ever ask your masseur to escort?

[+ glutes]

Just curious as to what reactions there might be...

[Guest josephga]

I have clients ask me this sometimes. I tell them no once in a nice way but only once. if they ask why. i tell them no doesn't require a explanation. I had this one guy who called every week and would ask. after about a month of it i told him to never call again.. he never booked an appointment only called and talked dirty each time

[tealady]

look at his ad.

 

if he is naked, or you can see his dick, ass, public hair, then he is up for the big ???

 

if he is a real masseur he will have kept his clothing on for his ad.

 

if he is a real masseur he will be showing his degree, where he has study, and a pix of his big hard table.....

 

where did you see his ad, in the back of HX, NEXT, or the DR office.

[Guest josephga]

i dont know tealady i have heard of guys possing nude in the ads with big hard ons then offering nothing more than massage.. imo its false advertising. if the dick and ass isnt for sale it should be covered up in the ads.. I will do it nude with a free release if they request however i make it clear b4 we book that i dont offer mutal release or more than what the touch of my hands can provide. if they agree to those term i expect them to honor those terms..

[Guest zipperzone]

>i dont know tealady i have heard of guys possing nude in the

>ads with big hard ons then offering nothing more than

>massage.. imo its false advertising. if the dick and ass isnt

>for sale it should be covered up in the ads.. I will do it

>nude with a free release if they request however i make it

>clear b4 we book that i dont offer mutal release or more than

>what the touch of my hands can provide. if they agree to those

>term i expect them to honor those terms..

 

Just curious - what is your policy about letting them feel you? Just feel - nothing more.

 

If you are standing there naked and have a no touch policy it could drive some guys to suicide :-)

[Guest josephga]

they can light touch with the hands. but cant give me a release in return.

[+ Axiom2001]

>i dont know tealady i have heard of guys possing nude in the

>ads with big hard ons then offering nothing more than

>massage.. imo its false advertising. if the dick and ass isnt

>for sale it should be covered up in the ads.. I will do it

>nude with a free release if they request however i make it

>clear b4 we book that i dont offer mutal release or more than

>what the touch of my hands can provide. if they agree to those

>term i expect them to honor those terms..

 

I've emailed guys who advertise on craigslist sporting a huge turgid dick or showing a ripe, enticing ass and have asked about their ads. I have asked them why show these parts of their anatomy if they are to give a man a massage!

 

Unfortunately, but maybe fortunately, none have written back! :-)

[+ Italiano]

I was once with a hot black masseur from Tampa visiting NY who gave me a great nude massage, and after it was done (he gave me a great massage, great release and I touched all his gorgeous muscular body AND cock) I asked him if he would provide a more "complete" service and 2 days later I was back at his hotel for a good fuck for 50 more bucks...

 

 

 

:9

[+ newatthis]

Asked? No. But more than once a masseur has made it clear that he was open to more than just touching and "releasing" me. Example: arranging for his cock to end up in my hand as he worked. Or climbing on top of me to give me a "full body rub".

 

This has happened even with masseurs who insisted on remaining clothed -- a little tentative touching on my part and the clothing came off.

 

A friend who does ask (in semi-coded language) about additional services beyond massage says he gets frank responses. On the other hand, a masseur friend has told me that such requests (by phone or in person) sometimes come from law enforcement looking to make a prostitution arrest.

[Guest josephga]

I agree those who come off being very frank with their wishes on the phone are most likely cops. Allot of clients shoot themselves in the foot by asking out right sexual questions on the phone and talk themselves right out of getting a massage.. the best clients are those who ask the least questions. I had this one guy calling that would start off asking me too tell him about myself. then he would ask me if i lkied getting my dick sucked. i put up with this call from the same guy 5 times. I told him last week if he called back i was turning his number over too the cops.. wouldnt suprise me if he was a cop himself..

[jackhammer91406]

Several of the guys I now see regularly, are guys I found on Craigs for massage. At some point towards the end of the hour, I suddenly felt lips and mouth. Things went from there. This has also happened in Palm Springs, Florida, Las Vegas, Denver, and New York.

 

But hey, if a CMT suddenly starts giving me head, then I figure I no longer have to ask.

[Guest zipperzone]

>But hey, if a CMT suddenly starts giving me head, then I

>figure I no longer have to ask.

 

Some cops will do ANYTHING to make a bust :-)

[Guest zipperzone]

>i put up with this call from the same guy 5

>times. I told him last week if he called back i was turning

>his number over too the cops.. wouldnt suprise me if he was a

>cop himself..

 

Assuming he was NOT a cop, and you made good on your threat, Why would the police be interested. Is he breaking any law by asking?

[Guest josephga]

its considered soliciting.. he calls sometimes and says i dont really want a massage how about i give you 40 bucks to suck your dick? thats soliciting.. i could see it as no problem if he asked once i said no and he moved on. this guy called 5 times after i said no. would i really call the cops? no but im hoping it will scare him off to pestering someone else

[Guest zipperzone]

>its considered soliciting.. he calls sometimes and says i

>dont really want a massage how about i give you 40 bucks to

>suck your dick? thats soliciting.. i could see it as no

>problem if he asked once i said no and he moved on. this guy

>called 5 times after i said no. would i really call the cops?

>no but im hoping it will scare him off to pestering someone

>else

 

OK - now I understand your point. Your previous post did not mention that he offered you money to suck you off. I was thinking that anyone can ask some if they can suck them off without it being criminal. They might get a punch in the face but it isn't against the law.

 

From what you now tell us I think there is a very good chance that it was a sting and you were wise to reply the way you did.

[+ Axiom2001]

One masseur who advertises on http://www.massagem4m.com, San Francisco, and who has over 150+ reviews on that site, has given me three massages at which in the end he gives the most outstanding "full body rub" with his beautifully sculpted and muscled body.

 

While I have been with him, I have never had the nerve to ask if I could enjoy his rigid dick; I've been tempted but presume I'm too shy or inhibited to make this request. Well, I've decided that in 2008, I will ask, for his activities at the end of his superb Thai massage are too much to leave idle.

[+ glutes]

What made me post the question was I asked one Brazilian masseur if he'd escort, there was a (very) long pause, "No, but I really thank you for the compliment!"

[ariadne1880]

The answer for me, is, yes. I hired a guy many times here for massage -- Tom Reeve -- and he was great. Then I asked him about escorting. For that, he gave me another name -- Cal Sade. And that was a complete and utter disaster which I've talked about elsewhere on this site.

 

I will never, ever do it again!

 

Mark

[+ newatthis]

For that, he gave me another name -- Cal

>Sade.

 

I'm not sure how to parse this -- does Tom Reeve use the name "Cal Sade" when he escorts, or is Cal Sade the name of a different escort whom he recommended to you?

 

>And that was a complete and utter disaster which I've

>talked about elsewhere on this site.

 

I missed this; could you supply a reference?

[ariadne1880]

His "massure" name is Tom Reeve; his escort name is Cal Sade.

 

Have no idea what you mean by a "reference."

 

Mark

[+ newatthis]

Mark,

 

You wrote: >And that was a complete and utter disaster which I've

>talked about elsewhere on this site. to which I replied "I missed this; could you supply a reference?"

 

I was hoping you could supply a link to the "elsewhere on this site" where you talked about this, or at least which forum and approximately when.

 

Thanks --

 

--new

[Guest Michaelnc]

I have approached a couple of guys who do/used to do massage in this area, and asked if they'd be up for something more (after I'd been to see both of them at least several times for sensual massage - one or both of us naked, one or both of us getting off). Both times, they said no, but reacted perfectly calmly, and one gave me the contact info for a friend who he thought would be interested.

 

A sort of related phenomenon - in the opposite direction? - is the apparently totally legit, no-sex-please-I'm-certified masseur who initiates sex during a massage. I've been a couple of times to a "massage clinic" here that seems completely by the book, even a little antiseptic: located in a strip-mall/office park-type space, advertising in mainstream newspapers, middle-aged woman receptionist, makes you fill out a medical-seeming form on your first visit. I had heard from another masseur that a friend of his had gotten a vibe during his massage at this place that maybe his masseur might have been up for a little fun; but at the time, that did not really seem like a reliable enough report to make it worth my time to check it out. Anyway, last year I was bored and had a little time on my hands, so I decided to get a massage there. The masseur was not at all friendly, hardly spoke at all beyond what was necessary. He was OK looking but nothing special. He insisted on draping me with a sheet, and was very careful throughout the massage to make sure my crotch was always covered. Fine, I decided, I was happy just to get a good massage. But then, after I turned over onto my back, I noticed that he seemed to be spending an unusually long time working on my chest - specifically, my nipples. Eventually, I reached up and started caressing his arm, and thrusting my crotch up a bit, and giving little porno-movie style moans of mild pleasure (embarrassing, but I really was not sure what was going on and I wanted to get some sort of confirmation from the masseur that he was doing what I thought he was doing). He eventually moved into a position where I could see (and reach) him better, and I discovered that he had a raging hard-on and was clearly up for a little fooling around. He stripped, whispered that we needed to be quiet, and a good time was had by all. I've been back once since then, with the same experience, and certainly plan to return again (it's over half an hour away, so it's not that convenient). I often wonder how routine a part of his massages this is. I'd like to believe that he was overcome by passion, but as I'm no Adonis myself, I have no idea if this is a twice day or a twice a year experience for this guy.

[Guest zipperzone]

Did you get the impression that he expected a generous tip?

[ariadne1880]

Why is whenever I hear a story like this I always wonder .... where was the condom?

 

Did we learn nothing from the 1970s and 80s?

 

Mark

[Guest zipperzone]

>Why is whenever I hear a story like this I always wonder ....

>where was the condom?

>

>Did we learn nothing from the 1970s and 80s?

>

>Mark

 

Don't jump to conclusions - it's entirely possible that their fun time could have been perfectly safe without protection. No mention of barebacking was mentioned.