Has your sex life improved...?

[foxy]

...after a good encounter with an escort? I'm talking about your "regular" sex life. Does your boyfriend start looking hot again? Do you feel more confident in approaching guys in bars? Do you score more? It works for me, what about you?

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Are you on crack or just way way under 40?? :-)

[+ Axiom2001]

Great answer--TampaYankee...! The question formerly was: What are you smoking!

 

After reading the thread-- I became mighty curious by it since it's on this particular website and forum.

[Guest Chazzz69]

Do you score more? It works for me, what about you?

 

Damn good question. A resounding YES! At least in my case.

 

One of the positives I find about hiring escorts is the opportunity to explore new experiences. I have had some really great encounters with escorts (one this morning if that's not too revealing, review to be posted later) that have subsequently made my non escort related contacts much more pleasurable.

 

I have scored more often when going out, if hooking up is what I am in the mood for at the time. Think of it as a sexual self confidence enhancer. After my most recent experience I have no doubt the next time I meet up with someone he is going to really be taken for a wild ride.

 

Everyone has various degrees of experience when it comes to sex. Escorts obviously have more than your average person. It seems logical that clients would learn something from this body of experience and that it would be translated into their own personal encounters. I know that such is the case for me and would assume that the same is true for others in some degree.

 

I would also think that the reverse is true on the escort side of the equation. What about it guys? Have you had encounters with clients that have "taught" you something that you have then later used on other clients?

 

Chazzz69

[Matt_Vancouver]

>Are you on crack or just way way under 40?? :-)

 

Now now....

I think it's a valid question, I've heard from many men that after hiring someone their 'traditional' sex lives have improved. Some have even noticeably become more confident in their sexuality.

This all goes back to the 'Escorts as a diet incentive' thread. Human psychology is confusing at best, but don't rule out someone elses experience just because yours isn't the same: )

Matt(feelings of freudism)

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

>>Are you on crack or just way way under 40?? :-)

>

>Now now....

>I think it's a valid question, I've heard from many men that

>after hiring someone their 'traditional' sex lives have

>improved. Some have even noticeably become more confident in

>their sexuality.

>This all goes back to the 'Escorts as a diet incentive'

>thread. Human psychology is confusing at best, but don't

>rule out someone elses experience just because yours isn't

>the same: )

>Matt(feelings of freudism)

 

 

II'll rise to the bait... just because you are so sweet; and we never have anything to talk about. :-)

 

>I've heard from many men that

>after hiring someone their 'traditional' sex lives have

>improved.

 

No doubt, but it seems to me that this probably applies in the vast majority of cases to those in a monogamous relationship that has grown lackluster over time -- due to routine 'living by the numbers' as developed over time by 'programmed' assumptions and expectations. Thus not to people running out to bars to pick up the night's catch. (IMO)

 

And I agree that paid encounters can improve confidence -- practice of any sort , in most endeavors, improves confidence.

 

And yes, human psychology is a confused and confusing bastion of emotional, often irrational, dots that we try to connect with rational patterns to imbue the psyche with logical properties. We are Sysiphus.

 

>but don't

>rule out someone elses experience just because yours isn't

>the same: )

 

I'll try not too... :-) but it is not exceptional for any of us to read these posts in the context of our own 'condition' -- in fact the questions seems posed to ask people to reflect on their own situation as a context for their response, no?

 

THe original question addressed 'boyfriends looking hot again' (the monogamous relationship), 'confidence cruising guys in bars' and 'am I scoring more'.

 

Well, I'm not in a monogamous relationship -- no prospects on the 'local event horizon'. As far as cruising bars and scoring more, I'm neither on crack nor way way under 40. :-) I suspect I'm not exactly a 3 sigma case in this population either. The implication of my answer is that anyone enjoying that success and is not 'way way under 40' is probably a 3 sigma case or on crack and having a self-contained experience. I know, I know, there are exceptions... and they prove the rule. Sometimes I wish be an exception... and when I am... well, I'm usually disappointed. :'(

 

More next month... different topic

 

Keep it dry.

 

:-)

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

BTW, I bow to your credentials in this subject, you have frontline field exeperience, . My own experience is very narrow, limited to one subject -- but I know him well, though not as well as I once thought.

[Bilbo]

I've said it before and I'll probably say it again - Excellent sex is not instinctive. I've even had clients I had to try to help learn how to French kiss in a pleasing manner. Instinct will allow you to enjoy yourself by giving you the rudimentals, the bare basics so to speak. But we all need teachers - paid or not - to teach us the more advanced moves. And it would seem natural that if you can do something better, you and your partner(s) will enjoy it more. I'm not saying that all sex workers are better at sex, would that that were the case, but we have had, probably, experience with more different people than the majority of our clients and if we were wise enough to learn from them ...