Keeping some clothes on during encounter

[HungStud49]

When you hire a male escort, can you just request that you want to keep some clothes on. I'd like for him to maybe strip down to his underwear or take his shirt off, but necessarily. I want to be Massaged a lot, with me keeping a t-shirt on and get down to my underwear. 

I don't like being fully naked in hotel rooms, etc. I have a thing about cleanliness. I don't even care if he takes all of his clothes off, as I'm more interested in handjobs, massage, feeling each other up. I get more aroused by the appetizers, than the real thing, too. So cleanliness is just part of it. I don't need to get butt naked and stick my Big Boy up his asshole, or whatever.

I love showing him my Big Dick, but I like some mystery in my encounters. I don't want bright lights on me. I like more darkness. It just seems that in some of the Rentmen profiles, everyone is butt naked with bright lights everywhere. Maybe it's just me.

Also, when I watch porn, I like to see people have sex with some clothes on. Not sure why. It's just like I want a little mystery. 

What are your experiences like here? How aggressive do these dudes get sometimes. It's not like being with a transman. These are real men. It's just different than women and transmen.

I've had a few dudes tell me that some of their escorts didn't have the best body odor, breath, etc, despite having very sexy bodies. That worries me, too.

[Straightbutdumb]

I'm a client, but I've always been shy, despite maintaining my BMI. I don't even like being exposed in a medical setting.

However, I've rarely met a provider who is shy. I can't think of any off the top of my head. It's never been an issue.

I've encountered shy models on OF and Chaturbate, though. I just move along. Those models don't last long. If you're a model on a porn site, you need to lose your clothes eventually, or you'll be looking for new employment.

[BuffaloKyle]

Everything you mentioned @HungStud49 shouldn't be an issue for a provider to accommodate. Just make sure you discuss all of this upfront during the booking process so everything will go off without a hitch. Like you I prefer dimmer lighting as I'm a little bit out of shape for example.

[56harrisond]

Providers have heard it all from mild to wild. There's nothing you'll request that they haven't heard before.

[HungStud49]

21 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Everything you mentioned @HungStud49 shouldn't be an issue for a provider to accommodate. Just make sure you discuss all of this upfront during the booking process so everything will go off without a hitch. Like you I prefer dimmer lighting as I'm a little bit out of shape for example.

Thank you, buddy! I appreciate the response. I see what you mean.

I'd be the first to pull out my dick (lol), but I just don't fee like full-on nudity like some dudes, especially when I just first meet someone, in a hotel room, etc. It's not about body shame. Also, I like a little mystery in dimmer lights. Not into bright lighting and everyone's ass under the light. Not my thing.

Sure, the escort will have no qualms, but he's an escort. But my reasons are not about being ashamed of my body. I do have a bit of a belly now that I am older, but I am not embarrassed of it. No one has a perfect body, anyways.

I just need to make this all clear. Dudes who smoke, or have bad hygiene -- is a big NO. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

2 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Everything you mentioned @HungStud49 shouldn't be an issue for a provider to accommodate. Just make sure you discuss all of this upfront during the booking process so everything will go off without a hitch. Like you I prefer dimmer lighting as I'm a little bit out of shape for example.

I agree with @BuffaloKyle. The right escort will have no problem with a relatively minor request. The key is to communicate what you want; ask whether they can provide it before you agree to meet. Then, when you get together, just remind them, in a friendly manner, of what was agreed. 

The profiles are marketing. So they're going to show all their assets in good lighting. It's not representative of the conditions they want to fuck in. 

[Whippoorwill]

Mother always told me to never let my husband see me completely naked...better to have a little mystery. I translated this as "wear a cock ring."