Bisexual escorts

[Guest LuckyGuy]

Over the past few months, I've hired three terrific escorts who are bisexual. Each has been totally into gay sex, including a one who was a body builder and loved to bottom. However all three would like long-term relationships with women while continuing their chosen profession -- quite a challenge! I have nothing negative to say about any of these terrific guys who were great in and out of bed, but I'm wondering if anyone else has encountered this. Is this just the normall distribution of sexual orientation, or is there some other explanation?

[+ bigjoey]

i've found the same thing with some escorts. part of it may be their desire to have children and to conform to society's normal relationships. in one case, the escort is just sexual and loves having sex with everyone.

[buckguy]

I'm (pleasantly) surprised that this hasn't elicited the usual "bisexuality is just a stage", "I don't believe bisexuality exists" responses that are normal here and in other gay forums. The few bi- guys, I've been with have either been more confused about their sexuality than they let on, or genuinely enjoyed/needed sex with men & women. Sexuality is not a binary thing, so as long as they're willing and able, more power to them.

[Guest Charon]

I've always thought sexuality was a binary thing. Either you want to have sex with me, or you don't want to have sex with me. Other than that, who cares?

[Rod Hagen]

Bisexuality is a tale told by fairies.

 

You all should dig through the recycling bin and reread yesterday's NYTiimes front page story on Gays in China. The way it works is

1. They are gay

2. They feel, no matter how gay they are the MUST, because of tradition, get or stay married and return, someday, to their families and home village, leaving the big free city behind.

3. Because they have sex with men, but feel compeled to marry women (gay sex was only recently decriminalized, and even more recently removed from their equivalent of the DSMIV) that they are bisexual.

4. AIDS is on the rise in China. Because they don't believe they are gay GAY they don't believe they can get AIDS because many there (and here?) still believe it's a gay disease. And so they have unsafe sex with gay men and bring illness and death home to their families.

 

It was a real interesting story. The writer really went to pains to show that even the nelliest China queen living the freest gay live in, say Bejing, (even several may hustlers he talked to) will eventually get married because of the strenght of China tradition.

[Guest JON1265]

I have always gone with the Sandra Bernhardt view on sexuality....that is that 10% of people are strictly gay, 10% strictly str8, and 80% are/can be bi...

 

I confess - I do not get heterosexuality or bisexuality, as I find the vagina to be a repulsive organ...I just don't get it.

[Guest LiLBlondBoy]

I also am Bisexual, Though I am currently with 2 guys(1 to top and one to bottom)

My Ultimate lifestyle would be a relationship with 2guys (one top one bottom) and a Girl...

Unfortunately, Most girls want the whole monogomous "I'm the only one" type relationship, and I am not ready for that, (*school escorting and work makes it too busy, plus I wanna play!)

I also am Glad that has not come up about how bisexuals are all confused, Cause I know exactly what I want, and if i like one more than the other, why let the other go? I want the bext of all possible worlds!

LOL

Chris

 

 

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[Guest cmp]

But you don't exist, don't you get it? You are a fairytale and so am I. By the way, have you ever worked with a female escort? I'll make sure to give you a call when I get to your neighborhood.

[Guest LiLBlondBoy]

Have not been with a female escort before, ...hehehe Guess it would depend on the female escort eh?

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[Guest Joey Ciccone]

Do you mean bisexuality is a tale told by chinese fairies, or that the writers at the Times are fairies? Or is a gay man calling all bi men fairies? What an ironic brain teaser.

[Guest BareBoy]

I know at least two brothels in Australia where hey have gay guys, women and transexuals, all living/working very happily together, and enjoyed often by the same clients. I had one threesome with one of the guys and a girl, and very nice it was; it's not going to turn me straight, but as someone said, try everything except incest and bell-ringing!

[Guest LiLBlondBoy]

Actually I consider myself try-sexual

I will try anything sexual at least once!

 

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[Guest Thunderbuns]

>Over the past few months, I've hired three terrific escorts

>who are bisexual.

 

>Is this just the normall distribution of sexual orientation, or is there some other explanation?

 

Actually - I always bisexual meant that if you wanted to be sexual, you had to buy it ;-)

 

Thunderbuns

[Uncle Bill]

I really don't see why some people contend that it's impossible to be bi. It's right up there with telling gay people that it's just a phase (or disease). I'm married, with kids, and am strongly attracted to both genders. I've already got the "normal" life down, so why do I still like being with women when I also like being with guys (yes, I'm unfaithful, although with a wink from my wife even if we don't talk about it openly). I figure that it's just who I am. Maybe I don't actually exist -- I might just be in some nightmare that Rod is having.

[+ deej]

>I figure that it's just who I

>am. Maybe I don't actually exist -- I might just be in some

>nightmare that Rod is having.

 

And Pam will wake up and Bobby Ewing will walk out of the shower with perky nipples and we'll find out it was all a dream.

 

Honey, you're you. There aren't many things people can expect from you within reason, but being you is one of them.

 

You go.

[ready4boi]

I believe there are people who are literally attracted to both sexes out there. However the rare few I met who were this type of genuine bisexual had personality disorders. One even had multiple personalities. Of course there are gay and straight people who have personality disorders, but I can only imagine how confusing it would be to actually be sexually aroused by both sexes equally. It's hard enough being horny for one gender - no pun intended. Bisexuals deserve respect just as much as anyone else as long as they're honest and open about who they are. One of these bisexuals I knew was a guy in a relationship with a woman keeping his alter gay ego a secret. This can only lead to traumatic and emotionally charged conflict for all parties involved. Bisexual escorts are no different cause I like to give many the benefit of the doubt that they are people too worthy of respect. In my book, respect is earned through trust, and trust is built on honesty.

[Guest gilbie]

oh please people! pick a gender and those can't are just plain schizo. there's lots of schizophrenic escorts out there who can pull off seeming stable when theyre twisted as a pretzel. i'll take strictly gay any day. x(

[Guest]

I don't think I've ever hired an escort who described himself as bisexual. I guess it's because most of the guys I've met in "real life" who described themselves as bisexual were flaky and detached. Of course, I've also known a few "formerly bisexual" guys (who now consider themselves gay), and they seemed much more down-to-earth after they started viewing themselves as gay. When I see an escort who describes himself as bisexual, I ask my self "Why is he telling me this? Am I supposed to get excited by the fact that he sleeps with fish? Does he tell his women he's bisexual?"

[Uncle Bill]

My experiences have been a bit different. I've hired several escorts who stated up front that they were bisexual, and they were some of the most level headed escorts that I've been with (and I've hired over two dozen male escorts in the last 3 years). They seemed to have far fewer hang-ups or personal issues than most of the gay escorts (many of whom are well reviewed on this site). I'm also pretty sure that they like both genders -- not just because they specifically say that they do, but because of the things they do and subtle signs that they give. I'm also pretty sure that they weren't gay for pay -- they were just too good at it (they were as into it as any gay escorts I've used).

 

Did these guys have the exact same preference for guys as girls? Probably not. I consider myself bi (when I have to label myself as anything other than just being someone who enjoys another person's company in a close personal setting -- and who just likes sex a whole lot as well), but I probably lean more towards guys at this point in my life. Am I deluded? Are the "bi" escorts deluded? I don't think so, but who knows for sure?

 

I do find it rather stange that the response is that a bi person must have a personality disorder -- but I guess that is since, of course, one can apparently be only wholly gay or wholly straight.

[Guest LiLBlondBoy]

How about Gay with Bisexual tendencies? (That would be most accurate here!)

 

 

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[Guest cmp]

Confusing - NO! Fun - YES!

[Guest LuckyGuy]

>My experiences have been a bit different. I've hired

>several escorts who stated up front that they were bisexual,

>and they were some of the most level headed escorts that

>I've been with. I'm also

>pretty sure that they like both genders -- not just because

>they specifically say that they do, but because of the

>things they do and subtle signs that they give. I'm also

>pretty sure that they weren't gay for pay -- they were just

>too good at it (they were as into it as any gay escorts I've

>used).

>

>I do find it rather stange that the response is that a bi

>person must have a personality disorder -- but I guess that

>is since, of course, one can apparently be only wholly gay

>or wholly straight.

 

This has been my experience as well with the three bisexual escorts I've met. Although they didn't announce they were bisexual, they did tell me about their lives when I asked. All three were the nicest guys without any evidence of a personality disorder. I find myself believing in bisexuality -- they enjoy sex with both genders, but they can better make a living sleeping with men. I think they just have the dilemma of being escorts as their chosen profession which makes it much more difficult to have a normal relationship with a woman.

[Guest LiLBlondBoy]

I think it is funny that some Gay people have a thing against Bisexuals, they feel they are indecisive

Kinda like how some str8 people view Gay people.

don'tcha think?

 

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[Guest LiLBlondBoy]

PS

 

It is not a choice, it is how I am made and how I feel.

Though I still prefer guys anyday, (a guy knows better what a guy likes)But I would not turn down anything I think is beautiful.

(a guy knows better what a guy likes)

 

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[guyinsf]

Which symptoms qualify them for a "schizophrenic" diagnosis? Hearing voices? Visual hallucinations? Paranoia? Delusions? Disorganized/incoherent speech? Flat affect? Catatonia? Or were you using "schizophrenic" as a layperson might (inaccurately) when you actually mean that they have multiple personalities (dissociative identity disorder)? If you do mean the latter, do these people actually have distinct personae that you have observed or are you just bothered by what seems to you as incompatible desires?

 

As to "personality disorders," what was that about? Do they have borderline, narcissistic, histrionic, schizotypal, schizoid, paranoid, obsessive-compulsive, antisocial, or some other diagnosable personality disorder? Or did you just not like them?

 

I'm not bisexual but I've known many bisexual men and women. I cannot understand painting with such a broad brush. I don't mean to be overly challenging, but I believe that if someone is going to use a clinical diagnosis, one should be using the standard criteria to make that diagnosis. We wouldn't want people who aren't doctors giving medical diagnoses based on their gut feelings. So, please, unless you have the education and experience to diagnosis psychiatric disorders, please personalize your experience and opinions by saying things like "Every bisexual I've met has been really _______," filling in the blank with what you have observed and/or felt.

 

As someone else said, I don't get it when gay men are biphobic. I also don't get it when gay men hate women.