Is Cockworship a Fetish or a Fantasy?

[+ Letmeworshipit]

I am on Fetlife under the same profile name and have asked this same questions on that forum. Responses are all over the place with some guys feeling that it just refers to a guy who really, really loves sucking cock. I disagree. I mean, I agree that I love to suck cock, but my passion for cock worship goes far beyond just the act of service. It's a total submersion into a space that transcends just a blo'n go mentality. I love everything about the cock, soft, semi and engorged. I love bulging gear, clothing and briefs and I really love guys who self-identify as total oral top feeders with a pervy, exhibitionist cock-centered mindset. Love those guys who honestly communicate best with their genitals and live to share a load with a buddy. So cock worship is not just a thing for guys like me, it's very much a two-way street sexually. I credit a guy I met and lived with for 6 years in my 20's for teaching me about it. I think for him, it was a fantasy that he craved receiving. For me, a fetish that I was impelled to act on as often as possible. Anyway, not to wax on about it, but it's still an interesting discussion.

[+ Letmeworshipit]

Been trying to understand for a long time whether this is just a fun phallic fantasy or something far more intense that combines sexual need, emotional intensity and a psychological drive. But I have discovered that when a worshiper meets up with a guy who considers his cock a source of power and spiritual energy, it’s f**king amazing. It long ago stopped just being a fun fantasy. It’s a true fetish.

[Poppie]

I recently met a man that totally flips my switch. I've always enjoyed sucking ... but this man brings the experience to a whole new level. This man has so much power , SO much spiritual energy that I just can't get enough. Neither can he. Your words say it all!

[allin4cum]

I agree it is a fetish based on everything you say here. I too love sucking a cock (I consider myself a side) but I can not feel the same as you do about the power of a cock that way you feel. For me, I love the feeling of the cock growing and getting hard and pulsing/spasming in my mouth, and truly love the cum filling my mouth. I'm just not at your level of appreciating/worshiping the cock. I think the main difference for me is that I also need my cock sucked where you could care less - at least that is my understanding of the fetish. If I am wrong, please let me know. Maybe, as time goes on, I'll feel differently. 

[+ sync]

I say it's a fetish when you can get it and only a fantasy when you can't.  😆