Indiscrete Escort

[SDTop]

I have a question guys..

 

I have been seeing a particular escort for a few months now. He is young and somewhat inexperienced in escorting. A while back he casually told me that he had talked to another escort friend about me. I let him know that I didn't think that was appropriate..that I didn't want other people, including other escorts, knowing my business. He accepted that and thanked me for letting him know.

 

Recently, I received an email from an "online friend" who hired this same escort in another city. He warned me that this escort "couldn't keep his mouth shut" about me, about my business, and even talking about my partner! I was very disappointed and decided not to hire him again. And, to top it off, I was chatting online with another escort yesterday who let me know that he knew who I was from another escort. I can only guess who that was.

 

So, my question to other clients and escorts is..am I correct to be angry about this escort's indiscretion? Am I being too sensitive about this? Please let me know..I am interested in your comments. Thanx!

[uwsider]

I would never reveal personal information to an escort unless I had established a relationship over a period of time and had developed trust based on my observations of the persons conduct. However, I adamantly think that it is inappropriate for either the escort to share the client's personal information or vice versa. I think that sometimes a false sense of intimacy could lead one to divulge information that should probably be kept private. It sort of comes with the territory. When you've shared over a period of time in a client/escort relationship it can be difficult not to assume a kind of friendship/trust which may not actually be inherent in the relationship. In the end, however, I think any escort worth his salt should protect and respect your personal information.

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>So, my question to other clients and escorts is..am I correct

>to be angry about this escort's indiscretion?

 

You are absolutely correct to be angry, especially after you made it clear to the escort that you did not want him to speak about you. And to be talking to his CLIENTS about you! Unbelieveable.

 

I'd suggest reviewing this escort so clients can be warned that their discretion will not be protected, but the drawback is you may have to be prepared for him to do even more talking all around town in retaliation.

[Rick Munroe]

>am I correct to be angry about

>this escort's indiscretion?

 

Of course. He broke the Golden Rule of Escorting: "Keep your mouth shut" (except when there's a juicy hard cock being waved around in front of it). I'd be pissed, too (not in a water sports way).

 

By the way...are you sure you want to have "SDT" as part of your handle? Some of our readers might be dyslexic.

[phage]

I’m not big on divulging personal details either, and I always assume that escorts gossip with each other. I mean, come on, it’s shoptalk. Who doesn’t talk about the people at work? (Although my regular says, and I have no reason to disbelieve, that he doesn’t know any other escorts on a personal basis.)

 

I’ve never had an escort talk about other clients in anything but the most general terms, and I would be pretty pissed off if an escort gave another client enough information to identify me. That’s crossing the line.

[Guest alanm]

You may be over reacting a little, seeing the same escort for a period of months does lead to a sense of some kind of relationship.

Although, he should have stopped when you confronted him.

 

But I have a question for you, did you ever talk to anyone about the escort? Clients gossip too, I believe. You probably should not say anything to an escort that you would not want repeated, the same as a casual friend.

[Guest NakedTony]

>...am I correct to be angry about this escort's indiscretion? Am I being too sensitive about this? Please let me know..I am interested in your comments. Thanx!

 

Perhaps I've been listening to Dr. Laura too much. Do you really need the permission and approval of people on this message board to be angry?!?

 

I recommend that you girt up your loins, grow a set of balls, or just muster up the courage to write an honest review of the escort. I don't recommend physical violence (although that's probably what I'd be considering at this point). But I do wholly support and advocate the use of the poison pen on this guy.

 

I wouldn't classify his actions as a mere "indiscrtion". To borrow a term from FFF, I'd classify the guy as a whore. He's not in the same category as the escorts I know. x(

[Flower]

>But I have a question for you, did you ever talk to anyone

>about the escort?

Hmmmm--ya think? I mean who do (can) we gossip to about the escorts we have been with? Our business partner? Fellow str8 employees ? Wives or family? I'm willing to bet that for most clients discretion is forced upon them regardless of whether or not they'd otherwise kiss and tell.

 

Of course there are other escorts to gossip to but that would certainly be low rent. I've had escorts ask who I've been with before, and was very surprised that they were even curious and more surprised at their reaction when I changed the subject and made it clear it wasn't a topic of cnversation. So this can be a problem for all of us here--not just clients.

[phage]

I guess some of us are luckier to have people to share the slutty parts of our lives with. I have two friends and a sister who know all about my little hobby. In fact, I’ve been known to send them a picture or two and that certainly qualifies as kissing and telling!

[SDTop]

Hey guys..thanx alot for all of your comments and suggestions. Especially from the escorts.

 

And NakedTony..you'll be glad to know that I am now the proud owner of a new set of balls! LOL

[SDTop]

And, to alanm, to answer your question. Yes, I spoke about this escort only once to my one and only "online friend" that I mentioned before (we've never met, just talked online for years). And that was just to refer the escort to him because I thought they might get along. And no, I didn't mention the indiscretion of the escort to him because at the time I thought it had been taken care of.

[Guest alanm]

Then you have every right to be upset, especially since you told the escort to keep his mouth shut.

 

I wanted to make the point that clients gossip about escorts also,

apologize for doing it a way that did not apply to you.