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Flipping and the female condom

 

The female condom is convenient for one-on-one sessions. I wouldn't recommend it (as someone mention in another thread)

for gang bangs or orgies since it has to be changed for each top.

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If there is one dominant guy and multiple bottoms, it can also be hot when the top orders the bottoms to fuck one another. This is often mixed with some form of verbal humiliation from the top. Depending on one's perspective, this can significantly add to the thrill of it all.

 

It nice to have a few holes lines up, then when the top wants to take a break, get a drink etc, he orders one of the bottoms to keep the other bottoms hole ready.

It's also fun to have a top who keeps the bottoms warmed up until the alpha top arrives etc.

Also people sometimes forget that restraints can work on the guy in the sling OR the top at the foot of the sling.

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Notice Raul I said its work once or twice. Its definately twice you are one and you pretty much nailed our encounter right Here. And yes you and romann have been the only ones I stayed hard through bottoming so that such flipping was possible. :)

 

Some people respond well to some kissing, fondling, etc, while being pounded, also I think changing it up and letting power, dominance, intensity ebb and flow, back and forth sometimes makes for a good prelude to flipping. To me the back and forth (of intensity not necessarily fucking) is what makes man-sex great. Kind of like playing ball, wrestling or boxing, it is fun when it is back and forth and not just one guy completely routing / pummeling the other guy.

To me a mans strength is most impressive when you also get at least a glimpse his tenderness and flexibilty.

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The female condom is convenient for one-on-one sessions. I wouldn't recommend it (as someone mention in another thread)

for gang bangs or orgies since it has to be changed for each top.[/color]

 

Not necessarily.

Depends on where the dicks are going and the various protocols of the players.

If one NEVER gets an un-condomed blow job, and never rubs his dick bare against another then yes you are correct.

The female condom is very useful if a bottom wishes to protect himself from say two tops that play would otherwise raw.

If the tops wish to protect themselves they may also but the point is that the bottom has protection. Of course the bottom needs

to insure that the condom doesn't break etc.

But in this case the tops exposure is potentially less than if they were both fucking the same guys mouth.

 

Just to clarify, if one is concerned about penis to penis contact then you are correct. But many of us do get and

give blowjobs without a condom and many of do routinly rub our dicks together.

 

But also of course the top may also have a traditional condom in addition to the bottom wearing a female condom.

Though in that case there be lots of lube otherwise

the condoms could pullout. push in, or rip.

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But also of course the top may also have a traditional condom in addition to the bottom wearing a female condom

 

This doesn't sound like a good idea to me, Raul. Two condoms rubbing one against the other present a higher risk of breakage (independently of the quantity of lube applied). The risk of slippage also has to be considered in that case.

 

... to protect himself from say two tops that play would otherwise raw. If the tops wish to protect themselves ...

 

I'm not sure what you mean by two tops playing "raw" ... I'm more concerned about fluids and pre-cum being "shared" in the female condom by the tops. I wouldn't like to compare the inside of the female condom with the bottom's mouth.

 

At the end of the day this boils down to personal comfort. I have to agree with you that this is still a 'gray zone' and personally I'd rather be safe than sorry.

 

Hugs, Steven ~

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Sounds Hhhhhhot to me~ Tomcat, all male, masculine, dom here but flip for that all male "Hard" core reaction. Dom and Top does not mean Top denies himself the carnal pleasures of taking it up the ass. His sub simply has to comply someway. I'd still be Dom and Top by nature... don't mean I don't like my ass played with though... As a Top, I just like my sub to take care of the needs of my sometimes Hot Hungry hole~ Flip Flop??? Grrarrrr~!

U intrigue me~

Tyger!

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Ok so as you all know too much about me Anyway... lol. I've recently been having my most active gay sex life ever. Discovering as much as I can about men and me. When I started as a teenager I was clearly a bottom. That was my interest almost too exclusivity. More recently I've been describing myself as a top Though with certain. People I prefer bottoming still.

 

Im noticing that with different men and my own different moods my preferences change. I figure this is pretty normal. But given my experiences are somewhat broken up by periods of marriage. Im wondering. Is it common for the proverbial leopard to change its spots. I mean throughout the course of life's sexual encounters do alot of people shift their preferences.

 

For example I've noticed That for me... right now.... when im feeling like aggressive rough sex I tend to want to top. Literally a more aggressive anonymous type of encounter

Were as bottoming for me is a more passionate and intimate experience. Something im only comfortable with when I know the partner well.

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Sounds Hhhhhhot to me~ Tomcat, all male, masculine, dom here but flip for that all male "Hard" core reaction. Dom and Top does not mean Top denies himself the carnal pleasures of taking it up the ass. His sub simply has to comply someway. I'd still be Dom and Top by nature... don't mean I don't like my ass played with though... As a Top, I just like my sub to take care of the needs of my sometimes Hot Hungry hole~ Flip Flop??? Grrarrrr~!

U intrigue me~

Tyger!

[email protected]

503.719.9274

http://www.tygerscent.biz

http://www.daddysreviews.com/area.ph...tyger_portland

http://www.maleescortreview.com (Tygerscent in Portland, Oregon)

http://www.rentmen.com (AAAtygerscentXXX in Portland Oregon)

http://www.men4rentnow.com (tygerscent in Portland, Oregon)

 

well shit... you have intrigued me since I first saw your coverboy christmas card... WOW

 

OK so one tyger, one panther tomcat, and a leo... hmmm I think im begining to understand why when you get a bunch of cats together they call it "pride" Knowing Romann, having read and heard so much about you might be an interesting night setting up the power roles in that pride. Im not sure betty davis's bumpy night even comes close to describing it but I'd love to find out. anyplans to visit manhattan for the rockefeller center tree or new years. I can think of some balls Id like to watch drop for the holiday

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Hey Tom,

Let me know if this works out.... I'd love to come and film and join in... even though I am a Virgo, I am definitely not a virgin !!!!!

Dan

 

Now just hold on here one cotton picking minute Dan. You know I love you but I still do have exclusive worldwide broadcast rights to any combination of Tyger, Romann and Tom. I'm willing to hire a new grip boy (guess what you get to grip?). Are you up to it???

 

roflmao

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Hey Tom,

Let me know if this works out.... I'd love to come and film and join in... even though I am a Virgo, I am definitely not a virgin !!!!!

Dan

 

A Virgo? Okay then your gonna need a Libra to join in to balance things out.

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Hey Lee,

You would be jealous of my ability to grip... not only grip, but put things in the right places for however long it takes to achieve the desired results !!! I was in theater in college so I know all the roles.... but you will have a grip man... NOT a grip boy... but I know that is what you and the other guys will really want anyway. This should give you something to think about and fantasize about for a day or two for sure!

Dan

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Hey Lee,

You would be jealous of my ability to grip... not only grip, but put things in the right places for however long it takes to achieve the desired results !!! I was in theater in college so I know all the roles.... but you will have a grip man... NOT a grip boy... but I know that is what you and the other guys will really want anyway. This should give you something to think about and fantasize about for a day or two for sure!

Dan

 

Only a day or two? You're kidding right? I think you're selling yourself WAAAAAY short.

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A Virgo? Okay then your gonna need a Libra to join in to balance things out.

 

All I know is that if Master Tyger and Master Romann are involved and I don't get an invite, I am going to be so PIIIIIIIIIIIISED you don't want to know. I've told you all before I don't get angry or mad easily. Just try me on this one. You'll get whiplash seeing me go from calm to nuclear if I don't get that invite.

 

If that's ok with you, Master Tyger and Master Romann.

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What a fantasy......

 

Master Tyger and Master Romann.... the mind just can't fathom it...

 

But boys, one of you does deserve a rather severe spanking... (I will leave that to Ty)... and I'm talking to you, Tomcat..... what exactly were you thinking??????? Betty Davis? Oh, no sir, never, ever with a "y"... it's Bette Davis or not at all... perhaps, you should just stick with Miss Davis in the future...

 

Know that you are a late bloomer and all, but you are so good with show tunes....

 

Seriously, hope that you all get the Masters together... have been with Ty every now and again since the beginning of this phase of my life..... he's a classic.... not to be missed, the best.

 

Okie

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Master Tyger and Master Romann.... the mind just can't fathom it...

 

But boys, one of you does deserve a rather severe spanking... (I will leave that to Ty)... and I'm talking to you, Tomcat..... what exactly were you thinking??????? Betty Davis? Oh, no sir, never, ever with a "y"... it's Bette Davis or not at all... perhaps, you should just stick with Miss Davis in the future...

 

Know that you are a late bloomer and all, but you are so good with show tunes....

 

Seriously, hope that you all get the Masters together... have been with Ty every now and again since the beginning of this phase of my life..... he's a classic.... not to be missed, the best.

 

Okie

 

OMFG. Okie, I can't believe I missed that either. I guess we're all going to have to be drummed out of the Gay Man's Alliance. Our Gay Card has herewith been revoked. Sorry tomcat -- no playdate with either one any more. I only missed it, you're the one who misspelled it. You're toast. Done, Finito, Washed Up, Over the Hill. Kaput. One of the goddesses and he misspelled her name. Well at least he didn't misspell Judi Garland or Lisa Minelli

 

(It's a joke boys -- relax -- I know the correct spelling is L-O-R-N-A L-U-F-T).

 

However, just this once, I guess I'm willing to step up and take the spanking. Please???

 

Maybe we ought to take pre-book orders on the video of an encounter with the three of them. I can see it now: "And the top of the Blockbusters chart this week ..." :)

 

D'Artagnan

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A Virgo? Okay then your gonna need a Libra to join in to balance things out.

 

Well, if you guys need a fluffer, I can send you my resume. I am a libra, even if I am not much for being taped.

 

Whatever I can do to be of service.

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I've heard that it's nice....

 

to share...

 

Not that I ever have, much.... but, I might have a couple of dvds laying about the place that might possibly be of interest....

 

That is, if the sword cuts both ways...

 

If you boys do set up your dream date, I would be mighty interested to see if the occasion rises to your expectations....

 

Okie

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Well, if you guys need a fluffer, I can send you my resume. I am a libra, even if I am not much for being taped.

 

Whatever I can do to be of service.

 

Oh please Juan. Fluffer? Really? You! You sir, are the star of your own show, my friend. You are never meant to be back stage. You know that you are the thing that fuels lusts and wanton desires in many of us. Fluffer? Not a chance in the world.

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Well now...if Lee doesn't want you to be his fluffer, I have no problem with your being mine :)

 

If you want him to be your fluffer, justaguy, go for it. As for me, Juan is going to be the fluffee, not the fluffer. So I'll go low, you go high and well meet in the middle. Deal?

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Now I start out with a perfectly innocent request for the idea of some private two on one time with two hot cats and just because my autospell correction feature of my phone corrected Bette without my catching it suddenly im staring in the film version of cats. With Juan and Raul on staff and costaring my initial two offerors. If anyone questions why I love this place.... there is your answer. Woof!

Grip away... fluff away...bring on the Libra and Virgo. After all these cats need Something to hunt. Now if you can just get Brandon to handle my wardrobe and make up.... I'll be ready for my close up Mr demille. Hope fully a Ms Swanson reference will help make up for my previous Ms Davis faux pas

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Labels.

 

Sexual preference, for me at least depends on my chemistry with the person. While with some, I'm a total bottom, with others, I'm versatile and then there are those that I'm the top dog, again, all depending on my chemistry mix with the person. Don't get too hung up on the labels because you never know what's just around the corner. Go with the flow, communicate with your partner and in most cases, all the pieces will fall into place and you'll be bouncing on my cock like a kid on a pogo-stick! BOINK!

 

Oh wait, that's in October!

 

By nature, I have a pretty dominant personality and that is expressed in many different ways.

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Sexual preference, for me at least depends on my chemistry with the person. While with some, I'm a total bottom, with others, I'm versatile and then there are those that I'm the top dog, again, all depending on my chemistry mix with the person. Don't get too hung up on the labels because you never know what's just around the corner. Go with the flow, communicate with your partner and in most cases, all the pieces will fall into place and you'll be bouncing on my cock like a kid on a pogo-stick! BOINK!

 

Oh wait, that's in October!

 

By nature, I have a pretty dominant personality and that is expressed in many different ways.

 

You most certainly do. And I would definately say its brought out the bottom in me :)

We will Just have to try to prove that pogo theory in October. Such sacrufices but im there to learn. Thank god

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