I Suck at Being a Bottom

[Guest FirstPlace]

I have tried very hard to be a bottom yet aside from one exception have always had a bad experience... basically due to pain. I have been with some great guys, very patient, some ummm with small dicks some with large... it just doesn't seem to matter.

 

I love to have my butt fingered and the one time a guy fucked me it felt great. The other four times we never made it all the way so to speak. I should mention I am overweight yet that should not have anything to do with the bad times I have had trying to be fucked by *willing* guys who are unconcerned about my size.

 

So what am I doing wrong? Any suggestions? This is an honest post. I really want to enjoy being fucked.

[Guest bottomboykk]

Aaron Lawrence has some great advice on this subject. Go to http://www.aaronlawrence.com/newfiles/advice/advicec3.htm for help.

 

Follow his advice, and you should have greater success. It's a worthwhile endeavor! ;-)

[vers7]

Also, being a good bottom is a matter of practice. The more often you do it, the easier it is to relax and enjoy. Regularly using dildos (in increasing sizes)helps you to get a good idea of your capabilities and feelings.

[Traveller]

My first time it was Lemmon 714s, others swear by Tina.

 

Later.

 

PS. Too bad Dr. Feelgood is no longer around.

[Guest FirstPlace]

>My first time it was Lemmon

>714s,

 

lol, I believe it was actually lemom though the original was Roar (sp). They sold the rights due to all the umm heat. Yes 714 (also my area code) was quite fun! Mabe that is why I moved here

[Traveller]

The 714s came from Hoffman-LaRoche. The others were made by Rorer. Now they're all boot-leg out of Mexico, but still quite serviceable.

 

Later.

[Guest Les]

Methaqualone is alright but roofies are better!

(If you don't mind being semi-concious) LOL...

[Traveller]

Roofies take the edge off of Tina better, but don't give me quite the same "let's fuck all night" buzz.

 

Later.

[Guest MrB]

Oh, and how long ago was that? LOL

 

 

MrB

[Guest cp8036]

<"let's fuck all night" buzz>

 

Yes, Tina does work well. Missed three flights in a row cuz a non stop romp. But, not really appropiate in the escort scenario.

 

Sorry to be so provincial, but what are lemmon 714 and roofies?

[Matt_Vancouver]

Get on top and ride like you never rode before: )

Seriously though, you need to relax those muscles, try poppers. I wouldn't suggest any of the other erm....'items' mentioned below, unless of course you don't want to sleep for a few days: ) Traveller, make sure you eat something: )

I've found the best way for someone who is having trouble getting a dick into them is to have them slide down on it, that way they are taking it at thier own pace, and can control the penetration. It could be difficult with a heavier set guy, so maybe have the guy attached to that monster cock, sit on a chair, you face away from him and try it that way, supporting yourself with a desk or something so as not to break the poor boys willy if you slip: )

good luck. not everyone is capable of it, if fingers feel good, go with fingers.

matt(Tina can make your ass sore,"NEVER STOP FUCKING ME" as heard through my friends closed bedroom door after a night of 'festivities')

http://go.to/mattsplace

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[Guest Zach DC]

>I really want

>to enjoy being fucked.

 

Hey FirstPlace, I'll toss in some advice for preparing yourself to get fucked.

 

Buttplugs are the best way to relax and open a less experienced butthole. Unlike dildos or fingers, a plug is designed to stay in once inserted. And they still pulse with natural contractions from your butthole.

 

Plugs come in various sizes, so start small and work up. The smaller ones are pretty easy to get used to. So you can even try increasing sizes after only 5 minutes or so. But don't waste your money on any plug smaller than your thumb. (Any smaller and their necks aren't much narrower than the widest part of the plug. They won't stay in place.)

 

Buttplugs come in various materials. The most common are made of a soft rubber shell with a hard rubber core. A newer variety is the softer and more pliable "jelly" like material. These jelly plugs are ideal for longer wear. You can walk around wearing one in place with minimum discomfort. Great for opening yourself up while getting ready for your date. Pop one in beforehand. By the time you get together, you should be good to go.

 

The best fuck position for a less experienced bottom is your partner lying face up, you straddling him, riding his cock. This is also great for anyone getting used to taking a cock deep. All that said, this position can be lackluster or awkward if done improperly. The bottom has a big responsibility. So here's a few pointers on how to ride a cock.

 

Get in touch with your butthole--literally. Find your hole and guide the head of his dick in before you ever apply your weight. Don't be overzealous--don't just grab his dick and squat down. (When someone sits his butt down without my cock far enough in his hole--or not at all in--this can result in bending my cock---very painful.) A hard cock doesn't like being squished or contorted. And needless to say, it does nothing for keeping it hard.

 

Make sure his cock is in your butthole. If you have a big butt, spread your cheeks. If he has a small cock, spread 'em more. Once he's inside, then slowly have a seat, guiding his cock as you descend. Stay in tune with your butt, your body and your partner's cock. Find the best angle for easiest penetration. This may mean slowly shifting yourself forward or back, depending on the natural angle or curve of your partner's erection.

 

Get used to his cock. A few inches of dick in your butt is fine for starters. But once you're nice and opened, take him deeper. Long strokes. The more you take the more he'll thank you for it. You're in charge, so control his cock. Treat it nice. Vary the pace. Up and down. Side to side. Deep, slow grinding. Stroke his nuts. Read his expressions. Ask him what he likes. Show and tell him what feels great for you.

 

So take your time and find a patient partner, too. Open up with buttplugs. Ride his cock, get used to it. Learn to enjoy more than just the friction, but the whole experience. You'll be ready for a good plow fuck in no time.

[+ Lucky]

Well, thanks for sharing, Mr. First Place. Aren't you glad that there is a site like this where you go for advice on these important questions? And it's FREE advice!

Have a nice evening, and happy bottoming.

[CT Dick]

Nice response, Zach. I hope 1st Place heeds it and enjoys himself.

 

Dick

[Guest FirstPlace]

>Well, thanks for sharing, Mr. First

>Place. Aren't you glad that

>there is a site like

>this where you go for

>advice on these important questions?

>And it's FREE advice!

I sure am! Thanks for taking the time to post nothing about me!

[Guest Zach DC]

Thanks Dick, I hope FirstPlace enjoys himself, too.

 

And damn, reading his subsequent posts, I must clarify my advice. I said use a buttplug, not be a buttplug.

 

Zach DC

[Guest bottomboykk]

>I must clarify my advice.

>I said use a buttplug,

>not be a buttplug.

 

Too funny, Zach! ROFLMAO!!!