v- day Gifts to Give Your Guy No Matter How Long You've Been Together

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V-Day Gifts to Give Your Guy No Matter How Long You’ve Been Together

 

by Cosmopolitan.com, on Thu Jan 21, 2010 8:18am PST

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Valentine’s Day is a loaded holiday when it comes to picking out the right gift for your man. What you buy reflects how you see him and the relationship, so you want to get something thoughtful, creative, and appropriate for the amount of time you’ve been together. We know guys are notoriously tough to shop for, so our guide is full of great outside-the-box ideas for every stage of coupledom. And while you are shopping, don't forget to pick up a little something for yourself.

Less Than 3 Months

 

If you’ve just started dating, keep your gift casual. At this point, anything expensive or too personal will send a scary I-like-you-a-little-too-much message. Plan to spend around $20-$25 on something simple but sweet, like a DVD of a movie he really liked — such as The Hangover) — or a book by one of his favorite authors (A Michael Crichton novel was just published).

 

3-6 Months

 

This is a tricky in-between phase: You’re an official couple, but are still getting to know each other. Impress him by finding something creative that’s totally him. For example, if he’s always taking pictures, get him a gorillapod.

 

7-11 Months

 

Okay, things are starting to get serious (even if he’s yet to admit it). A fun gift for this stage in the relationship is an experience you can have together, so you’ll build more shared memories. Try tickets to a concert (The Black Eyed Peas and Bon Jovi are touring in February) or an NBA or NHL game.

 

1-2 Years

 

You’ve crossed over into the long-term commitment zone, so this is a great time to commemorate your relationship or show off how well you know him. Frame a cute picture of the two of you (have it printed out nicely, in black and white), or find something that will remind him of a fun time you had together. You can spend a bit more now that you’re pretty serious ($100-$200, depending on your budget) on a big-ticket item. Here's a really cool idea: ballpark cuff links made from the stadium seats from his favorite team.

 

More Than 3 Years

After years of birthdays and holidays together, it gets tougher and tougher to come up with surprising gifts. A lot of women just grab stuff he needs, like socks or new button-downs, which is nice and all...but boring. Instead, get him a present where he’ll learn something new. If he’s adventurous, book him an exciting experience, like a flying lesson or hang gliding. (Excitations.com offers a ton of amazing gift ideas.) Or, book a weekend getaway at a romantic hotel in a nearby town where you can spend lots and lots of time in bed.

[Guest TBinCHI]

No offense, greatness

 

But I can't stand Valentine's Day. I think it sucks even if you are in a relationship as there is so much pressure to buy flowers, or go out to an expensive dinner, or some such thing. It is even worse if you are not in a relationship and not dating anyone. Talk about a day to feel invisible and insignificant. I have learned to tune out vd, even when I was dating or in a relationship. I simply told the person that I was involved with that I show my love and affection in numerous ways over the course of the year and didn't feel the need to conform to this Hallmark holiday.

[Guest greatness]

lol

 

Exactly. Thought it was silly that one has to come up with guidelines in giving v-day gifts. The title betrays the content of the article, too. I totally agree with you that you show love and affection in numerous ways over the course of the year. I really like that. You are so sweet.

 

But I can't stand Valentine's Day. I think it sucks even if you are in a relationship as there is so much pressure to buy flowers, or go out to an expensive dinner, or some such thing. It is even worse if you are not in a relationship and not dating anyone. Talk about a day to feel invisible and insignificant. I have learned to tune out vd, even when I was dating or in a relationship. I simply told the person that I was involved with that I show my love and affection in numerous ways over the course of the year and didn't feel the need to conform to this Hallmark holiday.

[MsGuy]

???? Does that mean I should send back the V-day gift I got for you, greatness?

[Guest greatness]

Nope~~

 

You should not.. Please send it via an express mail (Overnight preferred) lol.. I know what it is... Something in a little red box.

 

???? Does that mean I should send back the V-day gift I got for you, greatness?

[+ deej]

Nothing says "I love you" like a Gorillapod. LOL

[Rick Munroe]

I'm sure all of the straight women who read this message board appreciated the tips!