Escorts that do not answer emails

[R1]

I am confused about some escorts that don't answer emails asking for their services. It's that a bad signal? Why do they put their email in their ads if will not answer for inquiries about them? I am planning to go to NYC next weeks, so I've emailed some escorts asking for some information. I've received a lot of answers, some of them very informative and even warm, some others very short but with the necessary information. But a lot of escort do not answer anything even if you try it again. That's the case of two guys with extraordinary muscualr bodies (Nelson and Matthew in NYC) that ad in rentboy.com. Any response. I live in South America and I found that emailing should be the best way to contact them. I think a phone telephone is not appropiate at this moment.

Any body know anything about these 2 guys?. Should I insist with them when I arrive in NYC? I will appreciate any information.

[+ deej]

Some escorts just don't have regular access to a computer.

 

They get friends to post their ads and then don't have a way to deal with responses in a timely manner.

 

I wouldn't hold it against them.

[Guest cp8036]

Some of the guys with broad appeal probably get many emails a day. Some serious, and some just nonsense. Certainly, it takes time to respond to all emails, so he cannot respond with a novela. I am sure if he finds you are a serious prospect, and your emails are reasonable in length and content, his future responses will be more interesting and warm.

 

I fault one guy from my past that would not answer the points in my short email, but just replied with one short line "versatile, friendly, 12 noon good, $250/hr". It was a bad date, and his lack of time spent before our meeting should have been a red flag. Later he commented that he never sends long emails.

 

I don't expect he will be in business for the long run, or continue with good reviews.

 

If an escort cannot take the time to respond beyond one or two sentences to reasonable/serious emails, he probably is not worth considering. I can feel for his email load, as I get dozens each day in my work. But, spending five mintues on sales and marketing is a good investment for a $200/hr date. With reasonable setup dialogue he cannot say the expectation/limits weren't communicated.

[Guest Stephan-Lacoste]

And some escorts does not have time to respond right away.

they might not have a computer as my friend Deej cited above, but they might just take a few weeks off, or just did delete your email by mistake or even they did not want to answer to it at all. those who responded to you might not be lucky to meeting you , but you have to understand that not everyone is in the same position.

I used to spend hours front of the computer, WEll not anymore. And I take my time to respond to all of them, and god knows how much i get a day.

 

PS : If you have any phone number, it might be a easy way to get ahold of them.

 

 

Stephan Lacoste

1-702-616-3345

http://www.stephanlacoste.com

http://www.eboysvideo.com

[R1]

Stephan: I appreciated your comments, because you are a very well rated escort. But, in fact, it is not reasonable to put an email address in your ad and not answer the inquiries you received trough that way. However, I understand that you think that not answering emails does not mean, necessarily, a bad attitude, and I should insist with those guys, by phone calls when I arrive to NYC? I do not may asume that escorts that not responds to emails coould be posting false pics?

[+ deej]

It's nice to see YOU back here, my friend!

 

Hope all is well with you.

[Guest jeffOH]

I always check/answer my e-mails over my morning coffee(while

watching Bewitched)before I head out to the gym. Then if I have time I'll check them during the day and again before I go to bed(while watching Golden Girls and Designing Women)as I'm doing

right now.

 

I do keep my e-mails brief, especially if a client has already

read my reviews. Some guys are just wanting some cybersex, which

I don't do(along with phone sex). It's not necessary to have over

a dozen e-mails in setting up appts.. I'll discuss date, time,

where, when, what sort of scene, rates and sexual things I ENJOY.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

I got me one o dem der handy devices that makes and recieves calls and can check/respond to email as well, keeps me in touch while at the gym, having that lunch date with the cute boy down the street or what have you.

[Guest Charon]

If it's an AOL address, there's a fair possibility the AOL thought police have shut it off. Happened to one I know who I had previous contacted by email.

 

I thought he'd left the business since I didn't get replies, but called him when I got into town and he told me AOL had cut him off.

[Guest DCescortBOY]

so now you're cheating on me????

 

 

>I got me one o dem

>der handy devices that makes

>and recieves calls and can

>check/respond to email as well,

>keeps me in touch while

>at the gym, having that

>lunch date with the cute

>boy down the street or

>what have you.

[Guest ChicagoCorey]

As an anal-retentive freak, I make sure to answer new emails within 24 hours if I'm in town. (Sometimes, correspondence with friends takes longer; for obvious reasons, I prioritize "business" first.) Like someone above said, though, with so many emails coming in, that's not always easy.

 

However, you also have to keep in mind that not all guys are operating on the same "professional" level. There are a lot of guys out there who only take appointments when they're short on cash and probably respond accordingly. They probably consistantly have new emails coming in, so they only respond as necessary. A lot of guys out there aren't interested in "getting to know" the client either; they don't like email correspondence because it takes up too much time. (Personally, I do this, not because I'm polite, but because I think it's a hell of a lot easier on me if I know what I'm getting myself into.)

 

In other words, like most things, it depends on what kind of escort you're looking for.

 

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[Guest Stephan-Lacoste]

I agree at 60% with you about the email advertising. But you never know why your email haven't been responded. I know if myself was emailing someone for services and not getting any responses, I would be a bite dissapointed and would definitely look for an other way to get ahold of them.

And I think you should call them now. Get ready for it, because if you wait to be in new york , it might be too late. I would make sure they are available in New york at that time.

Now about false pics, It happened already , and I don't know which escorts in new york we are talking about, but if they do have a reputation behind reviewed by reviewer known , I don't think they are joking or lying about their services.

Now if those guys has only reveiws from first time reviewer, I would be just a little bite worried and would not spend my all attention on them if they do not respond either way.

Good luck.

Stephan Lacoste

1-702-616-3345

http://www.stephanlacoste.com

http://www.eboysvideo.com

[Guest Kenny]

I recently saw on the Escort Travel site that an escort was coming to my city. I e-mailed him a VERY DETAILED explantion of who I was, what I wanted and even sent a pic to show him what I looked like. His website stated that he usually replied immediately to his mail. Four days went by and I got no response. One day before he was to be in our city, he sent an email without answering any of my questions, including what he charged. He stated that I shouldn't worry, that most of his clients were like me and that I should call him. No other info, including his rates, were given.

I felt that he waited too long to reply and that when he did,no answers to my questions were included. I suspect that he waited to see if he got more lucrative offers before commiting to me for one hour. In any event, I felt (rightly or wrongly) that he should have responded faster. For that reason, I let it go by without contacting him.

If you have an e-mail address that is advertised, you should respond on a timely basis. I know many escorts feel put upon but hell, that's part of their business. If they won't put up with it, work thru an agency.

[Guest cp8036]

Kenny,

Wonder if same guy... he is from NYC?

[Guest JON1265]

I have had escorts not return voice mails or pagers also...and I don't mean in the first five minutes after I have left a message or paged....I mean EVER.

 

Consider it a sign and move on....he apparently doesn't want/need your biz.

 

Jon

[Guest Kenny]

"Kenny,

Wonder if same guy... he is from NYC?"

 

No, he's from Wash DC.

[Guest DCescortBOY]

was it me?

[Guest cp8036]

You weren't the guy I had in mind.

 

I haven't had the pleasure of your company yet. But, ...if I make to DC soon...

 

Though, I am partial to ethnic guys, slender/smooth guys do the trick too. You sure seem like a fun guy. But, not sure I can inhale deeply enough !!!

[Guest DCescortBOY]

LOL!

ethnic is definitely not me. i'm the whitest little boy in DC.

we can work to improve your inhaling

 

 

>You weren't the guy I had

>in mind.

>

>I haven't had the pleasure of

>your company yet.

> But, ...if I make

>to DC soon...

>

>

>Though, I am partial to ethnic

>guys, slender/smooth guys do the

>trick too.

>You sure seem like a

>fun guy. But, not

>sure I can inhale deeply

>enough !!!

[Guest Kenny]

"was it me?"

 

Sorry but you were not the one I was referring to....some other guy in DC/Md.

[Guest cp8036]

Work on inhaling... deal.

 

In the meantime, I'll go to eBay and look for some flesh colored butt plugs to use for practice.

[johnnysneakers]

Toast 'em I say.

 

I suspect that most escorts can get a ton of phone calls each night. For that reason i try to be explicit with a message that says whether i am interested is seeing them that night or if I am leaving my hotel next day. However, I find that most escorts are very inconsiderate about returning calls. On a recent trip to London, where phone calls from hotels to vodaphones are extremely expensive to make, I must have called 12-15 escorts one night, and left messages to all. Only 1 called back and he got my business. The next day 2 returned the calls, and all the others never called. This is pretty standard experience for other cities as well. That frys them right there as far as I am concerned. Also if escorts do not promptly return emails (ie within 24 hrs) they are toast!!!!

[Guest EricG]

Interesting subject. I usually tend to distrust escorts that do not answer E-mails and I prefer to call them directly, even though English is not my first language, I am shy, and I feel quite insecure about talking by phone (the most dificult thing to do in another language). If an escort does not answer my E-mail, now that I am more experienced, I just try again: he may be too busy, with too many messages, or may be we are not making ourselves too clear and give him the impression that we are not serious. It is also possible that we do not sound appealing to him: after all they cannot be expected to like averybody. Escorts, like we the costumers, are also victims of harrasment and get too many bogus, annoying messages. My suggest is, if he does not answer you immediately, you should try again and make yourself more convincing and trustfull. Or go ahead and call him by phone. If he still does not answer at all( we, human beings are complicated) do not worry and look for another escort: there is a good selection around.

[CT Dick]

If an escort does not answer my email he is out of town, too busy, or not interested.

 

In all three cases, I say move on to someone who IS available or cares enough to respond.

 

(I just went to Montreal and tried to make arrangements with six escorts via email . One answered and he was outrageously expensive. I used a local agency and was very satisfied.)

 

Dick

[R1]

What agency do you used in Montreal? I will be there in a month, and it has been difficult to contac escorts by email. Your agency has a webpage?