Older Escorts

[Boston Guy]

In the thread "If I had my druthers", Will writes:

 

>I wish there

>were escorts in their forties

>and fifties. Of course,

>I can also name some

>famous men in their forties

>and fifties who I wish

>were escorts. Practically all

>the ABC reporters, for instance.

> And, most of all,

>Kevin Kline. But that's

>off the subject.

 

I'm creating a new thread, rather than responding to Will in the other thread, because I want the title to stand out. I think there are actually lots of older escorts and perhaps this "Older Escorts" thread will help bring some of them to light.

 

Will, I'm not sure if you have access to AOL or not, but over the last couple of years I've seen profiles on lots of escorts who described themselves as either being in their 40's or late 40's. I would generally interpret that to mean late 40's or 50's.

 

Since these haven't been guys I've been interested in hiring, I haven't made particular note of them. But they are out there and some reasonably diligent searching on AOL (BewareOfNick, are you listening :-) ) could probably ferret out quite a few.

 

And perhaps some of these older escorts will see this thread and respond or perhaps others who know of them will. Who knows, maybe we'll find you a silver-haired sweetheart!

[Bilbo]

Well, there are some of us older escorts out there. When I read the threads about people becoming obvious with escorts in public, I remembered, for one thing, being taken to lunch by men my age or older who didn't have to worry so much about anyone clocking us. Still, it is a niche market. (And, of course, here in Houston, I'm in a niche market in a niche market - very small percentage of people looking for me, especially now that I am a proud bear.) However, those who know that I am what they are looking for, know that they are looking for it and that it is a bit rare. But aren't all older gay men of all professions a bit rarer what with the pandemic? Anyway, yes, though I was entrapped and arrested at 49, I am now trying to figure out just how to start advertising again and getting back into the swing of it, at 50.

I'll give you my web address, but I am about to clean it up since it seems to be confusing the people who are looking for the other things I do. Next step, I suppose, will be to make a site just for my escorting. But I'm having trouble keeping this one updated as it is.

http://www.rainbowprod.com/bilbo

[+ deej]

Chicago escort Mitch Allmond (reviewed here) is 50 and proud of it. Amazingly, he was closeted until the age of 46. He didn't just come out, he kicked the closet door off its damn hinges. ;-) Made his first porn video at 46, now escorts, and has started his own video production company.

 

Neat guy. (I know him socially.)

[Will]

Well, now, that's what I call thoughtful thread-spinning and, BG, I thank you. I don't use AOL, although I have all the start-up equipment sitting right by the computer. Houston is far away, alas, but Chicago is not. I always liked the term "silver fox." It sounds a lot sexier than "twink!" Thanks, guys!

[CT Dick]

Last February I had one of my hottest escort experiences ever with Marcus and Bob. Both are in there 40's and doing it REAL well in Fort Lauderdale.

I also had a great time with Dad and Lad in NYC.

I think that age/experience gives an escort the perspective of appreciating what the client wants. Too many youngsters want a good time for themselves.

These men saw to it that I had an awesome time.

 

 

Dick

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

Wow, and here I thought I was on the edge of having to retire because I was 30, thank you for making me feel worthwhile again, really

[Guest jeffOH]

Michael, I thought the same thing when I turned 30. I'd been working as an escort for two years at the time. If anything, I've continued to get busier. I have several clients that have told me that they would continue to see me as long as I continued

escorting. Physically and spiritually, I'm in much better shape than when I first started in the business.

 

Not everyone wants a boy, many men prefer the maturity and experience of a man in his thirties. The escort I hire regularly

is two years younger than I. Sexually, I am much more confident than I used to be, especially in my private life.

 

I've had people ask me how much longer do I want to work as an

escort. I suppose when either the joy or profitability levels

begin to drop, that's when I'll know it's time to retire.

 

[email protected]

[Will]

>I suppose when either the

>joy or profitability levels

>begin to drop, that's when I'll

>know it's time to retire.

>

>

If I have anything to do with it, that day will never come. I'm on my way to the car right this minute!

[Guest fortyplusgayescorts]

There is a new site featuring escorts 40+ at http://www.river1.btinternet.co.uk/40plus.html

[Guest man2man4u40]

I'm a gay male escort in his early forties. I think that some out there may think that an escort over 40 is a hasbeen who's suffering from delusions of grandeur. Actually, a lot of gay men over 40 who do escort still look great and know what "customer service" is still about (I think customer service is not a part of some younger escorts' vocabularies)

 

Older escorts may be harder to find in that they may have a number of repeat clients which is all they need so they don't bother to advertise. You have probably seen over 40 attractive men out there on "a date" and not realized they were an escort with a client.

 

I also have a full-time "day job" as well which puts a lot of my customers at ease not feeling they are with a guy who's desperate for the money.

 

Good luck with the search.

 

--Jack in SF

[email protected]

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/man2man4u40

415-582-5001

[Guest MattAdams]

There is one interesting niche for escorts over forty. Male/Female couples are typically looking for an older escort. The reason is the woman wants someone older than their children.

 

Carl is on my website at http://www.whatshotnews.com/referals and is a very interesting individual and was the first escort documented to be hired off of the wireless website http://www.wapdrive.net/matadams4u

 

Another niche for older escorts is guys in their early twenties looking for someone masculine and experienced for their first experience or guys that are str8 looking to experiment for the first time.

 

There are very few very young escorts on my sites (and are the ones most often removed from my sites for dishonesty with other escorts or clients) because they just dont have the maturity to develop relationships with others. Their relationships are entirely based on their needs without appropriate consideration of the limits or boundaries of others.

 

Matt Adams

http://www.whatshotnews.com

Author, Hustlers, Escorts and Porn Stars

[NASAguy]

As a 54 year old, who has hired several escorts in their mid-30's, I can honestly say that I absolutely prefer more mature escorts for the same reasons as already discussed.

By the way, Jack, your pictures are very HOT!!! Would love to meet you sometime

[Guest man2man4u40]

You are took kind. But, it's still nice to hear/read. LOL.

 

--Jack

P.S. My phone number was mistyped in the previous e-mail. It should read 415-582-7001.

[Guest maturescort4u]

As a man in his 40s who has recently begun to escort on a part-time basis, I can only tell you that I have had several clients who have been very pleased with our sessions. Three of them, in fact, have told me they have written positive reviews, one of which was recently posted. All of them have told me they look forward to seeing me again the next time they are in town. I have a "regular" full-time job, so this is not something I have lots of time for, but I have found enough guys who enjoy my company, so it has worked out very well.

[CT Dick]

What name were these reviews under? I'd love to read them.

 

Dick

[Guest youngblood]

So who are you, mature mystery man?

[adriano46]

My own experience tends to move more towards escorts advertising at 28 or 29 (and HOLDING) as I generally can find a nice guy who, in reality, is in his 30's. I usually am very honest with them and tell them I prefer older guys, and am very turned on by guys who are balding, or hairy, or simply built like men and not twinks. Too bad our culture thrives on eternal youth. These guys are generally much better at what they do, and more sensitive too.

 

So, some of you 28 or 29 year old escprts... don't be afriad to tell us when you hit the big 30 or even 40 - or 50 for that matter. There IS a market out there for you.

[Guest WetDream]

My thoughts exactly, Adriano. There is a young lad (!!?!?!?!!!) with a picture ad stating he is 24 that has been running in the Bay Area Reporter for at least four years. I am patiently waiting.

[Guest man2man4u40]

FYI

 

After doing a little bit of research it appears that the "mystery man" you speak of is Kevin--St Louis.

 

He has a very positive review (one so far) and that's where his e-mail address is also listed.

 

--Jack in SF

 

>So who are you, mature mystery

>man?

[Guest maturescort4u]

LOL, no "mystery man" here, just Kevin in St. Louis.

[CT Dick]

Thanks, Kev. That's a great review.

 

Maybe I'll have to plan a trip west and see Jeff in Ohio on my way to St .Louis.

 

I got a chuckle out of your reviewer's bio:

 

<I use escorts because it saves time and I know exactly what I am getting>

 

Lucky him. As long as I've been screening escorts, I still get surprises.

 

Dick

[Guest maturescort4u]

Thanks, Dick.

I am curious about your statement regarding surprises. Sounds like you have had some less than pleasant experiences. Sorry to hear if that is the case. I try hard to avoid any "surprises" for the client. I try to find out what he is looking for and then, to the best of my ability, deliver it. If both parties are honest and upfront from the beginning, there should not be any "surprises."

Anyway, thanks for the comment, and let me know if you would like to hook up if you are ever in town.