Lyle James anyone ?

[Guest ItalianLover]

i am very attracted to this butch older guy. I'd appreciate if someone has a word.

[+ Charlie]

I had a scene with him in New York three years ago. He was more handsome than I had expected (the only pictures I had seen were with dark glasses)and older looking (he had a little white in his hair). He brought a bag full of gear as requested, and changed into full leather at my place. The sex was a bit disappointing, because he didn't do much except lie back and get serviced, though he admitted he was tired and just getting over a cold; he did what I asked but without much real enthusiasm. He was pleasant to talk to afterwards, very intelligent and easy going. He has a big cock and a sexy natural body, not a muscle builder.

[Guest ItalianLover]

thanx so much ! i am so into this guy , but i would be my first time , i'd really wish i could avoid a disappointment.

[CT Dick]

Dear IL,

If you will forgive some unsolicitied advice: For your first time go with a sure thing, not a fantasy. Too often I have found (both in hiring escorts and in other aspects of life) that I build something up so much in my mind that it can never fulfill my expectations.

My recommendation is to read the reviews on this site for guys near you and go with the one who sounds most considerate and understanding.

A first time comes but once so be sure it is great.

 

Happy Holidays,

Dick

[Guest ItalianLover]

you are right, thats why i still have to contact James .

Instead i met for the first time Joshua Scott. I was very nervous , so this time we just spent an afternoon togheter and i am planning to see him another time to experience more. Joshua is very intelligent and friendly , he put me at ease , and i will not even mention his body , believe me , the camera does not do him justice !!

 

I consider him already a friend, that's the kind of guy he is.

[Guest Tex]

My experience was very similar to Charlie's. Though Lyle is a HOT daddy-type man, my opinion would probably be that he's a little over the top for a first timer. Our conversation at dinner after the disappointing sex was very enjoyable. I came home with mixed feelings, but concluded that I hadn't received my money's worth.

 

Also, he continued to leave messages on my answering machine for up to 2 years after our meeting, which I considered indiscreet and unacceptable.

[+ Charlie]

Joshua Scott may be a wonderful guy, but don't lose perspective on the situation: most intelligent people are nice to those who are paying them for something. Don't mistake good manners for real friendship. It sounds like you are projecting your own feelings about the experience and perhaps your need for affection back onto Joshua, and it may be painful when you don't get the same powerful response in return. Gay men do tend to form relationships more quickly simply because having sex with someone breaks down a lot of conventional barriers and can seem to create a bond, but remember that Joshua has sex with other men as well, and in all probability the ones with whom he has sex for free are those he feels closest to. The escort/client relationship can be a tricky one emotionally: don't set yourself up to be hurt if the "friendship" turns out to be an illusion.

[Guest ItalianLover]

I understand perfectly , i just meant that he has no attitude

( i realize he is not in love ) :-)

 

thanx for your concern anyway