My AndycoxXx experience.

[viewing ownly]

This is a first, since a desired meet-up isn't happening. I really liked his ad, and let him know in a private message that his offerings are great, and I hope my path can cross sometime, as he's in town when I'm not. 

He has some serious work to do. I got a pre-arranged message, basically tongue-lashing me for not following directions, and to ONLY CALL HIM. Okay, got it. I'm not going to, since I'm not going to see him right away (or after today, never). 

Around an hour after that message, he sends a personal one, letting me know that I didn't provide a name or phone number to him, and messaging him on rent masseur isn't a good idea. With that, I'm A. Not going to send him any more messages than my initial one, and B. Not going to call him - I can't see him during his visit.

An hour after his personal message, he lets me know with another personal message that I must not be interested. What on Earth was the point of that? It makes me sorry I reached out to him at all. 

This is a valuable lesson learned for me to stop being nice and complimentary to potential hires, as not all of them appreciate praise and people like him think of me as wasting their time. 

Either a "Hey, thanks for the compliments, and look forward to seeing you next trip!", or just don't reply. No reason to be unpleasant.

[Typical]

No one knows who or what you talk about. Gather yourself and please explain. 
 

 

[BuffaloKyle]

I think he was annoyed that you were messaging him just to say basically Hi I hope I can hire you sometime. I think it's best to wait to reach out when there is a true intent to book a session.

[Harryinny]

https://rentmasseur.com/AndyCoxXx

[Wickedsexy]

its kind of like when someone from the other coast messages you on Grindr to say they want to get together next month when they are in town..   no need to waste time replying . 

[Nue2thegame]

11 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

This is a first, since a desired meet-up isn't happening. I really liked his ad, and let him know in a private message that his offerings are great, and I hope my path can cross sometime, as he's in town when I'm not. 

He has some serious work to do. I got a pre-arranged message, basically tongue-lashing me for not following directions, and to ONLY CALL HIM. Okay, got it. I'm not going to, since I'm not going to see him right away (or after today, never). 

Around an hour after that message, he sends a personal one, letting me know that I didn't provide a name or phone number to him, and messaging him on rent masseur isn't a good idea. With that, I'm A. Not going to send him any more messages than my initial one, and B. Not going to call him - I can't see him during his visit.

An hour after his personal message, he lets me know with another personal message that I must not be interested. What on Earth was the point of that? It makes me sorry I reached out to him at all. 

This is a valuable lesson learned for me to stop being nice and complimentary to potential hires, as not all of them appreciate praise and people like him think of me as wasting their time. 

Either a "Hey, thanks for the compliments, and look forward to seeing you next trip!", or just don't reply. No reason to be unpleasant.

I totally appreciate and respect your reaction. I would have felt the same. That said, I prefer to avoid DMs on the RM platforms, usually texting instead which eliminates potential 3rd party involvement. Maybe, that’s in part what he was reacting to. 

[viewing ownly]

With nearly anyone, texting would be sensible. In this man's case, he makes it crystal clear to only call him, and to never text him. When he throws in to not contact him on rent masseur messaging with his own rent masseur messaging, I'm at that point unwilling to be an unpaid sub - we haven't even met!

[BuffaloKyle]

3 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

In this man's case, he makes it crystal clear to only call him, and to never text him.

I take that as a red flag. For instance if you do everything over the phone including setting a fee rate what's to keep him from saying in person no I said my price was really x when you thought it was y. I want everything in texts first so there is no confusion.

[viewing ownly]

In his case, it would be difficult for there to be confusion. He has visitation down to 15 minute increments, starting at an hour. He also has a separate menu of "add-ons". This is why I was complimentary to him, and reached out. If you take him for all he has to offer, in-call, for the longest duration of time, he'd be $485! There's one thing I question being "sold separately", brushing his fuzzy chest on your glutes for $50. What would he be doing otherwise, jumping right over your rump when he gets to the top of the legs and whisper "that'll be $50 more if you want my torso on your behind"?