TRAVELLING WITH ESCORTS

[Guest SF1507]

I'm am considering asking one of my favorite escorts to travel with me on a Caribbean vacation or cruise. What is the general arrangement as far as fee is concerned? Is it cost of travel plus normal overnight fees for duration of trip or some other calculation?

[Losgatan]

Most escorts have special travel rates that vary depending on the length of the trip and desirability of the travel destination. Of course the client is responsible for all travel expenses.

 

Many escort websites list travel rates -- but I'd assume that there always negotiable.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

I am glad you brought this subject up as I have been confronted with a situation simular and really had no idea what to charge. Hopefully there will be some input as to what is reasonable, I do not want in any way to bid a outrageous price and make the client feel like he is being hustled.

 

Making People Smile NationWide : )

Michael Johnson

http://www.geocities.com/michaeljohnsonxxx/index.htm

[Barry]

I've traveled a number of times with a few of my favorites. This included 2 cruises. I found the fee varied widely depending on how desirable the destination was; if the escort really wants to go there; how you and the escort have gotten along in the past; and how easy a client you are. i.e., is the trip going to be non-stop sex or are you out to have a good time doing other things as well. In a couple of cases I even asked the guy where THEY would like to go?

 

Good luck. It can be a total blast.

[Guest ManToManEscorts]

Hello Guys!

 

Dave here, from Man To Man Escorts in San Diego.

 

SF1507, you pose an excellent question that will be of interest to all guys who enjoy the company of great looking, presentable companions for travel.

 

I am finding that I have been generating more interest from clients nationwide and worldwide, than from guys in Southern California. Thus far, I have flown many of my guys all over the US, as well as to Europe and Japan! Tho unexpected, I have become an expert on booking plane itineraries etc. Perhaps I was a travel agent in my past life LOL.

 

I can only speak for my own agency, of course, but the pricing does indeed depend on:

 

1) length of trip

2) location of trip

3) how well I know you - if you are a repeat client, or if you come highly recommended (I do research) <G>

 

Suffice it to say, that on trips of any duration, I would not charge the usual overnight fee for every night you spend with the escort -- rather, I would work out a "package deal" financially that would be acceptable to all parties concerned. It is always assumed that you will cover all travel expenses, which I would be happy to arrange.

 

Please feel free to call me or send me an E-mail if you would like more specifics!

 

Sincerely,

 

Dave

http://www.ManToManEscorts.com

[Guest bluboy]

No offense Dave but I do not think you should book this trip through an agency. Too expensive. All is negotiable but I will tell you trips I have taken. Last year I took an escort to Paris (desirable location), I paid for 2 overnights but we stayed 4 days at a 5 star hotel and flew to Paris business class. I then left him and went to London but paid for his hotel in Paris for 2 more days so he could be in Paris on his own. While there I showed him a great time- even bought him a suit- which was not negotiated upfront. I had done a local trip with him out to Long Island before so I knew we would get along. On another occassion, I was traveling to London on business on the Concorde and told an escort- he could come on the trip and fly to London with me- but no escorting fee OR he could fly coach on a different flight and meet me in London and I would pay 60% of his regular nightly rate for every nite we were there. He came with me on the Concorde. Another situation was a trip to San Fran where the escort had friends and I paid his fare and about half his nightly rate but lots of time was spent apart as he was with his friends and I with mine. A couple of weekends to South Beach and I paid 70% the regular overnite rate. Those are my benchmarks. BTW, these trips can be either incredible or your worst nightmare. B4 going too far for too long make sure that you do at least 2 local overnites with the guy before jet setting off to parts unknown- he maybe stupid, boring or skanky and you need to know this before you get to the the little pied a terre off the Seine. blu

[marc anthony]

I have travelled with many different escorts... some with agencies and some independents. Of course, the client (me) pays for all the travel expenses. Many factors play into the final fee. These have all been mentioned in the above threads...such as desirability of location, amount of free time the escort will have, how well you know the escort/agency, length of the trip, etc. I am just adding my 2 cents to say that I have found that both agencies and independents are usually willing to negotiate with travel situations. If you are dealing with a good agency or a good escort, you can usually reach a fair agreement that makes everyone happy.

[Guest]

This is a fascinating question, and I'm glad someone asked it. It's nice to hear others' experiences. I would agree with everything people have been saying:

(1) You must hire and get to know the escort before making any offer for many reasons. You need to know you like eachothers' company both for your own sanity and also in order to negotiate a reasonable rate. You need to be able to trust eachother. And, of course, you need to know you're sexually compatible.

(2) Forget about whatever travel rate an escort may quote on his website, unless you want to take him to Nome, Alaska in January, and you look and smell like Bigfoot (OK so I'm exaggerating a little). I've gotten to know quite a few escorts over the years, and very few AVERAGE two hires per day (most average maybe one hire per day if you include all days of the week). If you're going on a pleasant itinerary, and you're pleasant yourself, I doubt many escorts would turn down twice their hourly rate plus expenses. I've hired escorts three times for extended vacations, and I've never even paid that much (mind you, these were not major porn stars).

(3) Let the escort know what your expectations are, and how the vacation will be for him. An escort will be much more eager to offer a more reasonable fee for a pampering luxury cruise where you'll only be having sex once a day in the evening, as opposed to some business trip to Tulsa, Oklahoma.

[Guest regulation]

Most escorts with whom I have dealt base their fee for an extended trip on their overnight rate, but provide a significant discount on top of that to reflect the fact that on a trip they are earning far more than would usually be the case during a the same period of time at home. For example, if an escort's overnight rate is $1,000.00, for a trip of 7 nights he might charge $4,900.00, which would represent a 30% discount. Discounts of 30% to 40% are not unusual in my experience.

[+ bigjoey]

matches my experience on "discounts". when the escort is one you see regularly and you get along well, it can be a nice trip for them as well (i have even had escorts call me up and ask to go on a similiar trip again because they enjoyed the past one.

 

one of the main things is that when i travel, i always make sure there is some private time alone so we are not together all the time. also, as the air fare is the same, i have always offered the escort to stay longer or come earlier if there are other people or things he wants to do; in some cases i have even paid for the hotel an extra night after i left for the escort to use if he stayed after i left.

[vers7]

This string brought to mind a review of an escort with regard to a trip experience. The escort's response was also very funny -- particularly relating to flatulence. The following is the site link:

 

http://207.14.53.20/reviews/jamiebishopsd.html

[Guest 101]

I find this thread one of the most interesting to grace these forums in quite a while.

 

I'm planning an extended trip in late Spetember. I was originally planning to travel alone till I read this thread.

 

I would like to hire an escort for a short term trip as mentioned to see if we hit it off enough for an extended holiday.

 

My question is who are some of the escorts you would suggest as travel partners? My preferences are 18 - 28 mostly smooth, versatile to versatile tops, who do not party (as in using drugs).

[marc anthony]

Where are you leaving from, 101? Personally, there are several escorts I would have taken on trips and others that I would love to have travel with me also. As to young smooth attractive well-mannered classy versatile tops, consider Brogan from LA. He bottomed for me (cause I am a top) but he is very versatile and has a beautiful cock. He is also extremely well-bred and sophisticated. Very mature for 22 yo. If you are looking for a different type or on a different coast, say so and I can recommend some others.

[Guest jackboy51]

I had always thought that travel with an escort would be quite enjoyable, but so far, it really has never been worth the expense. First of all, unless youv'e had numerous encounters with the guy, he can turn into a real bore, even if you do plan time apart. Of course, I have never paid the ridiculous charges that so many seem to think are normal, so maybe I've just been getting what I paid for. My feeling is that if I'm providing accomodations in a beautiful hotel and location, picking up the tab at wonderful restaurants and clubs, paying a modest daily fee, etc., I should be able to have the company and sexual delight of a handsome man. And, for $1,000.00/day, I could probably get the captain of the ship, the navigator, first officer, etc., etc., not to mention at least 5 or 6 guys at every port of call. Actually I've never really regretted the extra money spent, but sometimes think I would have been happier if I'd spent the money on a real jewel, emarald, ruby, topaz, etc. Real jewels don't ever give me any attitude or ever make me feel inadequate, they never bore me or cause embarrasing situations in front of friends.

[Guest WetDream]

And diamonds are a boy's best friend...

[Guest Kevin 2]

<And diamonds are a boy's best friend...>

Wait a minute I thought a hard dick was ;-)

[adriano46]

To add my own two-cents (or a few thousand $$ worth...

 

I have met excorts for extended trips/vacations both in North America and Europe. I generally "date" them from the same continent, although I did want to bring one from Europe to the US, but his own schedule and mine did not work out.

 

I have found that after 3 days... well unless the guy has a super personality and you really click, you may find small little things get to be big irritations. I would NOT, therefore, suggest doing this with any escort unless you have already met on a number of occasions, and at least for a few overnights (just the dynamic of sleeping together overnight can be positive or negative - e.g. he/you snore).

 

Be sure YOU are comfortable with HIM in public. In the bedroom, I can accept (although I do not like) some effeminate behaviour, but outside I want the guy straight and masculine, and MATURE. So, I make sure the guy I take on an extended is all that and more, and he is not the type who would embarrass me with some awkward behavour. Age differences should be examined and make sure YOU (client) are comfortable with the difference. (Let's face it, most guys who do this are over 40 and generally takeing guys under 29 on the date!!!).

 

I made the disasterous mistake once of inviting a young escort to my home city (major metropolitan area) for 5 days. We had a kind of "up and down" encounter on the West Coast (L.V.) and for some reason, my dick rather than brain was operating when I suggested he come East. Once he arrived at the airport problems began: his attitude, his lack of manners especially with others, his desire to sleep all day and night (and I do not mean sex), and his coyness it milking me for everything he could get. All in all a time I will long regret. (I see from the boards others have had similar bad experiences with him too, and I regret I once gave him a "nice" review....).

 

Make sure you have many common interests besides sex, as you will be spending more time not in bed than in bed, unless you are both sexual dynamos. I outline with my "dates" the place, and ask what their interests are. I already have a pretty good idea on their taste in music, theatre, movies, food, down time BEFORE the extended trip, so it makes it a bit easier.

 

DO PLAN TIME AWAY FROM EACH OTHER, or at least let your escort have this time. If you both decide it is not needed, fine, but it helps to have time away from each other (even on a cruise ship).

 

Also work out as many financial details as you can ahead of time. I have one custom on extended trips: aside from transport, room and board, all meals and common entertainment (museums, theatre, gym etc...) I hand him an envelope of cash (approximately $100 per day) at the beginning for "pocket money" so he does not feel "kept" every time we stop someplace.

[seeker630]

I'm not sure I'll ever travel with an escort, but if I did - this looks like a primer for that! Thans for a well-presented piece. I think the tips here could make the difference between a disaster and a spectacular holiday.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

My thinking is, you probably are right, you just arent the type of guy to hire escorts. No harm in that. Some like it others dont.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

<who do not party (as in using drugs).>

 

Just my thoughts on this, but I cannot imagine someone being as disrespectful and irresponsible as to do drugs around a client. We are being paid a handsome rate as is complained about over and over again and the least we can do is be responsible while at work.

 

My two cents worth

 

Michael Johnson

[johnnysneakers]

Frankly, I must join the camp of not travelling with Escorts.

 

I hire escorts of sex, not companionship. If I was to travel with a very special one, it would be only because I had really bonded for many many times with him. Otherwise, with my paying for all expenses and his fees, whatever they might be, I would feel very quickly that I was on the losing end of a poorly designed relationship.

 

I would only consent to taking an escort with me if I really had an effective relationship and bond of trust previously established, and that it was based on the fact that I was paying his expenses, and his daily fee would be greatly reduced. This also assuming that the destination was mutually acceptable to both of us (eg exciting to him), and he would travel on a free ticket from my airpoints, and never ever embarrass me in public.

 

The more I think of it, I would rather not travel with an escort but use my trip to explore the local markets!!!

[marc anthony]

Johnny: I agree with almost everything you said, except the conclusion that you drew! I agree... you should travel only with an escort that you have bonded with; that the destination should be mutually exciting; that the escort would never be an embarrassment to you; that the fee should make both parties feel fairly treated; and finally, although you didn't explicitly say this, you hinted that you should enjoy the COMPANY of this escort as much as the sex.

 

These are all true statements. And I believe that it is possible to have this complete scenario. In fact, I have had some travel vacations with escorts that have been some of the most fun I have ever had. And I am a 41 yo professional travelling with a twinky boy 20 yo escort, so you know that I have carefully chosen my companion to NOT be an embarassment!

 

And finally, who says just because you are travelling with an escort, you can't sample the local boys! Ever heard of 3-ways? hehe LOLOL!

[Guest EastWest Coast]

An intriguing question.

 

I'd apply the same criteria to make a decision about traveling with an escort that I'd use in deciding to travel with anybody, i.e., is this somebody I want to spend seven days and nights with -- and will he want to spend seven days and nights with me?

 

Maybe I'm too independent, but there are very few people I'd want to spend that much time with whether I was paying them or not.

 

I live part of the time on the East Coast and part in San Diego. I see a few escorts in the East. They are nice guys -- and obviously attractive -- and I enjoy our times together. I think they do, too.

 

When they find out I also live in San Diego, they often volunteer to accompany me out here. (Everybody wants to come to San Diego; they think it's some kind of never-ending beach party.) I always demur because 1) while I can see spending $1000 for a day to be with a really hot, compatible guy, I've yet to meet anybody I'd want to spend that much on every day on a sustained basis, and 2) I'm not going to try to barter with a guy to lower his rates; it's just not fair to him.

 

There has been just one exception: An escort who had become a friend. But all he wanted was some spending money, a place to stay and a round trip ticket out here. I enjoyed showing him Southern California, and we had a ball together. By that point in our friendship, though, neither of us thought of it as a busienss arrangement.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

(Everybody wants to come to San Diego; they think it's some kind of never-ending beach party.)

 

After two years of looking for them I have finally submitted to just enjoying the weather and forget about partying.

 

 

Michael Johnson

http://www.geocities.com/michaeljohnsonxxx/index.htm

[johnnysneakers]

EastWest: I totally agree with you. If you and an escort have become good friends, really trust each other, can laugh and carry on, then the financial arrangement needs to be renegotiated or put aside. If escorts really want to go to San Diego with you, (and it sounds like they are volunteering) in my opinion an airfare, free accomodations, some spending money should be good enough. Otherwise, spending a $1000 a day on Mr. Hotstuff is a business arrangement, not much different than sitting in a taxi and watching the meter run up and up. Who has that kind of money, and who is fooling themselves this is friendship?