Overnighter/Weekend Start and End Times

[Guest Java]

Hey, I'm new to the boards as a participant but have enjoyed the info sharing for a while as an observer. I recently had my first weekend with an escort. Of course afterward, I'm wondering if there are customary start and end times for weekend appointments and whether there is any difference for an overnighter. So, I thought I would see what the practice is from all you experienced guys out there! Thanks!

[+ deej]

Your answer is "it depends".

 

There are no hard and fast rules about this stuff. When it comes to start/stop times, it may depend on travel schedules, chemistry, prior agreements, or whatever -- particularly with "estended stay" engagements.

 

It's up to the client to negotiate these things with the escort ahead of time. If you are not clear about what you expect, and the escort has not agreed, you will likely get disappointed.

[Guest Java]

Thanks for your reply, deej. In this case, I went through an agency and later found out too late (yes, getting all details upfront is very important, but I'm still learning) was that the weekend ended at 8 - 9am. (Chemistry wasn't a problem.) It had seemed to me that most of those overnights/weekends reviewed here had lasted longer than that. I'm trying to figure out whether I was totally off-base thinking that or not.

[Barry]

Good question Java. I have found that the time varies a lot from guy to guy. The most important thing is to ask and make sure the timing is very clear upfront. I almost exclusively do overnights and sometimes weekends or longer. Some observations from my experience.

 

Weekends will vary but are usually Friday evening to sometime Sunday. 36 to 48 hours. If you or the escort are traveling for the w/e, flight times will also come into play here. I would never recommend a w/e with a guy you don't know or haven't seen. Chemistry is very important with longer periods together. Also be very upfront with the escort as to what you would like to do during your time together. Theater, beach, clubbing, sightseeing, whatever. It is just as important to ask him what he would like to do. If he thinks you are going to want non-stop sex all w/e, the total time might just be shorter and that's understandable.

 

I have found overnights to vary much more in timing. Good people on this board have wisely advised to meet an escort for an hour or two to check out the chemistry prior to scheduling an overnight. That chemistry may have some bearing on how long an overnight will last. Some other observations........

 

- Some guys have a fixed pricing schedule by time period. X dollars for 8 hours...Y dollars for 12 hours. I can't imagine calling 8 hours an overnight..more like a night shift. I personally don't like rigid fixed timing but also understand that an escort can't just leave everything open ended.

 

- Be very clear as to what you define as an overnight with regard to activities. Is there sleep time included? Do you expect to play all night? What about dinner and/or breakfast?

 

- Don't be afraid to outline a rough "agenda" for the time you're together. It helps the escort know what you want and you should be able to tell if that works for him. Something like: I'd like to meet, have a drink, play, go out to dinner, come back and watch a movie, play, cuddle in bed and sleep, get up, have breakfast and play. I have been guilty of not doing this all the time and have regretted it. Also never forget that not everyone is a morning person. LOL

 

- The start time should be clear and agreed upon in advance. The earliest time the escort will leave should also be agreed upon. I usually just ask "what time do you need to leave on Saturday?" If I haven't been with the guy before the answer is usually fairly early. Often I think this is just a reasonable effort on the part of the escort to leave himself an out "just in case". If the chemistry was good the guy has often stayed longer. In one case a guy stayed longer than I wanted him too and I had trouble getting him to leave. :-(

 

- If he doesn't stay longer don't assume the chemistry wasn't there. Escort's are real people and the guy might have to go to work, have personal plans or may just long for his own bed to catch a nap. Not everyone sleeps well in a different bed or with another person.

 

- Don't accept a "change" in the time after the escort arrives. I recently saw a guy who agreed to arrive at 9pm and said he needed to leave at 10am. He arrived an hour late and when he got to my room announced he had to leave at 6am. I told him his rate should then be reduced by at least 25%. He didn't agree so I asked him to leave.

 

Hope you have a great time.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Good advice Barry...

 

 

"Don't accept a "change" in the time after the escort arrives. I recently saw a guy who agreed to arrive at 9pm and said he needed to leave at 10am. He arrived an hour late and when he got to my room announced he had to leave at 6am. I told him his rate should then be reduced by at least 25%. He didn't agree so I asked him to leave."

 

Good choice on this... Was he a traveller or local?

[Barry]

Thanx TY. He was local.