Bad escort experience - Simon in SF

[steve]

If you're having a bad escort experience, how do you get out of it? Especially if you have some suspicion that the escort may be on something?

[+ glutes]

Just so the crowd knows who you were dealing with:

 

http://images.rentboy.com/EZRENT5/DF52TNXCXXNLF?pre=detail&wm=www.rentboy.com

[Edward]

Simon SF

 

It has been a couple years since I was with Simon. My experience was just the opposite.

[steve]

Unfortunately, you and I had different experiences and he is not as muscular as he is in the posted pic, so something is going on.

[Businessguy]

Review?

 

Please submit a review of your experience. There was a string awhile back asking for info on Simon and no one had any first hand experience. Your honest review would be helpful to the rest of us.

[Kevin Slater]

Your honest review would be helpful to the rest of us.

 

And even more helpful to the 90% of clients who read the reviews but not this message forum.

 

Kevin Slater

[best hotel]

....i also had some great times with Simon, which makes me wonder if he is okay....i am sorry for your experience

[Boston Guy]

I see that no one has yet answered your question so I'll give it a try.

 

If you are simply feeling uncomfortable and want to end the session, then just do so. Tell the escort "I'm sorry, but this isn't working. We need to stop." What you want at that point will determine what you say next. If the escort has done nothing satisfactorily, you may not want to pay the whole fee. In this event, you may make some sort of offer:

 

"I'm sorry, but this isn't working. We need to stop. I'm sorry that you came out here but I'll be happy to pay half of your fee even though we've only spent five minutes together."

 

On the other hand, if you are uncomfortable and possibly concerned about your safety, then forget the fee and concentrate on getting the escort out of your room/house/whatever:

 

"I'm sorry, but this isn't working. We need to stop. I'm not feeling well at all. I thought that this would perk me up but I'm actually feeling quite a bit worse. Of course I'll pay your entire fee for the session. I'm sorry we couldn't have more fun together this time but I really am starting to feel sick. Perhaps we can try this again sometime after I'm feeling better."

 

You get the idea. If you want to stop, be direct and tell the escort that you want to stop. If you plan on paying the entire fee (often a good idea if things are making you uncomfortable), be nice and the risk of a confrontation is likely to be minimal. If you plan on trying to pay only a portion of the agreed-upon fee, expect some level of resistance. For me, I'm not going to argue about a couple hundred dollars with a stranger who is in my space and who I suspect of being on some kind of drugs.

 

BG

[AdamATL77]

Overedited???

 

Didn't this thread originally start with a bad incident and the questions? The earlier answers indicate that and I could have sworn I saw more in the first post at the start of the day. What it has been edited down to no longer matches the title or what the responses are about.

[Boston Guy]

I don't know; I just saw the thread for the first time a few minutes ago.

 

BG

[Mark Gordon]

Daddy felt that the OP violated his policy of "no reviews in the message centre," hence the edit.

[MsGuy]

Didn't this thread originally start with a bad incident and the questions? The earlier answers indicate that and I could have sworn I saw more in the first post at the start of the day. What it has been edited down to no longer matches the title or what the responses are about.

 

The first post was ruled a review by Daddy and pulled but the thread was left active. Later the current two sentence summary version appeared.

[Michael Vincenzo]

 

http://images.rentboy.com/EZRENT5/DF52TNXCXXNLF?pre=detail&wm=www.rentboy.com

 

Now who could have had a bad experience with this guy? Not only is he hotter than fuck, but he clearly has "INTEGRITY" as well!

 

No offense to this sexy man or this post, but I couldn't resist!

[+ David-SF]

Too Bad

 

I met simon a while back here in SF and we became friendly on a level that was very inspiring for me.

 

I was one person that chimed in here on the MC about giving him a chance,

 

I saw he was doing his best to make a good impression on his clients.

 

He certainly had some bad encounters in the past and I know he was doing what he could to turn his talent around and be a better escort.

 

I was very surprised to see him drop out of site and cut off all communications after a few months.

 

we used to talk daily and text etc then one day nothing.

 

I would often see that he was working and available online but after a few attempts to reach out to him, I let him have his space.

 

 

I am sorry for your experience with him.

 

I think he is a great guy but its been a very long time since I have heard from him or of him.

 

 

as for your question, its probably best to just let him know your not into this scene and to kindly excuse yourself and end it.

 

I do believe he is completely harmless and sensitive.

 

At least he was when I knew him.

 

I would think he would be very understanding and mostly disappointed in himself. I cant imagine him becoming intimidating or violent.

 

He may look like a big tough guy but he is def. NOT.

 

Maybe you could try to contact him and give him some constructive feedback and let him know where you were disappointed.

 

It may be just the wake up call he needs.

 

My limited experience tells me that good escorts want you to be happy with your encounter with them and good escorts will go to great lengths to make it right.

Lets hope Simon is this type, he certainly seemed that way to me and some clients we had in common.

 

you never know what he may be absolutely determined to make it right. Good luck to you.