Rentmen "likes" - From who(m) to who(m)?

[viewing ownly]

When providers take the time to weed out what their likes aren't, I take what remains listed as a menu of what THEY enjoy doing with their clients, not what they allow clients to do, but won't reciprocate. 

For example, "oral". If I see someone list that, I take that to mean that my cock could be sucked without hesitation. To (some?) of them, they take that to mean that they'll permit you to suck theirs ONLY. 

The real flustering one for me is "rimming". If they list that they like rimming, I'd like to be rimmed. Seemingly, just like oral, it's in their opinion that it means they'll be willing to let you rim them, but you're probably not getting rimmed back. 

The only listing where I can see it making sense is if the provider is cut, but they list uncut as one of their likes. Obviously, this indicates they enjoy pleasing a penis that's different from their own, since there can't be any confusion due to them not also being uncut. 

[+ ApexNomad]

On 5/17/2025 at 10:48 AM, viewing ownly said:

For example, "oral". If I see someone list that, I take that to mean that my cock could be sucked without hesitation. To (some?) of them, they take that to mean that they'll permit you to suck theirs ONLY. 

This is true! I’ve encountered that and was surprised the first time it happened. It definitely killer the moment. It’s always best to clarify upfront what you’re hoping to get out of the experience. Sadly, it can make things feel a bit clinical, but it’s important to be on the same page before the meet up.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Always ask first.

The "you can suck me but I don't suck you" is a common oral statement.

So is, "I'll kiss but no tongue."

Make it clear beforehand, even if it is an "into".