Almost accidentally hired someone I grew up with long ago

[Asterisk]

On 1/17/2025 at 7:42 PM, moonlight said:

Maybe I won't close the door on this completely. But at a minimum I'm going to give it a lot of time and distance.

Now I want to see his ad!  So curious! 

[moonlight]

Since this got randomly bumped, I'll add a couple updates:

1 - It turned out to be a moot concern because he moved to the east coast not long after I posted this.

2 - I also realize this wasn't really a big deal (as another poster wrote). I did the right thing for me by not moving forward but... meh. I'm less paranoid about complete privacy as I used to be.

Edited April 21 by moonlight

[ReynST]

Next time, send him a photo

 

Tbph, it's always a little odd when clients send a photo. There's usually no reason to as everyone deserves massage and there are no sexiness discounts

This scenario however is one where it makes perfect sense. Send a photo and he can make an educated and conscious decision as to whether it's the right move for the two of you

[arnie]

So what if you recognize each other?  You will both have a confidence to keep about each other.  I ran into a long time friend at a bathhouse.  We had a chat about our closeted lives and when we knew we were bi.  But after that day, we have said nothing to each other about it.