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Just block him and ignore. 

It sounds like you brought someone into your home you hadn’t previously met and couldn’t necessarily trust. That is a huge mistake in any case. That is an open invitation to theft, robbery and attempted extortion. It’s much easier to flee than evict. 

The world is filled with weirdos, drug addicts, thieves and flat out desperados. These websites don’t vet their advertisers in any meaningful way, if at all.  No home visits from people you don’t know or who are very well known and trusted people. Just don’t do it. Ever. 

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We all have to make our own risk assessments, but I think Typical's advice is too sweeping. I have had dozens of providers come to my house or my hotel room over the years and I have never had problems specific to hosting. Guys who don't perform well, who try to upcharge, who shortchange you on time - these situations seem unrelated to where the session is taking place. The stuff scopitone is dealing with could just as easily have happened at the provider's place.

 

Ichabod

6 minutes ago, Typical said:

Just block him and ignore. 

It sounds like you brought someone into your home you hadn’t previously met and couldn’t necessarily trust. That is a huge mistake in any case. That is an open invitation to theft, robbery and attempted extortion. It’s much easier to flee than evict. 

The world is filled with weirdos, drug addicts, thieves and flat out desperados. These websites don’t vet their advertisers in any meaningful way, if at all.  No home visits from people you don’t know or who are very well known and trusted people. Just don’t do it. Ever. 

 

Posted (edited)
51 minutes ago, scopitone said:

sending pix he took during the session which I was face down for - and yes, demanding more money. 

I'd more or less gently remind him that blackmail and extortion are illegal and that he needs to apologize, delete those pix, and never-ever contact you again. If he continues to be obnoxious, he should deal with police & the justice system.

PS I strongly suspect that you are not the only one going through this, so think of this as community service. Just like this post, thank you for alerting us all.

PPS Case in point:

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Posted

I blocked him as soon as I left a review.  I have saved and archived all communications.  On my last communication, I told him that I had reached out to the police which received a very aggressive response, but it has been silence since.  I have no problem or shame contacting the police if needed and will. 

Again - I made a small head decision and regret it but hope that this saves someone else the headaches.   

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30 minutes ago, scopitone said:

I blocked him as soon as I left a review.  I have saved and archived all communications.  On my last communication, I told him that I had reached out to the police which received a very aggressive response, but it has been silence since.  I have no problem or shame contacting the police if needed and will. 

Again - I made a small head decision and regret it but hope that this saves someone else the headaches.   

So sorry that happened/is happening to you!

We've all made small head decisions and paid various prices.  Seems you have a very good big head on your shoulders!  Appreciate the heads up.  TY.

Posted

That sucks that you had to go through this. I realize it can be scary in the panicked moment of hearing that he will send pics of you unless you send money. However, if you think about it, who is he going to send the pics to? Does he know anyone in your circle of friends or any of your family? Does he know where you work? Probably not. If you hosted at your home, maybe he could print the pics and post them in your neighborhood but really, the pics would just be the back of your head/body. Unless you have tattoos, it could be practically anyone. Take comfort in that at least. It's a big bluff to get you worried, but in the end there's nothing he can do to hurt you or your reputation. Thank you for sharing though.

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