whats been going on

[Guest RushNY]

well i know i aint been around for a while so i thought i would update if anyone cared,the main reason i havent been around (stop cheering at the back:+ is that i didnt have a computer my old one which was like outta the stone age died on me and i was too busy to get round to replacing it,also i split up with my BF mind you i saw that coming but hoped it wouldnt happen but hey thems the breaks

 

I think it was a age thing he was 27 im 39 he wanted a bit more openness in the relationship i didnt and to be truthful after the s-h-i-t of the past 12 months he had to put up with im surprised he lasted as long as he did

 

strange thing is that about two weeks after we split at the beginning of july i started dating again which was a hellof a shock its going slow but fine hes a cop as well (its easier believe me )and everythings just hunky dory,hope everyones fine and dandy and theres hasnt been too many hysteronics and name calling,back bitching and bitching having a quick look thru some threads it seems that things have calmed down .:*

[trilingual]

Glad to see you're back! Sorry about the BF, but it's a good sign that you're feeling solid enough to start dating. I hope you're maintaining in other ways, too. With all the hoo-hah about the upcoming anniversary of 9/11, I'm sure it's going to stir up difficult memories. Just be prepared if they well up again; it's only natural after such a traumatic experience. But you're obviously a pretty resilient guy, so I'm not too worried that you'll feel overwhelmed.

 

Keep us posted on the progress of the new romance. . . :-)

[BuckyXTC]

Hi Rush:

 

It's great to see you back. You were missed. I took about 6 months off from this place after a blowout here in January, and yes, things do seem to have calmed down. Lots of things happen in that period of time. Anyway, welcome back!!!!! I look forward to your posts.

 

Bucky;-)

[Guest Fin Fang Foom]

Welcome back.

 

It appears most, but unfortunately not all, of the "trouble makers" have had their meds adjusted so things have been a bit more placid than usual.

 

Quietly yours,

 

FFF

[Houston Bonfires]

Hey Rush,

 

It's great to see you posting again my friend. I've missed your sweet humor and good nature and intelligence. We are still here and in some cases even better than before. More respect, more sex, more good natured ribbing, more sex etc...

 

:9 :9 H B

[chrismac]

Hey Rush - I was just thinking about you the other day after talking with a police officer on the phone (he sounded really cool) - and was wondering about you.

 

A gay police officer - that really intrigues me. I'd love to meet one someday.

 

Best wishes and welcome back.

[Bilbo]

I've been missing you, too. Not only are you warm and humorous, but butch and manly, too. You'd scare me if we were in bed together. I usually don't let anyone do what some people have been known to get away with. (Safe to flirt with three states or so in between us.)

[Houston Bonfires]

Come on Bilbo,

 

I saw you in that Pride Parade. Nothing scares you.

 

H B

[Bilbo]

Wow! Flirting in my same city!

 

Did you just love the orange feathers? I didn't think I'd be able to borrow that color anywhere, but I did.

 

"Never say no to yourself. That's someone else's job."

[Houston Bonfires]

Those feathers were just your color . . . not that they matched your eyes or anything. Still holding my breath till our first unexpected meeting.

 

H B