Bottom... Top... Versatile...

[NYTomcat]

Ok during a conversation with another forum member I was asked about something that as a newbie Im still not sure about myself so here goes.

 

Most escorts make their positions and or versatility fairly clear in there ads. However we all know that any of these "positions" are more a spectrum than an absolute. A newbie recently asked me and I wasn't sure how to answer what if you really like the escort and maybe even have seen them a few times and now you want to try something different. Given that you're more comfortable with the escort you know, is it appropriate to even ask if they will step out of their comfort zone or is that just pushing the limits?

 

This made me wonder, are escorts more versatile with their clientele or are these roles very firm and stagnant... I'm not sure. so any input from clients and escorts would be appreciated.

[+ deej]

Nothing wrong with asking politely, but be prepared to accept the answer.

[orbital sander]

Well, I have experienced some who are flexible, and some who are not. I remember spending time with a guy who did not kiss...but low & behold that changed after 3-4 dates (and I never asked). I would suspect that some have to become comfortable before expanding into certain areas.

 

Another phenomenon that I always found curious was the "versatile top"...what the heck is that about?

[NYTomcat]

Another phenomenon that I always found curious was the "versatile top"...what the heck is that about?

 

LMAO, I know, I gather its a "probably not but maybe someday I'll bottom". Either that or Im versatile as to how Im gonna fuck you.

[Guest RyanCade]

Not Always

 

LMAO, I know, I gather its a "probably not but maybe someday I'll bottom". Either that or Im versatile as to how Im gonna fuck you.

 

That's not necessarily the case; I consider myself a "versatile top". In my case it means, I am versatile, but my preference is more than 50% top,

[NYTomcat]

Just a joke Ryan. Thats the category I put myself in. LOL

 

But promise when I'm in that less that 50% mood I'll be headed to hotlanta

[BaronArtz]

Not a bad way to get repeat business, especially from clients that you are comfortable with. "Not today, but at one of our next get-togethers I will be glad to explore (fill in the blank) with you ...." Oldest trick in the business.

[NYTomcat]

Not a bad way to get repeat business, especially from clients that you are comfortable with. "Not today, but at one of our next get-togethers I will be glad to explore (fill in the blank) with you ...." Oldest trick in the business.

 

One of the greatest PT Barnum quotes:

 

"Never give them the whole show... it keeps'em coming back for more"

 

ranks up there with "There's one born every minute"

[+ Gar1eth]

Not a bad way to get repeat business, especially from clients that you are comfortable with. "Not today, but at one of our next get-togethers I will be glad to explore (fill in the blank) with you ...." Oldest trick in the business.

 

Since I don't usually live in a city with a lot of escorts, I usually have to bring them to me. I like to know what to expect beforehand if I've brought the guy to me. That attitude also spills over to my meetings with local guys--if someone said something like that to me, I'd probably take his number out of my little black book (cell phone directory being the modern day equivalent). On the other hand, I am very vanilla. It's not like my requests are very out there--passionate kissing, oral, and topping.

 

I also blush to admit that I am planning on making an exception to the rule--once. An escort basically lied to me recently about whether he was into French kissing. When I got there, he said that he had just recently had some type of dental work and couldn't. However this guy had one of the best bodies I had ever seen--he could have stepped off the set of any porn set (by that I mean he actually did look better than his pictures--a rare occurrence in my experience even for the best reviewed escorts on here).

 

Gman

[Guest KevinMead]

We as Escorts must change

 

Servicing our clients is the first and formost. As escorts, we must be willing to think about our clients request at all times. If you don't, why are you escorting. It's about the clients and that's all that has to be said. If the escort is a strick bottom and has a client who wants the escort to top him; the escort should decline the session. Now, getting to the questions or commment. As escorts, we must be willing to make sure our clients are completely satisfied at all times. If the client and escort have established a good repor with each other, the question that the client has should not make a ripple. "to offend someone, is when you have not disclosed the entire truth" Donald Trump........

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ok during a conversation with another forum member I was asked about something that as a newbie Im still not sure about myself so here goes.

 

Most escorts make their positions and or versatility fairly clear in there ads. However we all know that any of these "positions" are more a spectrum than an absolute. A newbie recently asked me and I wasn't sure how to answer what if you really like the escort and maybe even have seen them a few times and now you want to try something different. Given that you're more comfortable with the escort you know, is it appropriate to even ask if they will step out of their comfort zone or is that just pushing the limits?

 

This made me wonder, are escorts more versatile with their clientele or are these roles very firm and stagnant... I'm not sure. so any input from clients and escorts would be appreciated.

[Guest Merlin]

Some escorts advertise limited services until they see the client, how clean he is and how big his dick is. Then they may be willing to expand their itinerary. Some will want to charge extra for non-advertised services. In any event, it doesn't hurt to ask.