special acknowledgment.

 

He is an amazing cook and spends hours preparing gourmet meals with only the finest ingredients.

He pays close attention and is always looking for ways to make me and the other guys as comfortable as possible.

He gives from his heart with a genuine desire to be of service.

 

I have met many clients and there are a number of them who have touched my heart in a very special way. But even without the other treasures my friendship with this man makes my career as an escort worth while and without regret.

 

This man had to say good bye to his Mother yesterday, she passed at 1:05 pm If he had his way it would go unmentioned and he would continue to make sure everyone else was ok. I feel he deserves a lot of hugs and kind words from those who know and care for him.

 

This amazing man is FLGUY

 

With All My Love

RyanCade

[Steven_Draker]

Ryan, I'm really sorry to hear about that. Give this special man a hug from me.

 

Steven ~

[Diverdan]

Ryan,

Thanks for sharing... and two hugs from me to FLGUY too when you see him. I lost my mother many years ago, and I still get sad on her birthday.

DD

[Guest countryboywny]

I lost my mother 3 years ago. I think of her everyday with loving memories and I wish FLGUY the same.

[devonhunter]

I send my sincere condolences. I just lost my Grampa on 1/2/11, and I've been thinking a lot about the questions of life. I cannot wish that we feel better quickly after these losses, but I can wish that we heal completely in the time we need for our own processes. With much sympathy - Devon.

[ChiTown]

Ryan,

 

Please convey my heartfelt sympathy to FLGUY in the loss of his mother. Devon, my sympathy goes out to you as well in the recent loss of your dear Grampa . . . it's never easy to say goodbye. Hugs

[Traveler North]

Ryan, please give my friend flguy my deepest condolences on the lose of his mother. Message fron fourjogran(traveler north).

[dane michaels]

FLGUY is my first long term client that, as you outlined Ryan, one of the most thoughtful, kindest, and sincere men I have had the pleasure to work with and share time with. He has guided me, instructed me, and mentored me to be the best I can be. I am thankful to know that you are able to be there with him through this Ryan. I am traveling at the present, but please let him know that I will be planning to head North here shortly upon my return to NC.

 

I know many may not know him, but I know that every working guy who has come in contact with FLGUY has been touched by his sincerity as well as his love cooked meals and hospitality.

 

** FLGUY** I hope that you can find peace and calm through this and my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. XOXOXOXOX love you.

[Guest greatness]

Dear, Flguy

 

I send you my condolences. May your mother RIP. Hugs~~

[GoodFella69]

Dear FLGuy,

From the testimonies of those who know you well, your mother raised a very hospitable, special, caring man. She must have been so very proud of you. You are in my thoughts during this most difficult time. May your dear Mother rest in peace.

 

Goodfella

[justaguy]

Condolences on the passing of your mother. It is sad day to lose someone you love. Be well.

[happyguy2]

Sincere condolences to FLGUY on the loss of his mother. We will keep all of your family in our thoughts and prayers.

[gcursor]

Words can't express my sincere sorrow at the passing of your mom FLGUY. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. My mom passed away last August due to a terminal condition. I know that I miss her and she will always hold a special place in my soul.

gcursor

[Guest Ryaan_Morgan]

I know many may not know him, but I know that every working guy who has come in contact with FLGUY has been touched by his sincerity as well as his love cooked meals and hospitality.

 

** FLGUY** I hope that you can find peace and calm through this and my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. XOXOXOXOX love you.

 

I've had the privilege of meeting FLGUY through Dane and can honestly say that he is one of the most genuine people that I have ever met. FLGUY, you have helped me more over the past 2 months as a mentor to steer me in the right direction with everything that has come my way....I couldn't be more grateful! My thoughts and sympathies are with you!

 

...The angels are here for you Charlie!

[Guest antoanvegas]

Dear FlGuy,

I know what it is to lose a dear person, and especially mother.

I send you my most sincere condolences to you and my sympathize.

 

Dear people we are missing and this is normal, will remember and keep them always in our hearts.

But also we must find the strength to move forward because of other people we love.

[Guest blake andrews]

FLGUY, Truly a remarkable man, who does not deserve such grief. Being one of the most caring and compassion filled people I know, this is hard on him. Yet he will not let anyone see. I have had the great pleasure of meeting him a short while back, and in that time he has become not only a client, but a mentor, and friend. He and his family are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

XoXo Love ,

[+ glutes]

Rest In Peace Mama Flguy.

Brother Glutes

[flguy]

Thank you all, especially Ryan Cade

 

I want to thank everyone who responded to this thread and let them know how much your thoughts and prayers mean to me. Mom suffered from severe dementia for over 5 years not even recognizing me during this period so I know and accept she is in a much better place now. She was a favorite of the staff in the home where she lived and so many of them demonstrated their compassion by sitting with her and coming to the hospital to take care of her on their own time. This is a testament not only to my mom but to the staff of the facility where she resided. When you face the prospect of placing a loved one in a home it would be nice to know that they will receive the same loving care my mom received. My sister and I were with her in the end and that morning both said our goodbyes and told mom we were ok and she could go and be with dad. Knowing we were ok, and she had our love and blessings she passed quietly within the hour.

 

The person I have become in life, and the way I look at life and in particular how I treat people is solely attributed to my upbringing by both my parents. They molded me with love, guidance and the need for understanding and giving of my self for the needs of others without placing my own needs first. It is sad to think I will never receive this guidance again. I truly know she is with dad again and if there was any pain or suffering it is all over for her now. Grief and mourning are selfish on our part because we are thinking only of ourselves and our loss, not the joy of our loved one finally being free and with those they loved who passed before them. I know it will pass and I will be with both of them again one day and the support of friends helps this thought process immensely.

 

Now I need to especially thank Ryan Cade for being here with me to help me over the rough spots. Ryan is an extremely special man who is loving, caring, compassionate and extremely selfless with his time. It’s people like Ryan who make you understand the meaning of being a good friend and giving your love to others before thinking of yourself. Thank you Ryan for being you…. your love, understanding, patience and time. You have made this very trying time much easier for me.

 

Mom, thank you for giving me the life I've had and making me the person I am. I will always love you.

 

Thank You ALL for your kind posts and thoughts. FLGUY

[Guest greatness]

Thank you

 

Although you might miss the excellent guidance from your parents, I see that you have your parents' wonderful qualities in you and you are continuing their good deeds. In that sense your parents are still among us and we thank you for that. Hugs~~~

 

 

It is sad to think I will never receive this guidance again.

 

[seeker630]

Flguy, you appear to have been fortunate in both parents and friends - and the reactions of of the latter attest that the former did a great job of parenting, to have produced such a beloved son.

 

Condolences on the loss of your mother - I've been there too.