What to Expect?

[Guest big guy]

I enjoy my massages but have never really mixed it up with any erotic activities (except for some unsolicited offers for "release" which I have rejected). In the course of reading various postings, I am curious to try one of these "erotic" masseurs during the upcoming visit to NYC. What exactly should I expect to happen? And what can I do to the guy? I have these visions of a proper massage and then the last 5 minutes with him trying to get me off. Uggghhh!!! Please enlighten! Views from masseurs most welcome!

[ted]

It varies considerably from guy to guy. What you describe is probably the least you would expect, but sadly pretty common. The best integrate the sensual erotic touching into the massage, spending time on your particular sensitive areas, there is a really good built in indicator if you like something, so that by the time they get around to the release, you are eagerly anticipating the stimulation. As far as what you get to do to them, this also varies, but this is a massage and not an escort session, and rates are generally closer to $100 for an hour than they are $250. Most times the masseur is naked and you get to fondle, occasionally some oral, but I know of at least one guy who does release who keeps his shorts on. They often will indicate "mutual touching allowed" in their ad and often indicate if they work in the nude. As with everything else - if its important to you, ask up front, that way you at least know what to expect. I'm sure every single one has heard it all before so they aren't going to be shocked. First question-if not already answered is do you work in the nude? If the answer is yes its 90% certain that a little more than a legit massage is possible

[hotmale at hotmail]

My experience with erotic masseurs is that you need to be upfront with your expectations. Ask the questions that will frame your expectations.

 

Do you have a table? Body rubs are usually on beds

Are you in the nude? Sometimes they charge more for it

Is there release? Sometimes they charge more for that as well

 

Most of them know what you're getting at and if it's out of the question, they are usually direct that it is a non-sexual legit massage.

 

Most of them are willing to provide the release as long as the client is respectable; they sometimes provide more if they find you attractive.

[timothyb]

>I enjoy my massages but have never really mixed it up with

>any erotic activities (except for some unsolicited offers for

>"release" which I have rejected). In the course of reading

>various postings, I am curious to try one of these "erotic"

>masseurs during the upcoming visit to NYC. What exactly

>should I expect to happen? And what can I do to the guy? I

>have these visions of a proper massage and then the last 5

>minutes with him trying to get me off. Uggghhh!!! Please

>enlighten! Views from masseurs most welcome!

 

I have been providing my clients with erotic bodywork sessions for almost 8 years both in SF and in Philadelphia.. My routine is simple, I provide a really good massage (read my reviews!), touching all the sensitive areas and sensual zones that get my clients worked up and then I move towards the genital region for the final release.

 

While mutual touch is generally ok, I am generally not hard for my clients as that is not my job to be so. I am there to focus my energy on them and to make them feel good and to teach them that it's ok to allow themselves to be touched without feeling the need for reciprocation.

 

I also don't provide oral or anal activity as there are escorts who can perform these activities and I don't know the health histories of all of my clients. Many times they have said "Oh my other masseur let's me suck his dick, so why not you?" to which I suggest that they call their other masseur for those sorts of things..

 

Calling erotic massage not "legitimate" is really not a good thing.

All touch is legitimate as long as the person is of age and it is consensual touch. Perhaps the bad experiences of folks who went looking for an erotic massage who ended up with a not so good massage and a so - so happy ending give everyone a bad rep.

 

 

If you just communicate with your masseur, it will benefit you in the end..