Fin Fing Foom Is Officially Creeped Out By BN's Clients

[RockHard]

Tom Isern's thumping and screeching.

 

Leave it to the dupe to take a statement out of context and attempt to apply it to another subject. How original. Geez, Tom, you remind me of hyper-conservatives who hate anything with the word gay and democrat in it. How is that dark, murky, black-and-white world of yours?

 

No matter how many keyboard orgasms you can display, dupe, I will never understand how anyone can compare "stereotyping the term straight-acting" to the severity of an HIV+ escort permitting a customer's naked cock to enter and cum in his ass without discussing HIV.

 

Tom, are you HIV positive? Do you have herpes? Do you bareback? Will you permit a customer to cum in your ass for the right sum? How many times, if ever, have you had chlamydia? You don't need to answer any of these questions but if anyone chooses to distort your truth, I sure hope and pray you have a fan here who will stand up for you. It won't be me.

[Guest ncm2169]

Benjamin - no offense, but ...

 

< I have a very strong list of both past & present clientel

 

A college graduate should know how to spell "clientele."

 

< of which i'm very proud of

 

Only one "of" is necessary in that statement.

 

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[Okliehomo]

Gareth...

 

Miss Caswell is the role that Marilyn Monroe played in "All About Eve". She was "an old friend of Mr DeWitt's mother" and accompanied him to Margo Channing's blasted birthday party for Bill.

 

Okie

[RockHard]

My apologies. After all, I AM a blonde.

 

Geez, I need to lay off the Gatorade.

 

I just realized I got my threads mixed up. My apologies to Tom Isern. He wasn't comparing my comments about Athan (from another thread) to stereotyping.

 

Nonetheless, Tom did quote me out of context and a false inference that Benjamin Nicholas (or any escort) licks shit-dirty dildos is far more serious and hurtful than some silly debate about looking/acting-straight-stereotypes.

 

The essence of my temperate reply still applies (in spite of my fondness for using bold font). :-)

[Quincy]

RE: Fin Fing Foom Is Officially Creeped Out By BN's Cli...

 

The reviewer wrote-

 

"Before we knew what had happened, the dildos, fresh from our asses, were shoved down our throats, and held there, while the men, this time very easily, slipped a new dildo up our asses. Right in front of my face was the beautiful face of Ben, the stud surfer, his face sweaty and grimy, and his mouth full of that thick dildo, still smeared from his ass."

 

I stand corrected. He didn't have dirty used dildos shoved in his mouth. He had one ass-smeared dildo shoved in his mouth!

[RockHard]

Quincy's correction.

 

Unfortunately, for any escort, being reviewed by non-professional writers has its perils. (No wonder Tom Isern wants to edit all your work even though he's no professional, either.) A writer incapable of responsible pronouns is a writer you can't trust.

 

I wasn't there and there's NO WAY I could ever know what really happened, which is why I look at these reviews as an opportunity for the everyday man to fulfill his porn-script writing fantasies. I don't take them seriously because you never really know someone until you sleep with them (except for Athan). :-)

 

Was there a condom on the dildo? Was the condom removed before the dildo entered the mouth? Was the condom detail removed from the review to preserve the story's "heat" impact? You tell me.

 

That said, I have no problem with any escort taking a dildo from his presumably very clean ass and sticking it in his own mouth in the heat of sex, if it truly turns him on. Have none of us tasted our own ass and cum?

 

I'm not a prude and I don't hire an escort to give me chastity lessons. But the suggestion that any escort took a (condomless) dildo from a client's ass and placed it in his (the escort's) mouth, without proof, is nothing short of libel. It's that simple.

 

Seems like Quincy has an agenda.

[Guest alanm]

RE: Quincy's correction.

 

Ben could easily have responded to the review months ago, clearing up any exaggerations or inaccuracies. He has chosen not to comment,

therefore the review stands as posted.

[Guest TNT Ted]

RE: Quincy's correction.

 

To my knowledge we've never heard from Ben about the dildo incident. Most escorts, when confronted with a review that even suggests participation in actions (especially controversisal actions) they consider off-limit, would respond with clarification. Perhaps Ben prefers silence as part of his persona (sort of a "keep 'em guessing" approach), but personally, on this issue, I find the silence rather damning.

[RockHard]

Message to Benjamin...

 

Men, especially some here, will damn Benjamin Nicholas no matter what. The world (and the MC) is full of stone-throwers whose lust for blood never ends.

 

Ben, if you are reading this, I encourage you not to respond. If a potential client truly desires knowing the truth, he will take the high road and contact you privately. However, I will offer no criticism if you choose to handle this differently. These choices must always be yours.

[Guest TNT Ted]

RE: Message to Benjamin...

 

"Men, especially some here, will damn Benjamin Nicholas no matter what. The world (and the MC) is full of stone-throwers whose lust for blood never ends."

 

I'm not sure, Rockhard, why you suspect the worst from some of us posting comments on this issue. Trust me, I have no lust for anyone's blood. And, personally, I find Ben rather attractive. Even though he's not what I'd prefer from a physical standpoint, his on-line personality suggests that he could make me forget my usual preference.

 

"Ben, if you are reading this, I encourage you not to respond."

 

I'm certain Ben understands that he is free to ignore this. He also is aware that we are free to believe what we want about the situation.

 

"If a potential client truly desires knowing the truth, he will take the high road and contact you privately."

 

Why do you consider private contact "the high road"?

[RockHard]

RE: Message to TNT Ted...

 

"I'm not sure, Rockhard, why you suspect the worst from some of us posting comments on this issue."

 

Well, I confess, unless I mention a poster by name, any reference to "some of us" remains the reader's responsibility. As I've said, I have no control how someone else interprets my posts and I don't keep track of every username here.

 

"Trust me, I have no lust for anyone's blood."

 

I hope posters find comfort with your proclamation.

 

"And, personally, I find Ben rather attractive."

 

I don't think Ben's looks have anything to do with being controlled or manipulated into satisfying the curiosity of nosy queens from the Hooboy MC. Julia Roberts is pretty, too, but I would never recommend she answer every fan's query.

 

"I'm certain Ben understands that he is free to ignore this. He also is aware that we are free to believe what we want about the situation."

 

And that will occur no matter what Benjamin does. There simply is no winning if Benjamin responds publicly, at least, not for him.

 

"Why do you consider private contact "the high road"?"

 

Because, if Benjamin doesn't answer your email, you'll know he wishes not to discuss the subject with a stranger (you) and you will save face privately and avoid being perceived as a nosy, manipulative queen with an anti-Ben agenda in public view.

 

Or, if Benjamin feels it's no big deal, he'll answer your question, honestly, and then risk you (or someone else) publishing his words without permission, paraphrasing those words to make him sound hypocritical, or simply add your own words to twist his truth with malintent. At that point, the controversy will rise to such a level, Benjamin will have little choice but to respond and then the pushy, nosy, manipulative fans win.

 

I think Benjamin Nicholas is a star escort. If I were managing his career, I would advise him to NOT respond.

[Guest TNT Ted]

RE: Lighten Up, RockHard

 

RH, I think you ought to lighten up. Whether you believe it or not, or whether it gives anyone warm fuzzies or not, I have no agenda. Further, I have no intention of emailing Ben or anyone about the subject we've been hashing, because frankly, I don't care. My only point was to suggest that Ben's silence on the matter -- like it or not -- led me to believe that the incident was probably true.

 

You, on the other hand, seem to be suggesting that the incident is untrue -- which indeed it may be. But you haven't explained how you arrived at that conclusion. Perhaps you're privy to that private email you've been discussing.

[Guest alanm]

RE: Message to TNT Ted...

 

>I think Benjamin Nicholas is a star escort. If I were managing

>his career, I would advise him to NOT respond.

 

This is so funny, I actually laughed out loud.

[Epigonos]

RE: Message to TNT Ted...

 

Not that he cares but on this one I have to go with RockHard. There are occasions when it is wisest to avoid answering accusations. In my opinion this is one of those times. People are going to believe what they want regardless of any answer Benjamin Nicholas might choose to give. Thus why should he bother?

[Guest TNT Ted]

RE: Stop! Stop! Stop!

 

In case you haven't followed my posts (and it appears as if some of you have not), let me make it clear that I did not ask, nor did I ever ask Ben to respond to any of this. As a matter of fact, if I were he, I would not. I would sit back, smile, and keep my image intact.

[RockHard]

RE: Stop! Stop! Stop!

 

"RH, I think you ought to lighten up."

 

Dude, I'm light. You asked a question and I answered, without bold font, no less. That's pretty light for me. Just ask Tom Isern.

 

"I have no agenda"

 

I don't recall anyone specifically saying you did. "You" can, and often does, mean "you all." And the use of "you" in any hypothetical can mean "anyone." It's all up to you. :-) Go ahead, you decide. :-)

 

"Further, I have no intention of emailing Ben or anyone about the subject we've been hashing, because frankly, I don't care."

 

Then why ask your silly questions on a public internet forum? Some of you (generally speaking but not necessarily so :-) ) guys need to either shit or get off the pot.

 

"My only point was to suggest that Ben's silence on the matter -- like it or not -- led me to believe that the incident was probably true."

 

Well that's your bullshit. That doesn't make it fact. "Probably" ain't no definitive.

 

"You, on the other hand, seem to be suggesting that the incident is untrue"

 

I wish I was talking with better readers. As I stated in a post above:

 

"I wasn't there and there's NO WAY I could ever know what really happened." I can't offer any conclusions.

 

If Steven Draker tells me he's HIV-, knowing what I know of Steven, I would take him at his word. If Rick Munroe tells me he's Jewish, knowing what I know of Rick, I would take him at his word. If Benjamin Nicholas tells me he only plays safely, then I would ask him privately about contradicting reviews.

 

If you can't take a man at his word, then how good is yours?

[RockHard]

RE: Message to Alan...

 

"This is so funny, I actually laughed out loud."

 

Yeah, Julia Roberts has to deal with the same laughter when some people refer to her as an Oscar-winning actress.

[RockHard]

RE: Message to Epigonos...

 

"Not that he cares but on this one I have to go with RockHard."

 

Well, if "he" means me:

 

I'm not looking to lead any fan clubs but I do like smart, reasonable men. I just tell things as I see them and will often fight to the bitter end (if I think you're wrong or full of shit) if energy permits. I'm a Leo and I rule in my jungle.

 

This is not to say I don't appreciate when someone speaks up if he understands my position on any argument/debate and/or agrees with it. Because I do appreciate knowing there might be someone out there who is smarter than me (and it isn't Tom Isern).

 

I've come to learn that several members are bothered by that big, OLD, attack-dog Tom Isern; and if you acknowledge your agreement with me, it leaves you vulnerable to an attack by him. I've seen similar games played here so I'm completely comfortable standing out on a limb alone. I don't expect anyone to see things my way but I'm grateful to know when someone does. Furthermore, that turkey-dupe man-in-the-mirror don't scare this bitch. NO WAY!

 

Now, if "he" didn't mean me:

 

then nevermind. :-)

[+ Tom Isern]

RE: Message to Epigonos...

 

ROCKHEAD: “Have none of us tasted our own ass and cum?”

 

Now there’s an image, Rockhead, with his tongue up his own ass. Yikes!

 

ROCKHEAD: “I'm a Leo and I rule in my jungle.”

 

Which deserted piece of serpent and slime-infested swamp land might that be? I’m sure we’d all like to avoid it…

 

ROCKHEAD: “Because I do appreciate knowing there might be someone out there who is smarter than me (and it isn't Tom Isern).”

 

Well, Rockhead, at least I don’t mix my metaphors:

 

ROCKHEAD: "I wish I was talking with better readers."

 

ROCKHEAD: “I've come to learn that several members are bothered by that big, OLD, attack-dog Tom Isern; and if you acknowledge your agreement with me, it leaves you vulnerable to an attack by him.”

 

Ahhhh…so that’s how you explain the fact that you are the only one on the message board obsessed with slamming “old” Tom. Don’t worry, Rockhead, I’m not in the least afraid of your vapid, mendacious, fatuous, and egotistical blathering.

 

[RockHard]

RE: Message to the dupe...

 

"Don’t worry, Rockhead, I’m not in the least afraid of your vapid, mendacious, fatuous, and egotistical blathering."

 

Well ain't that the pot calling the kettle black. Ditto, sweet pea.

 

"Ahhhh…so that’s how you explain the fact that you are the only one on the message board obsessed with slamming “old” Tom."

 

Oh, there you go again, you VAIN fool. Do you really think I'm obsessed? I think if you bother to add up the attacks (only the ones since I've joined here, mind you) and then take a good look at who started them in the first place, I think the index finger of obsession will point towards you, dear. Time to pick up that mirror, again, sweetie, and blow yourself a kiss, on me.

 

I think any escort who attacks clients, belittles and berates clients, tries to intimidate clients (to the point of canceling their membership here) is an escort who deserves to go broke. Tom, dear, you need to find yourself another profession, and do it soon. The clock is ticking.

 

Every time you feed me your silly, obnoxious, self-serving and self-absorbed fodder, you give me one more opportunity to demonstrate to other men with wallets what AN AWFUL BUSINESSMAN YOU ARE and what CONTEMPT YOU HAVE FOR THE CUSTOMER. Shall I define stupid?

 

I think your behavior on this board demonstrates the absolute antithesis of what it takes to win a new customer. And I strongly urge other escorts who would like to enter this MC arena, if making money is your goal, DON'T BEHAVE LIKE TOM ISERN. (Thank goodness, no other escort currently does.)

 

If you were just another poster who attacked me every chance he gets, I would probably ignore you, like I do others. But you're not just another poster. You're an escort, looking to sell companionship services. And your behavior on this board has convinced me that you hate what you do and those with whom you do it.

 

As of this writing, I will try and refrain from acknowledging your presence here again. That is, until you reveal your contempt for the customer, any customer, one more time.

[FinFangFoom]

RE: Message to the dupe...

 

Tom and RockHard sittin' in a tree,

K-I-S-S-I-N-G,

First comes love,

Then comes marriage,

Then comes Tom in a body bag.

 

Poetically yours,

 

FFF

[+ Tom Isern]

Message to the Internet Troll...

 

Dear ROCKHEAD,

 

Fear not. My business continues to boom along just fine. I received an e-mail today from a poster on this board saying how much he appreciates the fact that I never back down when faced with your poisonous hot breath. He said he finds it "quite sexy." So toss your ignorant shit at me all you want. Intelligent people will consider the source. And frankly, my dear, you don't seem to have much credibility on this board.

[1sf]

RE: Message to TNT Ted...

 

Dear Triple F,

 

Thank you, thank you, thank you for taking the time to dissect this review. Reading your critique has been wickedly amusing, no, just damn funny. And instructive.

 

Thanks again from San Francisco.

[RockHard]

RE: Message to the Turkey Dupe...

 

"So toss your ignorant shit at me all you want. He said he finds it "quite sexy.""

 

They call those men scat-queens, dear. And I'm not surprised they line up for you.

 

"you don't seem to have much credibility on this board"

 

Well, then, that must explain your obsession with me.

 

Good luck making all your men, and yourself, happy! :-)

[Guest TNT Ted]

RE: The Last Word

 

RH, I'm not sure how to respond to the above post. Twice you mentioned my 'questions', some of them 'silly', I believe. Help me understand just what questions about Ben you're referring to. (He is the subject, isn't he?). And then think about your wish for better readers.

 

My initial post was merely an observation and an opinion. You followed with an arm-waving defense of Ben. "Men, especially some here, will damn Benjamin Nicholas no matter what. The world (and the MC) is full of stone-throwers whose lust for blood never ends." I understand your tactic of stating generalities such as that, followed by "I didn't say it was you, but if the shoe fits ........." So, to whom were you directing that remark, if not to me?

 

From there we both started dissecting each other's posts to the point where the issues now seem to be clouded by who's going to get in the last word. It's even starting to get a tad personal: (RH: "If you can't take a man at his word, then how good is yours?)

 

I have one more observation, and then you may have the last word:

 

I find it interesting that Ben was very quick to squelch the "Ben seeks porn work" posting. That post is apparently untrue, and he went to some length to make sure we all understand that.

 

RH, the stage is yours ---- all yours.