Fort Lauderdale Trip

[dfw2sfo]

Spent last night in Fort Lauderdale and had a good time however...

 

I didn't consult this board before venturing out and went to Johnny's first. I'm not into twinks so after an $8 valet, $5 cover (or so) and I think a $9 drink I left after half a drink. Johnny's is THE place if you are into twinks.

 

Went to Boardwalk next where I had been before. I had a nice time with a guy named Eduardo who is a VERY TALL guy from Brazil. He was great but that was closer to the end of the night. There was also a guy who I had seen before at Swinging Richard's in Atlanta but can't remember his name.

 

My big complaint about was just how aggressive the dancers were. Maybe I just need to be assertive and say, "No thank you" from the beginning. I don't mind giving a few dollars to a guy I'm either mildly or not interested in but it seems that makes all of them come up to you. I wanted to have one of those red/green cards from a Brazilian steakhouse to say yes - more please or no - I'm fine.

 

The other piece was just being aggressive about trying to give lapdances. A few tried to take my hand and say, "Come with me." I just said I wasn't interested and they continued to try to get me back there. Another one insisted on giving me his number when I said I was fine.

 

In the end, I do think I just need to be more assertive. The result was that I went through $250 which would have gone further if I only tipped the guys in which I was interested.

[ncc1701d]

Pretty much the same as my experience there in January. Very aggressive and one guy clearly didn't understand no means no! Then there was one super hot one that I probably would have ask to come "home" with me but he seem to like his blackberry more than the audience so he never got a dime out of me :-) I also find the definition of a song very variable, and sometimes three seconds! I find Montreal bars much more relaxed, and the eye contact method works well, and the backroom much more private than this.