Voyeurism - a psychosexual disorder

[doitb4ugo]

Voyeurism seems to be a very passive activity. I am very much into watching porn which seems to me to be at least partially voyeuristic in nature. I have very restricted visual senses when I am in the scene and am wondering if watching somehow would be different for me....I would assume that you would need at least a three way to achieve the end result of being able to watch in real life....I think this for me is another way to disappear as part of the sex act...and move the focus onto someone/something else...

 

Have people out there experienced a session like this or at least have had curiosity about what it might be like,,,,

[NYTomcat]

Voyeurism seems to be a very passive activity. I am very much into watching porn which seems to me to be at least partially voyeuristic in nature. I have very restricted visual senses when I am in the scene and am wondering if watching somehow would be different for me....I would assume that you would need at least a three way to achieve the end result of being able to watch in real life....I think this for me is another way to disappear as part of the sex act...and move the focus onto someone/something else...

 

Have people out there experienced a session like this or at least have had curiosity about what it might be like,,,,

 

Now wait one second MR. You advertised for an Orgy and NO we are not letting you sit on the sidelines and watch... nice try

[+ Lucky]

I was telling someone about Cam4.com, which consists of lots of exhibitionists, and he said that most voyeurs were also exhibitionists. True?

I mean, I like to look, but I never thought I was also an exhibitionist.

[doitb4ugo]

Now wait one second MR. You advertised for an Orgy and NO we are not letting you sit on the sidelines and watch... nice try

 

Just for a few minutes, please....It will help get the numbers to balance out better.

 

Like to watch does not preclude liking to do....As I have mentioned elsewhere, I have trouble holding onto visual images. There are two reasons for this. First, I think I am too close to the guy to get a view of the whole guy. Secondly, when close and performing, I tend to close my eyes yet do not know i'm doing it....I have commented to a few escorts that I think I'm improving in keeping my eyes open only to hear that they were closed mostly.

 

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[NYTomcat]

I was telling someone about Cam4.com, which consists of lots of exhibitionists, and he said that most voyeurs were also exhibitionists. True?

I mean, I like to look, but I never thought I was also an exhibitionist.

 

I think There is a modicum of truth in this. While I believe that many voyeurs would like to envision themselves the exhibitionist. They like me often lack the confidence or fortitude to actual become the exhibitionist. Thus they watch and fantasize. IMHO.

[whipped guy]

A couple of thoughts

 

I really don't like to watch porn... If usually end up pushing the fast forward button. However, if there are well placed mirrors I do get a kick out of seeing myself in action. That way you can be close to the guy and view the whole picture at the same time... that is if you keep your eyes open... and focus...

 

I think one needs to first get it on in a public setting such as a sex club... and just let it all hang out in a place where others are acting in a similar fashion... one can feel quite normal and blend into the woodwork in such a setting... Perhaps that might be one way to break the ice so as to turn fantasy into reality.