HIRING A TRAVELING ESCORT

[Tommygunzz]

OK---My suggestion is that traveling escorts sometimes don't provide the experience that one might have if they were hired in their own hometowns.

 

I was thinking back that I have hired at least 3 guys who are well reviewed on this site, but when I hired them as they passed through Dallas were not what I expected. To state this in positive terms, I have been more impressed with hiring an escort in his own hometown or bringing him to either my place, or to a place that I brought him to be with me.

 

Reasons? Well, I think when an escort is paying his own way to a location and booking clients, well, he's more apt to book more clients per day---bite off more than he can chew. Less personal attention, concerned to "hold back" to be able to book more appointments, to have that feeling that he needs to work more clients to cover the additional expense---which translates into being less focused, more distracted, than if he was hired in familiar surroundings.

 

Of course, traveling escorts provide some an experience to meet well reviewed men with a following, that otherwise might not be available.

 

I wonder if anyone else would like to comment on their experience with these escorts who make a living of moving across the country, or continents, to avail themselves of clientele.

[vabballfan]

>I wonder if anyone else would like to comment on their

>experience with these escorts who make a living of moving

>across the country, or continents, to avail themselves of

>clientele.

 

I think it truly depends on the escort. I have seen Kristian from L.A. (formerly Houston) three times in Philadelphia and he is probably the second best escort I've ever hired - incredible cock (always rock hard even though he sees a number of clients per day when he is at Premier in Philly), oustanding top, incredible bottom and a sweet man.

 

The best escort I've ever hired was Brett Holt from SF - I hired him in NY and twice in Boston. Incredible, mind blowing sex. On two separate occasions non-stop sex for two hours with multiple orgasms for Brett on every call. As a matter of fact, I have him booked three evenings in DC this coming weekend/week. If Brett is at 50% he's above just about every other escort at 100%.

 

Booked Marco and Olivier when they were in DC (based in London) and they were both scorchingly hot.

 

I've been with local escorts that were absolutely horrible on their own turf (the quality of escorts in DC is not very good).

[+ newatthis]

Of course the real experiment would be to compare performance "at home" with performance on the road. Or were you writing about escorts who travel essentially full time, with no real home base?

[irishguybos]

That's kind of funny about Brett Holt, I am about to post a no show review on him. And not just once but this is really a third time. I had him booked for two hours yesterday in Boston and he did not show, call me or send an email explaining why. This is the third time I tried to hook up with him in Boston and still never met the man, I even lost money this time because I pre-booked a hotel room to meet him in. I never read a bad review avout him that is why I kept trying but to me he is useless.

[Laurent]

I would fully agree that it depends on the escort. Jason Maxwell provided a scorching experience while here; Zack Williams was more a brief flicker of a cigarette lighter.

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO. The pressure to set up as many Clients as he can handle, in a place like NYC, Due to the "High Cost" of Visiting a City like NYC May affect his Performance. Personally If and When I have hungout with a "Traveler" I have done so, on his 2nd day in Town..I have found either "Right off the plane" or about to "Catch a cab to the Airport" other things tend to be on his mind, than a Hot Time for a couple of hours! Which is understandable Totally! Again just my own opinion.. :+

[sman]

i just had a very bad experience with a famous escort, who's name i will not disclose, all the hooboy readers will be outraged, he only has positive reviews and who am i???

after pre paying his e ticket to meet me in a certain city where i would be for a couple of days < i am NOT an american and live outside the usa> i did not hear from him again. i mailed a couple of times, and finally got a one liner. the names had to be changed , i did that, then after 2 /3 days he discovered the schedule and raised his price, i accepted . even sent my pic to be honest about everything. nothing, nada. less then 24 hours before coming to the city we were to meet i got a mail , asking me to call him " he would feel more comfy talking to me"< i had asked for that before and no way. my reply bounced<!!!!!> twice. so i sent him my reply trough yahoo. he accepted that mail and he called. unfriendly, very dry. so i just said thanks , but no thanks . no meeting. i prefer to lose the money for the ticket, then losing more money on someone who would not deliver. i wonder if ever he had the intention of ever doing this trip. i will never know.

so guys, maybe you have more luck i dont know. i always tought that client had to feel at ease and a certain form of contact is apropriate. but from now on if ever i use the service of an escort again i do it in the city i would be. i found a nice guy by the way. a true gem. never tought that would happen.so all ended well.

[irishguybos]

Personally I think you should name the escort. That is one of the reasons we post on this site. To let others know of good and bad experiences. I posted on this thread a bad experience with an escort who has nothing but good reviews and I got screwed by him. I am waiting to hear from him before I post a bad review.

[JT Brooklyn]

Definitely agree with Irish. Different guys do have different experiences with the same escort.Every situation is a different one, from the time you contact the Escort til "he knocks" or "you knock" on the door. This site was setup to discuss life experiences. So not giving a Face or Name to your Experience, really does no one any good. A Continuously Reviewed Guy,who is named.. will one way or the other hear about your experience with him and Respond one way or the other! Especially when there was $$ exchanged..NO Services received! LOL :+

[sman]

no. this famous escort will not respond to this posting of mine.

and maybe one of you guys with more knowledge of the etiquette with escorts can tell me if an escort you are about to see for a 24 hour period of time and you are paying his airplane ticket to fly him across 2 states to meet you,<ONE MONTH IN ADVANCE> would not be gracious enough, despite his <over> booking to at least keep track of his "client" . and if he was really going to travel would not have reserved his seat in advance..and i dont think an escort with good intentions would block your e mail messages.<from the real mail account>

i dont want him any harm, i was the stupid one . i learned my lesson, never again to want anyone far from where i will be,no matter how goodlooking and "nice" they seem to be. and no matter how fabulous the reviews are.by the way a friend of mine who met him,and to whom i forwarded his mails and the bounced mails said he became a real hussler.and he knew the good part of him.

[TerryP]

I really do not understand the reluctance in naming the escort and/or submitting a review. The purpose of this site is not to praise every good thing that an escort does. We should be able to pull up an escort's reviews and get a good well rounded assessment of that escort from all points of view.

 

There are several 'famous' escorts in the reviews that have never had a negative word spoken about them. I always find this amazing and think "No one has ever had a single bad moment with this guy?" I think its ridiculous that we should be ashamed to speak the truth about an escort for fear of backlash from that escorts 'fans'.

[JT Brooklyn]

Sman..You never even met the guy..and you "assume" he will not respond..which IMHO makes "your" HE SAID..a waste of time,and somewhat doubtful to me at least! Not to mention the Fact, that you have done him a "BIG FAVOR" in not mentioning his name..I will "Thank You" for him! Thanks for the Easy $$ also! :+

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Cognitive dissonance at work.

 

>

> i just had a very bad experience with a famous escort, who's

>name i will not disclose, all the hooboy readers will be

>outraged,

 

I'm not sure about ALL readers but you might be right that some might be outraged. I have seen it happen before more than once. The ire of several targeted even against well-respected long-time members who went against the popular grain.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

>I really do not understand the reluctance in naming the

>escort and/or submitting a review.

 

I have doubts that this episode constitutes a reviewable experience as it seems to fall under the catefgory of a noshow at most... maybe. It is my understanding that current policy is that the only noshows accepted are those where money is exchanged beforehand. I'm not sure that purchasing an eticket constitutes exchange of money since technically nothing is 'exchanged' until the second party has presented the ticket to the air carrier ostensibly for 'use'. In addition, there is nothing to stop an over-eager client from purchasing without a confirmed commitment from the second party. Who is to say?

[TerryP]

Thanks Tampa. I didn't realize that. I guess I assumed that if I bought someone a plane ticket or whatever and they didn't show up, that I would be permitted to submit a no-show review. Interesting.

[+ deej]

TY, this would probably qualify as a no-show except for one important thing. The client said:

 

"so i just said thanks , but no thanks . no meeting."

 

If a client calls it off, for whatever reason, it isn't a no-show.

 

This DOES sound like a whopper of a "he said/he said" story, but a no-show it ain't. I suspect a review of all the emails from both sides would reveal a major communication breakdown.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

>TY, this would probably qualify as a no-show except for one

>important thing. The client said:

>

>"so i just said thanks , but no thanks . no meeting."

>

>If a client calls it off, for whatever reason, it isn't a

>no-show.

 

I am heartened to hear that would qualify without the exception noted.

 

It just seems reasonable that when someone puts up nonrefundable airfare then he has 'standing' to make a complaint of noshow. Of course the devil is in the details buried in communications. But that is why each side gets an 'at bat' opportunity to explain their side of the details.

[augustman]

I have a couple of quick responses. Traveling escorts, I have had good success. Living where I do there is basically none. So I either go to chicago or they come to me. Chicago to me 90% success rating. To chicago home site done twice and good both times. Traveling through Chicago, have done the most and 90% success rate. Finally non-Chicago overnite to me, suprise 50% success. This one I pay the most and get the least amount of sex, good to excellent as a companion and conversation, but if it is sex to the dollar no. Go with the two or three hour meeting.

 

As to sman and his issue, I know the man and the escort. I feel bad because I recomended the escort. I have gotten to know the client. I also wrote a glowing a review of the escort. I am perplexed as to how it became a difficult situation, but the escorts life has changed since we met and that probably has had an impact. What it does say is that it is like recomending a nice restaurant, every body has their own taste in food and what they expect in customer service. Escort has a very laid back style in setting up meetings, in this case that style was irksome to the client. I would definitely say the communication link was not there. All I can say is I have found when set up of meeting has gone through changes and has become somewhat of an ordeal, I have decided to just cancel because they never turn out as well as expected. I belive that is why the client here chose not to invest any more money into the deal. Better to lose the airfare than the fee which was way more than the ticket. For this type on meeting I agree it is nice for the escort to schmooze a bit, hey the client starts feeling very good and helps if rough spots develope. AS to the escort, did it change my opinion, a bit, but I am sure he really is not interested in my opinion and to be honest I am not going to do fly ins any more, have yet to have one I am completely sexually satisfied over.

[sman]

thanks auggie. you know how bad i felt. i miss your phone calls. have a safe trip and take care.

sman.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Tommy!

 

I find your question very relevant, and I have been thinking a lot about that subject after a question in the "Ask an escort" section. It was more or less "How many clients do you see a day when travelling?"

Some escorts responded that one session was enough, while others said that as many as possible.

 

Being a travelling escort myself, and knowing how pricey hotels are, I thought and thought a lot, until I came up with the best solution for myself: When travelling, I don't accept one hour appointmens, and give preference to three hours or more. That allows me to meet only one client a day, and be fresh, rested, happy and hard in the right places, while being relaxed and supple in the rest of my body. :9

I try to make it so that my first hour pays for my hotel, and the extra pays for the rest... and it works great.

 

Also, having that attitude, attracks the kind of clients that one wants to meet: more focused on the quality of the service, on a longer time to establish more intimacy, closeness and feeling comfortable with each other.

 

It is funny that finding that solution took me so much time, but after all, it is always by experience that one can learn best.

 

I hope that your future interactions with escorts will be all fulfilling, fun, challenging and very sensual. I know that having it always perfect is almost impossible since it all depends on chemistry, but the variation between good, better and amazing also makes it more fun... doesn't it?

 

Receive a tight hug,

[flguy]

Hey Juan, This is the kind of response I like to hear. Your feelings on "how many clients per day" goes a long way with me. Of course I tend to always hire for multiple hour sessions. Too bad you don't come to the US!! Call me if you do.

[JT Brooklyn]

Hey Juan. You are Definitely my kind of guy. "Slow and easy" ..Slam Bam has never worked for me. But you have to be A Forplay kind of guy I guess. 2 Hr rates of course are Mainly pricey..But I have found, it definitely takes BOTH Guys "eyes off" the clock and "on the Body"! LOL.. There are a few "Travelers" who are more interested in "Buying the Hotel", than just having a Hot Time with their partner..LOL :+

[Tommygunzz]

Thanks Juan, and everyone else who took time to post a reply.

 

You and I are thinking a lot alike---you like to take time with a client and I want to feel special when I hire. It doesn't usually happen when someone is worrying about "making the rent", but your solution seems well-thought out and workable.

 

PS Juan Saw your post about your upcoming trip to NYC and sent you an email with some suggestions. Enjoy your trip. It's a great place to visit.