Who's Responsible for the Supplies

[Guest TexasTaurus]

I ALWAYS have the "supplies" when I hire an escort. Several reasons:

 

1. I prefer safer sex and that way I can be MORE certain that will happen.

 

2. More comfortable for both of us.

 

3. I prefer certain brands of lube and condoms and, while I can be flexible if the escort insists, I prefer the things I know and TRUST! (If he has products I don't trust then we have a problem - I don't go forward!)

 

4. Peace of mind

 

5. Leaves discussion time for things other than talking about who is going to provide the "rubbers".

 

Just my two cents!

[wayno]

Hi

 

I was with an escort two days ago. I have hired about a dozen over the last couple years so I usually know how to go about things. In this particular case, when it came down to doing penetration the escort didn't bring any lube or condoms, and asked if I had any. I was a bit surprised as in all my other experiences, the escort supplied these things (I was under the impression that they preferred to supply it because they had confidence and/or good experience with it). I did have the "supplies" so it wasn't a problem and it was a great overall experience. I just felt a bit strange by this one development and wanted your feelings. In many ways I kind of feel that if I am paying 150 to 200 per hour (not counting the cost of the room, refreshments and/or dinner), a true professional would bring the tools of the trade with him as part of the package deal.

 

Here are a couple of other points that may be of interest or use to help you give some input:

 

1. The escort is very experienced and has over 10 reviews on M4M review site.

 

2. He lists on his own site that he is versatile so to me that means no problem with being a top or bottom. In our email exchanges before meeting we did not get too explicit about what we would do so I kind of felt that anything could happen and would have expected him to be prepared.

 

3. Up to that point all was fine and plenty of oral (kissing and

sucking), and he was hard the whole time.

 

Anyway, any insight you can give would be appreciated as I am always open to learn and know what to do better the next time..

[+ Lucky]

Happy Thanksgiving, Wayno. Next year I will bring the wine.

[marc anthony]

Wayno: For me, it's been a mixed bag. Some have everything you need, some have some, and some have none. And to tell you the truth, it doesn't seem to have anything to do with how friendly/reliable/fun they are. It just seems like some feel it is their responsibility, and others don't.

 

Bottom line... you are hiring them because you are horny/lonely/whatever... and you want the evening to go very well... so have your own supply on hand. If the escort brings his own, well then you have an oversupply. Certainly preferable to having an undersupply!

[Guest Kevin 2]

IMO the escort should always be prepared unless you call him last minute and he tells you that hes not prepared. Which at that point might not be a good idea for him to accept the appointment. I'm thinking of a case when you're horny as hell and want it NOW. Whenever I meet an escort it is always planned in advance since I'm out of town. So this subject is brought up either in an e-mail prior to meeting or on the phone. Escorting has often been referred to on this website as a profession like a lawyer,doctor,etc.. If you think like that how many of you guys have been to the doctor and brought your own supplies?

[Guest AdamLVescort]

<1. The escort is very experienced and has over 10 reviews on M4M review site.>

 

Some of us have to wait for all of our reviews to post. I know of 4 clients that have submitted reviews but I can only get 1 every 10 days. :-)

 

As for being prepared: I always have 2 of the small packets of Wet and condoms. They are easy to carry and it doesn't bother me a bit. I even bring a flavored one just for something fun or even a glow in the dark. Boy I have seen some guys light up the room. :9

 

But I agree we should always be prepared. :-)

[marc anthony]

Adam: You are such a cutie! I can't wait until I travel to Vegas again so I can have a chance to meet you! Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that actually you can get more than 1 review every 10 days. It is true that there is a 10 day separation (until you have 10 or more reviews, then the separation is 30 days) between the posting of reviews. But all of the reviews that accumulate during that time will go up at once. So if you have a review posted on Nov. 20, and between that day and Nov. 30 four reviews come in, then 4 reviews will go up on Nov. 30. Why do I have the feeling that all of your reviews are going to be good ones? Now I will have to split time in Vegas between you and my favorite cutie Ryan!

[Guest JT]

>IMO the escort should always be prepared unless you call him

>last minute and he tells you that hes not prepared.

 

I agree.

 

That said, I always bring along my own supplies unless it's one of those spontaneous, "horny as hell and want it NOW" moments (over 95% of the time, I make appointment days or weeks in advance so that both parties can be prepared).

 

So don't be sorry, be ready.

You want action, bring lubrication.

Damn, you're doomed if there's no condom! }>

 

IMSO (In my silly opinion),

JT

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Ah.... a philosophical question.

 

The philosophical answer: the escort should be prepared and equipped to put on the party.

 

The practical answer:

 

What are you seeking -- the escort experience (how's that for a euphemism?) or a full service caterer?? If the former then do everything you can to ensure that your satisifaction will be met -- BYOC. If you are looking to be catered to from soup to nuts, (i.e. being catered is the experience and escorting is the vehicle) then you'll have to put your faith in your caterer and take your chances. I try not to leave my satisifaction in the hands of others anymore than I must. In the end, what is important to me is the party, not who brought the party favors!!

 

:-)

[Guest dstud4hire]

Tampa, great response...I think you are right, in the end, if both guys are having fun, then it doesn't matter who brought the party favors....

 

Obviously, it is nice if the escort thinks of it, because it ensures that he is thinking of safe sex. As an escort, I have to admit, I like it when the client thinks of it as weel, because it shows he hasn't made any assumptions about what kind of sex we are going to have. (safe vs. unsafe)

 

Sometimes I may get a client at the last minute, and though I normally have a gym bag that is prepared to go, at the same token, there have been that occasion where I have run out of the house without my supplies, in which case I have tried to make a point to stop by a convenience store to pick up the condoms. As for Lube, I always like to bring the supplies anyway, I have my favorite (Wet Platinum)

 

And other times, if I have not brought the supplies for whatever reason, it's nice to have seen the client thinking about it. Of course, I do have to realise, that witha client sometimes being married, buy supplies, as it were, is not always a possibility for them, which is why I try my best to be as prepared as possible.

 

Let the party begin! ;-) Gabe in St. Louis

[Guest WetDream]

Weren't we all in the Boy Scouts? Didn't we learn more that which boys had big whangers and which ones would crawl in your sleeping bag on camping trips? Remember that motto: Be Prepared.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Gabe,

 

Still waiting to return your leather cock strap!!;-)

[Guest jeffOH]

I always take the bare essentials(lube/condoms)on an appointment. I always have everything we'd need should they come to my place. I know

some escorts use the lack of supplies to get out of doing much.

 

I don't always give myself an enema prior to every appt. unless I know in advance I will be getting fucked. I think the escort should be

prepared as far as the basic supplies whether it's an in or outcall.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest dstud4hire]

Yeah, I know Tampa!!

 

I've been stuck using the metal kind, the leather snap on is so much easier to remove after cumming.

 

Well, hopefully, it's offered fond memories! :9 ;-)

[Guest Derek Ross]

I definitely agree with Tampa Yankee...if the client asks in advance, sure the escort should have and bring, but if I'm going to put condoms in my pocket every time I go out and end up not using them, those condoms are getting some unnecessary wear and tear which just may be weakening their strength, and who wants a broken condom...ya know?

[SmallTownJohn]

Hey there,

 

I agree with many guys here...I ALWAYS bring a supply of condoms and lube with my appointments. But, many clients have their own brand/type of lube that they prefer & supply.

 

 

John

[Guest WetDream]

RE: Query

 

Derek: Do you and Rick share the same brand of lube and condoms, or do you have individual preferences? What about toothpaste? :*

[Guest Hungman9]

Anything smaller than a magnum is uncomfortable for me so I always supply my own, just in case. As long as the escort has a cute, clean butt, I don't care who's responsible for rubbering my cock.

[Guest cp8036]

I think Jeff is right... just an excuse to not fuck.

[Rod Hagen]

Failing to prepare is preparing to fail.

[buckguy]

The escort is the "professional" here and a a good professional 9regardless of occupation) should carry the tools of his trade. Having said that, condoms break, clients have particular preferences, etc. Bottom line---the escort should be equipped and take primary responsibility, but as a practical matter, the client should carry a stash, too. It's come in handy a couple times for me and the one time I didn't have a condom, enither did the escort.

[CT Dick]

Regardless of the role, I think the host is responsible for the hardware. If i go to him, he supplies and vice versa.

 

That said, it is foolish not to have back ups in my pocket. ;-)

 

Dick

[Guest cp8036]

Tampa,

 

...and what kind of party favors do you speak of?

[Guest cp8036]

In any meeting of two guys with possibility of sex (escort or non-escort) I think both guys should have some essentials. Why leave it to chance. I have a small stash in the trunk of my car for such "emergencies".

[Guest Gentle Dude]

>In any meeting of two guys with possibility of sex (escort

>or non-escort) I think both guys should have some

>essentials. Why leave it to chance. I have a small stash

>in the trunk of my car for such "emergencies".

 

So for emergencies, what lube do you use...Pennzoil 15W/40?

 

GD