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I have met him many many times. He is a very nice guy and his pics are accurate. (You will not find many other guys anywhere with a body like his).


He’s been a provider for a while now - but he treats it as something he does only when he wants to, and that’s why his responsiveness will definitely vary - as well as what he will actually do if you do meet.
As you might suspect, he gets a lot of requests and inquiries- and again, he generally will respond only on his own time schedule. His recent move to Dallas has opened the floodgates of new inquiries. My advice is to be polite and flexible about possibly meeting -  he’s turned off by too much aggression/attitude and he will not respond to pressure tactics. And be aware that you will need to discuss his limits. He gets a lot of requests for muscle worship and with his physique, he’s a great hire if that’s your thing. 

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So I took the advice of others here and was very respectful in my communication with this beautiful man.  I was patient and only communicated back to him when he responded with questions of dplace, date and time (he confirmed he'd be in Dallas and could see me).  His last text to me two days before my arrival (and our planned session) asked me how long of a session I wanted.  I told him 1-2 hours, but that I'd be open to whatever his preference was.  I never heard from him again.  My time in Dallas came and went without any communication back from him. Oh well...

As it turned out, I was able to see a new guy BigBoyNaz - who is beyond gorgeous and showed me a most excellent time!

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38 minutes ago, Jeeper84 said:

So I took the advice of others here and was very respectful in my communication with this beautiful man.  I was patient and only communicated back to him when he responded with questions of dplace, date and time (he confirmed he'd be in Dallas and could see me).  His last text to me two days before my arrival (and our planned session) asked me how long of a session I wanted.  I told him 1-2 hours, but that I'd be open to whatever his preference was.  I never heard from him again.  My time in Dallas came and went without any communication back from him. Oh well...

As it turned out, I was able to see a new guy BigBoyNaz - who is beyond gorgeous and showed me a most excellent time!

sorry about that......I'm sure that was frustrating, but I'm glad you had a good backup.......

I presume JB gets a ton of inquiries and sometimes can't juggle them all......he may have some reliable regulars in a place like Dallas who book for hours-long meetings.....I may be wrong, but when you showed some hesitancy in how long the meeting would be, that may've spooked him into moving on to a more definite inquiry......hindsight is 20/20, of course, but being as specific as possible in early communication (appearing professional, no-nonsense, to-the-point) can usually indicate a serious client in the eyes of a provider.......

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46 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

sorry about that......I'm sure that was frustrating, but I'm glad you had a good backup.......

I presume JB gets a ton of inquiries and sometimes can't juggle them all......he may have some reliable regulars in a place like Dallas who book for hours-long meetings.....I may be wrong, but when you showed some hesitancy in how long the meeting would be, that may've spooked him into moving on to a more definite inquiry......hindsight is 20/20, of course, but being as specific as possible in early communication (appearing professional, no-nonsense, to-the-point) can usually indicate a serious client in the eyes of a provider.......

Hey thanks, AZDR, I appreciate that, but I can assure you he knew I was a serious client.  I didn't show any hesitancy whatsoever.  I've been hiring only the best for years, so I know how to communicate effectively and courteously with someone. 

If you scroll up, you see I initially asked about him in March which is when I first reached out to him.  Everything I had heard about him was "he's super busy," "he can be slow in responding," etc. which is why I started communicating with him in March.  Each time I texted him, I'd wait patiently, sometimes over a week or two, for a response.  When he would respond, he was very nice - my trip to Dallas was May 21-23.  On May 14, he sent me a note - "Hey there sorry for the late response and yes, I am here in Dallas during your trip."  I told him there was no need to apologize and I appreciated him getting back to me.  The next day he responded, "of course!"  Four days later - the day before I was flying out, I contacted him - as I told him I would - again indicating I'd like to nail down a time, reminded him where I'd be, etc.  He responded, "Hey there - yes, i can meet you, how many hours are you looking for?" to which I responded "two," but would adjust if he had a preference.  And that was it - never got a response.  The trip came and went and I sent him a note yesterday just saying I was sorry I never heard back from him, I was looking forward to meeting him, but that I realize things come up, etc. and wished him a good weekend.  I have no expectation of a reply.

So basically, I come away from the experience thinking the guy is either a flake or just isn't all in -- that's fine.  BigBoyNaz exceeded my expectations tremendously and provided more than what James was offering, so in retrospect, JB did me a huge favor by ghosting me. 

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Hate to say it, but I had a very similar experience to Jeeper84 above this past weekend. Unfortunately, they stole money from me as well. Clearly I wasn't thinking, and for the first time ever I made a "deposit" in order to set up a meeting. The plan was to meet James and his "friend" mentioned above. The friend insisted on $200 deposit to book a 3 hour meeting. I had read great reviews before, so I sent the money. Like the above experience, I was coming from out of town and staying in a hotel. I confirmed with both about half a dozen times in the days leading up to make sure everything was good. I even changed the meeting time to one they suggested. I was literally about to walk into the hotel when they texted they needed to reschedule, busy day, etc. Had a couple of texts back and forth trying to make a time work, and then... silence. The "friend" actually sent me $100 back but James has ghosted me. I assume the other $100 is gone. What really bothers me is how completely uncaring they seem to the fact that I came from out of town and wasted an entire weekend and two nights hotel. Lesson learned, I guess.

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Not sure what's going on with James and his buddy, but when in Las Vegas about a year ago, I had a good meeting with him. He had issues with staying hard, but it was a nice time getting to talk with him and what not. Not sure I'd rehire again honestly. 

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1 hour ago, JTee said:

Hate to say it, but I had a very similar experience to Jeeper84 above this past weekend. Unfortunately, they stole money from me as well. Clearly I wasn't thinking, and for the first time ever I made a "deposit" in order to set up a meeting. The plan was to meet James and his "friend" mentioned above. The friend insisted on $200 deposit to book a 3 hour meeting. I had read great reviews before, so I sent the money. Like the above experience, I was coming from out of town and staying in a hotel. I confirmed with both about half a dozen times in the days leading up to make sure everything was good. I even changed the meeting time to one they suggested. I was literally about to walk into the hotel when they texted they needed to reschedule, busy day, etc. Had a couple of texts back and forth trying to make a time work, and then... silence. The "friend" actually sent me $100 back but James has ghosted me. I assume the other $100 is gone. What really bothers me is how completely uncaring they seem to the fact that I came from out of town and wasted an entire weekend and two nights hotel. Lesson learned, I guess.

I'm really sorry to hear that.

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James is travel with his brother, Braxton… James is a great guy but flaky and as unreliable as ever… he used to have quite a bit of girlfriend drama which made him inconsistent in keeping his appointments- to say the least… I suggest you hit him up same day, hope for the best, and have a plan B…Do not count on him to show up or you’ll be sorely disappointed… he’s extremely hit and miss as far as scheduling goes… hope this helps… he’s great in the sack though if you can pin him down 😂

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On 11/13/2024 at 9:58 PM, Muscleaddict333 said:

James is travel with his brother, Braxton… James is a great guy but flaky and as unreliable as ever… he used to have quite a bit of girlfriend drama which made him inconsistent in keeping his appointments- to say the least… I suggest you hit him up same day, hope for the best, and have a plan B…Do not count on him to show up or you’ll be sorely disappointed… he’s extremely hit and miss as far as scheduling goes… hope this helps… he’s great in the sack though if you can pin him down 😂

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