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I don't think Zack is Steven though because Steven and Zack both encouraged me on my Celine Deon post. Why would Steven hide his identity to do that? I think they are two separate people. As for Mr Cade Tom mentioned here, I do think that he has been treated unfairly. I think there was a big misunderstanding between Ryan and Tomcat. I hope they can make up.

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While who Zack may or may not be may be interesting its not important

He has his opinions I have mine. The rest as they say g.... is water under the bridge.

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Yes Tomcat, it may not be important for some people here and they would care less but it should be important for Steven to clear his name. Let's give him the benefit of the doubt and give a chance to clear his name.

 

While who Zack may or may not be may be interesting its not important

He has his opinions I have mine. The rest as they say g.... is water under the bridge.

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Yes Tomcat, it may not be important for some people here and they would care less but it should be important for Steven to clear his name.

 

What I meant was that it is unimportant and that it should not be a reflection on anyone. Everyone has a right to their opinion. Even escorts who cannot, given the nature of their profession, post openly on many topics. I have a great deal of understanding for an escort using a pseudonym to share their feelings/opinions that might otherwise turn off some potential hirers. So what I am saying is guessing at who it may be is really not important. Im trying to focus on the meaning not the personal.

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I understand your point Tom. I am not trying to argue with you. You have already suggested that it might be Steven on your other post, however. As I have said it may not be important for you at all and it doesn't matter to you but I am simply stating that it might matter a lot to Steven since you've stated that it might be him. Maybe I am wrong or biased but do you see my point? You are a lawyer and extremely smart so help me out here please if I am wrong.

 

What I meant was that it is unimportant and that it should not be a reflection on anyone. Everyone has a right to their opinion. Even escorts who cannot, given the nature of their profession, post openly on many topics. I have a great deal of understanding for an escort using a pseudonym to share their feelings/opinions that might otherwise turn off some potential hirers. So what I am saying is guessing at who it may be is really not important. Im trying to focus on the meaning not the personal.
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Truth hurts

 

I don't think Zack is Steven though because Steven and Zack both encouraged me on my Celine Deon post. Why would Steven hide his identity to do that? I think they are two separate people.

 

Nevermind. Often people who spend hours and hours on Anonymous Message Boards develop PARANOIA. As to my first and unique comment in this thread it wasn't intended to "poor on your parade". Living in Fantasy Land will inevitably lead to problems in the future. We'll talk again in a few years.

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Agreed lets see where the years take us all.

 

But to clarify my implication was not that it was Steven. Rather a poster using a pseudonym. If my reference was read that way it was not my intent nor belief at this point. Though reading back I do see how that could be inferred. Poor choice on my part perhaps. Thank you for pointing it out g.

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Well thank you for your elaboration. I hope I didn't offend you or anything. I am sorry that I have read it in a wrong way and I truly apologize for that.

 

Agreed lets see where the years take us all.

 

But to clarify my implication was not that it was Steven. Rather a poster using a pseudonym. If my reference was read that way it was not my intent nor belief at this point. Though reading back I do see how that could be inferred. Poor choice on my part perhaps. Thank you for pointing it out g.

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It's so cute that you guys can share thoughts without even saying it. Kisses and hugs~~~

 

:) :) :)
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Oh my you are so sweet... How can you come up with such a thing so fast? Do you have any plans to be on Jeopardy. I actually think that you will do well.

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Do you have any plans to be on Jeopardy. I actually think that you will do well.

 

Well ... my head is full of random crap, as MsGuy has kindly noted :), but nothing relevant seems to be available when I really need it. In business you can usually bluff your way, but I would bomb out of Jeopardy in 4 minutes.

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Well Steven, I don't get why your last comment is necessary. I think Tom is a great guy. He is sensible and friendly to all most anyone on this forum. I think he is a witty and pleasant guy. Most of all, I don't think he lives in a fantasy world. He is being honest about his struggles and is open about his family life. I admire the steps he has taken to be true to himself. I think he should be applauded for that. If he were living in a fantasy world then I would be too. Tom started this thread to thank people who helped him to reach where he is at right now so let it be. We all grow and mature as we age more so we will see how things turn out later as you have said. Let's wish for the best. I bet you are worried about things might happen to a gay guy but as you know our society changes too. What could be illegal today might be legal tomorrow and vice versa. I'm not saying what Tom did was illegal or bad just opening a little bit of room in our minds to accept change and new directions in one's life. Let's be open minded and open our hearts to people around us. We all are lonely and want love. Even though that love kills us and harm us, I think I will die happy rather than angry and resentful.

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But you will be my eye candy on Jeopardy even though you only last 4 minutes. Frankly, I think you will win for at least several weeks. You just don't want me to stalk you as an audience. :) I know it.

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Adam does this help ... can you read my mind now?

 

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_XFS952PUlmQ/TJUWEQNjGlI/AAAAAAAACjk/jFeIa_b4AVE/s1600/children+of+the+corn.jpg

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oh my.. that's scary.. Kisses and hugs~~~

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Well ... my head is full of random crap, as MsGuy has kindly noted :).

 

Did I really say that? (sigh) Who knew I was capable of producing such a delightfully accurate bon mot? Alas, premature senility negates any possiblity of enlivening my duller moments by recalling such a glorious achievement into active memory.

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MsGuy,, I just love you. I love witty guys.. I mean MsGuy.. Kisses and hugs~~~

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Well thank you for your elaboration. I hope I didn't offend you or anything. I am sorry that I have read it in a wrong way and I truly apologize for that.

 

None necessary at all G. My error as I said. No offense taken from this in the slightest

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Aww Tom you are just so sweet. I would give you a kiss if you were next to me right now. Kisses and kisses from the South~~

 

None necessary at all G. My error as I said. No offense taken from this in the slightest
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Aww Tom you are just so sweet. I would give you a kiss if you were next to me right now. Kisses and kisses from the South~~

 

Please don't take this the wrong way dear, but WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU STILL DOING IN THE SOUTH WHEN YOU SHOULD BE IN HAWAII BY NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Your singing colonel

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Well talk about showing up a day late and 71 posts short . . .

 

Let me add my belated huzzahs on the anniversary of your reincarnation. I followed a similar route at a similar age just two decades earlier and despite what Stephen warns, the fantasy continues on still. And like you I've made a similar radical physical transformation. What Zack can't know is how supportive you've been privately. I've enjoyed your company personally, here on line and in private notes and look forward to continue to do so. All the best . . .

 

And thanks for dragging PK back here. I sorely miss his posts here.

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Oh my Leigh... You have no idea where I'm at right now. Kisses and hugs~~~

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