Falling for one of the boys

[Guest Hopeless]

I know I am hopeless here but I did the one thing you should never do..... I fell for one of the boys.

 

I booked one who was new to the biz and he let his personality show and I am now totally hooked on him. The sex was fine but it was his personality -- he was too much fun outside of the bed.

 

I want to book him again, but if I do I wull surely end up telling him how I feel. Should I just forget him and book someone else? What have others done in this situation?

[Boston Guy]

Yes. Move on. Time, distance and other boys will help you think and see more clearly. Otherwise, you're just setting yourself up for a disappointment.

 

Good luck.

[Guest Skeptic]

Hopeless, whatever else you may eventually read below, you'll get no better, more-to-the-point advice than you've just been given by Boston Guy.

 

Follow it, and you'll have a new handle in no time.

[Guest Ken]

. Should I just forget him and book

someone else?

 

ABSOLUTELY AND IMMEDIATELY

[CT Dick]

Yup!

[Guest TommyBoy]

Do yourself a favor and don't walk down that street--it's a very rough and painful road. Advice is hard to take sometimes, but I wish I had taken the advice of my friends on this one--I'm still getting over him--move on RIGHT NOW if you can...:'(

[ready4boi]

The truth is rarely this situation can acutally have a happy ending. In my case, I met a very sweet and charming young escort two year ago. He is now 25 and has just stopped escorting this year. These past two years we have developed a friendship. I can honestly call this guy a true friend i can trust. I am a true friend of his as well. No we aren't going to get married and live happily after, but I don't have one single regret about taking a personal interest in him.

[liubit]

Yes, ready4boi, I also have developed close friendships with two boys that I met as escorts bout 3 years ago. Although they are not in the business anymore, I still see them regularly and have great fun with them in and out of bed. I am happy to say that they are my friends, and I have absolutely no regrets about that (on the contrary), but where the line must be drawn is when such a friendship becomes an infatuation or a one way love affair. No problem with personal friendships, but falling in love might bring about suffering.....I think THAT is what this thread is about.