pure touch stimulation

[uwsman2]

One fetish I really enjoy is being tightly blindfolded and having an imaginative guy who knows how to use his mouth and hands and feet go to work playing with my body. Lacking sight focuses and heightens the other senses, I find, and makes an experience that would not be particularly intense if visually observed become transfigured into something of high intensity.

 

Anybody else into sensory deprivation of this type?

[whipped guy]

I want to bump this up as it is an interesting concept… and as noted to make it work the blindfold does indeed have to be tight, as when not the natural inclination is to try to “sneak a peek” which negates the whole experience.

 

Usually blindfolding is used to heighten the S&M experience… but here I think what usman2 is talking about would encompass not only that notion, but more “traditional” types of sensual activities as well.

 

At any rate, not knowing where the stimulus will originate and where it will be applied certainly does heighten the experience…

[uwsman2]

Yes, you've got what I'm aiming at. Not necessarily in combination with bdsm, although blindfolding can be a hot part of that. I'm talking about a purely sensual experience, lots of body contact, touching, stroking, licking, kissing, sucking, fucking, etc., but tightly blindfolded so one is totally concentrated on the feeling and not distracted by visuals. (Of course, seeing a hot man is a big turn-on, but I'm suggesting a particular hot fetish can be a sexual experience that doesn't include that element, since it heightens all the other senses, not only with physical contact coming by surprise but also by concentrating the attention on touch.) The effect could be enhanced by the right kind of music playing as well.... and a guy who murmurs just the right sort of things, really low and intense while it's going on.

[raulgmanzo]

Adding sound deprivation takes some extra doing but is pretty intense. You might be surprise how different sex play feels when you don't hear it. Though it is surprising how how hard it can be to block out everything. Try squishable foam plugs with wax or putty in the outer ear, ear muffs and then a hood over all of that. The hood will help keep the blindfold in place. Pretty cool when you can't hear anything but your own pulse. Speaking of pulse I've experimented with a stethoscope under the hood which is not so good at blocking sounds but is simply overwhelming with the sound of ones hearbeat.

[uwsman2]

Sounds totally, totally hot.... Lots of preparation involved, but the experience would be really intense.

[whipped guy]

RE: ...and a guy who murmurs just the right sort of things, really low and intense while it's going on.

 

Yes... a deep sensual murmuring voice is indeed a turn-on. Also, a guy with short cropped facial hair or stubble can work wonders as well in the stimulation department.

 

Even though it was in the context of a BDSM experience, I was once surprised with ice cubes… talk about a chill being sent through your body and especially since that was the absolute last thing I was expecting!

[best hotel]

...wow...you have done things i haven't even fantasized about

[uwsman2]

But it rarely comes all together in one session. And it requires an escort who is exquisitely sensitive to the body language of the client. And a large degree of trust on the part of the client, allowing himself to be blindfolded and letting the escort free reign to do what he thinks will turn on the client...

 

I've never actually had this ideal experience, just bits and pieces of it with different escorts. :-)

[Guest zipperzone]

>And a large degree of trust on the

>part of the client, allowing himself to be blindfolded and

>letting the escort free reign to do what he thinks will turn

>on the client...

 

I have had only one experience with being blindfolded while with an escort. Looking back on it I think I was being very foolish as I did not know the escort or anything about him. It was simply someone whose ad I had answered and the session took place at his apartment.

 

The blindfolded part was OK. Nothing too exciting. But what really freaked me out was when the blindfold came off, there were his two room mates sitting there, watching everything. I had no idea they had even been in the apartment and had not heard a sound from them while I was blindfolded - perhaps the music in the background aided that.

 

It took me several days to sort out my feelings about the whole scene.

One part of it gave me a hardon when ever I thought about it. The other part scared the shit out of me thinking of what could have happened.