Am I crazy?????????

[Guest happyguy]

I have been away on vacation and just got back. Reading another thread in this section, I realized that I have just devoted a great deal of time to thinking about something similar. This is not about being harassed by my boss .... it is this: I seem to fall for an unusually high number of straight guys, and, of course, nothing comes of it. What does this mean? Am I crazy? Does this sort of thing happen to others? Thanks in advance for your comments!

happyguy

[BewareofNick]

It's not so crazy. Gay men have been falling in love with str8 men for a long time. I think some gay men hold out hope that the str8 guy will give in and let them suck their dicks. Having sucked off some of my str8 friends, I can tell you it happens. The thing you have to remember is: a relationship isn't going to happen. You may get to service them on a regular basis, but they'll never love you. Just your cocksucking abilities.

[Guest jeffOH]

Hey happyguy,

 

I can totally relate to the straight guy attraction. I am always attracted to hot, hyper-masculine straight men. Several years ago, I

developed a huge crush on an escort friend of mine who is basically

Gay for Pay. It took me a while to get over it, but in the process I learned alot about myself. Being attracted to guys who are unavailable

for different reasons has been a pattern in my life. I realized that it had alot to do with how I felt about myself. My attraction to guys who weren't available helped to perpetuate the negative feelings I had about me.

 

You're not crazy and you certainly aren't alone on this one. The few gay men to whom I have been attracted were either in relationships or were emotionally unavailable. It was just too scary to get involved with someone who loved me. That would have meant that I was loveable

and I would have to deal with my self-esteem issues. It's an ongoing

process, but I do feel like I am in a better space now than I used to be.

 

JEFF

jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest happyguy]

Hey Guys

 

Thank you so very much to both of you for your kind and truly thoughtful answers. Though, TT, I really would like some advice on how I could even get some of these str8 guys to let me suck them ...

thanks again,

happy