Something Curious

[Guest Gentle Dude]

In April 2001, I discovered this site and posted my first message seeking advice for my first time experience with an escort. Many posters gave me some good advice. Some even e-mailed me giving me their recommendations. After doing my homework in this site, I selected the escort and we corresponded for over four months. We also talked on the phone occasionally. By the time we met two weeks ago, it seemed like we already knew each other. Even the escort told me that he felt so at ease with me that we just hit it off like old friends. So when we finally got together in bed for the first night, I was not nervous at all and everything just came naturally as if we were already long time lovers. He was so accommodating to all my sexual needs that night. Now I regret not exploring my sexuality much earlier in life since I've led a "straight" life all this time. But as the saying goes... better late than never.

 

GD

[+ deej]

I've been noticing a curious trend. Many reviews begin with "it was my first time with an escort and I was nervous", which is fine and dandy. Welcome aboard dude. We can't all have years of experience.

 

In the "about you" section, more and more I'm seeing "I expect escorts to be..."

 

The thing I find curious is a first-time flyer "expecting" specific traits. I remember my first time, more years ago than I care to admit. I was nervous. My heart was in my throat. My mouth was dry. I was a wreck. But more than anything, I HAD NO FREAKING IDEA WHAT TO EXPECT. ;-)

 

Where are all these expectations coming from? Here? Elsewhere? Is our chain being yanked? Has hiring an escort become mainstream enough for the average Joe to have expectations?

 

Not trying to cast aspersions. I just find it curious. Anyone else? And I'd particularly like to hear from recent newcomers to this branch of commerce. Did you really have expectations your first time out?

[Guest Kevin 2]

My first time was much like yours DeeJ only much more recent. ;-) However I did expect the escort to be clean, look like his pic and provide what was discussed over the phone, etc...

PS..Just a thought if a newbie to the escort seen has been checking out this site he would have a lot of info. on what to expect.

PPS..I was unaware of this website until an escort that is well reviewed here told me about it.

[Guest Merlin]

I think the Internet and sites such as this have made guys more aware of escorts and more willing to try. Reading reviews and comments make it seem less dangerous and less strange to those who previously had been reluctant to try. Simply reading the reviews here would give an idea what to expect.

[Guest WetDream]

I didn't know about this site when I hired my first escort. I had been picking up guys on Polk Street in San Francisco for a while and was weary of the scene. I decided to call someone from the ads in the B.A.R. We chatted, discussed acceptable activities and made a date. Since his ad didn't have a picture, I had no idea what he would look like.

 

On the big day (be still my heart!) I went down to sit on the steps to my building since the intercom was on the fritz. Right about the time for my date, I spotted this attractive, sexy man passing by. "Oh I hope my guy will be half as goodlooking as this," I thought. A few seconds later Mr. Gorgeous returned and asked if I was XXX. He just hadn't been paying close attention to the street numbers.

 

It was a great session and was (and I am sure still is) a sweetheart. Check out all the great reviews Kevin in San Francisco has gotten here. And give him a call.

[BuckyXTC]

I guess I fall into the category of being fairly new to hiring escorts, since my first hire was in August of this year. Yes, I was nervous. The guy I hired works for an agency, and is advertised as a "dominant top". When he called me, I felt pretty comfortable with the conversation and discussion. He had an appealing voice and was obviously intelligent. I remember very well lying on the hotel bed, watching the minutes tick off to the appointed time of his arrival, and as each minute passed, I had a heightened sense of both excitement and anxiety. A lot of thoughts raced through my mind. I wondered if he would really respect my limits, or would he possibly beat the crap out of me. When the fateful knock came at the door, I jumped up to answer, ready to take the plunge, and I can tell you my heart was racing. When I opened the door, the escort was a very cute, preppy looking boy with a little backpack, and he was smiling and very friendly. The apprehension evaporated, and I had a very interesting experience, enough so that a week later I hired him again, and as Emeril Legasse would say, "we kicked it up a notch" And since then, I've had a couple of sessions with another escort, which were even better than my first experience.

 

Expectations? Guess mine tend to run toward the realm of hoping the escort I select lives up to his description and honors what he says he will do. I enjoy the company of guys who are outgoing, but I've also had friends that were shy, so that's not much of an issue. And I always hope/expect that the escort will show me the same respect that I will show him. If I decide the escort is really "not my type" but not inconsistent with his description, I'll make the best of the situation and do my best to maximize the enjoyment for both parties. As I mentioned, since I'm so new at this, I haven't had any negative experiences, and very grateful. That tends to make me stick with the folks I've met and trust, rather than being bolder and going for a wider range of experiences with a lot of different escorts. But who know? With time maybe I'll be a bit more adventurous.

BuckyXTC

[DaninWA]

My first and only time with an escort was also my first time with a man. I asked for recommendations from the contributors to these message boards and received three.

 

I didn't know exactly what to expect and was a little nervous, but not as nervous as I had thought I would be. The experience was wonderful and I don't regret a minute of it.

[Guest JT]

>The thing I find curious is

>a first-time flyer "expecting" specific

>traits. I remember my first

>time, more years ago than

>I care to admit. I

>was nervous. My heart was

>in my throat. My mouth

>was dry. I was a

>wreck. But more than anything,

>I HAD NO FREAKING IDEA

>WHAT TO EXPECT. ;-)

 

Oh come on Deej, you must have some expectation --- like the guy must have a dick and an ass! }>

 

I think many of us have had similar experiences for our first times. But these days if prospective first-timers would do their homework (e.g. visiting sites like this one), then I would not be surprised that they will have a good idea as to what to expect even in their very first encounters. Plus, they can always ask Hooboy and the moderators here!

 

JT