411 Damien in Chicago

[bichiguy]

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/45632/

 

Any one in here try yet?

 

 

[xsslg]

Hmmm maybe MF is being buggy at the moment but I couldn't find either his number or his email on the site 

[ketut]

8 hours ago, xsslg said:

Hmmm maybe MF is being buggy at the moment but I couldn't find either his number or his email on the site 

his number is there for me now

[Lohengrin1979]

Masseur finder stops displaying contact information at like 11pm or midnight. Mustn’t encourage those late night massage calls, apparently.

[bichiguy]

12 hours ago, xsslg said:

Hmmm maybe MF is being buggy at the moment but I couldn't find either his number or his email on the site 

you going to pull the trigger and try (before 11 pm lol)

[Mhs]

I recently tried (before 11pm). Excellent therapeutic experience. While texting to arrange, he was clear and straightforward in what to expect (and what *not* to expect - i.e. things would stay strictly therapeutic.) The massage was fully draped & incorporated aromatherapy. He’s got a thorough technique and laidback, calming vibes. Happy to share more details in DM…although honestly, there’s not much more to share.

[bichiguy]

And just like that, I don't need to pursue further.

Thanks so much Mhs, even if it is therapeutic, not a big fan of draping or aromatherapy lol.

[xsslg]

21 hours ago, Mhs said:

I recently tried (before 11pm). Excellent therapeutic experience. While texting to arrange, he was clear and straightforward in what to expect (and what *not* to expect - i.e. things would stay strictly therapeutic.) The massage was fully draped & incorporated aromatherapy. He’s got a thorough technique and laidback, calming vibes. Happy to share more details in DM…although honestly, there’s not much more to share.

Bummer! Itd be real nice if there can be extras because he's quite cute 

Edited August 26, 2023 by xsslg

[mrjones]

I tried to book with him but he was aloof. 

[bichiguy]

So now he is Bret? Is he still only therapeutic? lol

[whmf]

He's therapeutic. I agree about the aloofness. Messaging was a little rough. He sounded condescending and warmed near the end.

First visit: the therapeutic side was very good. DIdn't like the draping, but yes, his technique was good. S

econd time: his aloofness was so dramatic that I thought he didn't have my number saved. If it's still bad on the third time, will no longer see him.

Rates are great though.

Would love to hear others experiences.

[Marc in Calif]

12 minutes ago, fs12395 said:

He's therapeutic. I agree about the aloofness. Messaging was a little rough. He sounded condescending and warmed near the end.

First visit: the therapeutic side was very good. DIdn't like the draping, but yes, his technique was good. S

econd time: his aloofness was so dramatic that I thought he didn't have my number saved. If it's still bad on the third time, will no longer see him.

Why are you planning to see him a third time? What do you expect will change after he gave you two rough, aloof sessions?

[whmf]

7 hours ago, Marc in Calif said:

Why are you planning to see him a third time? What do you expect will change after he gave you two rough, aloof sessions?

It was that the therapeutic in the first one was actually really good, and for the rate, it was worth doing.

[whmf]

Yeah, I did go a third time, and it was disappointing.

He was late to buzz me up, and still had me out within less than 90 minutes (I paid for 2 hours). Before the session, I asked him if it's the same rate as always, he said it was. He texted me (politely) after  to tell me he believes that I shorted him money. I told him to scroll up, but still venmoed him the difference of what he wanted, but with a personal resolution that in his case, it's his character, not his skills, that are not professional or attractive to me in any way.

I hope you guys don't go through any of that with him if you try. It's unfortunate, I felt our rapport in person was good.

Edited May 7, 2024 by fs12395
Trying to make sure I'm not mean! :)

[bichiguy]

6 minutes ago, fs12395 said:

Yeah, I did go a third time, and it was disappointing.

He was late to buzz me up, and still had me out within less than 90 minutes (I paid for 2 hours). Before the session, I asked him if it's the same rate as always, he said it was. He texted me (politely) after  to tell me he believes that I shorted him money. I told him to scroll up, but still venmoed him the difference of what he wanted, but with the resolution that in his case, it's his character, not his skills, that are not professional or attractive to me in any way.

I hope you guys don't go through it with him.

ugh sorry you went through that, and thanks for sharing.  I get the try multiple times as if it is good and there is chemistry either more can happen (and most of has stories of that) or its a good massage and a good rate.

 

[mostlywatching]

Hey there. I mostly lurk in the background and didn't have an account. I contacted Bret today after reading these and asked some polite questions about his massages. I debated posting our exchange but feel like it might not be fair to him (I'm not embarrassed of a single thing I said). But this was my initial message:

 

Hi I was interested in booking a session with you but had some questions:
1. What elements of sensuality (if any) do you allow?
2. I saw some reviews online that say that you shorted significant time. If I booked, I just want to make sure that the full session length is honored.
3. Do you do deep tissue massage?
Thank you.

He then went absolutely berserk. He called me a jerk, creep and rapist, then told me he'd call the police if I messaged him (while he kept messaging). It seems like he's going through some kind of trauma or psychological stress. I was going to post the conversation, but I think it would be more hurtful toward him than helpful. I just also felt like people should be warned that something is really off.

 

[MassageDrew]

I think his real name is Bret. I decided to book a massage with him and his Zelle account does go under that first name. 

About the massage, I went in with the knowledge that it was going to be fully therapeutic. The communication to book the appointment was actually nice. I read about the aloof attitude, but that did not come across. He was quite nice tbh. He asked if I had any questions, but declined to inquire further. I wasn't going to push for anything outside a therapeutic experience if he doesn't offer it. I contacted him on a Saturday wanting to book for a Monday evening as he might be fully booked on Sunday. I apologized for the short notice, and I usually book a week or so in advance in general. He said that he could take me in on Sunday, so I obliged.

I arrived in his area a few minutes earlier so I just stayed in the car. I texted him that I should be the shortly. On my way, he mentioned that he open the gate for me and will be waiting by the door. Now, he was wearing a pink blazer or something with a similar shade over at tshirt. He was wearing a linen or khaki shorts. I almost felt bad wearing a tshirt and sweats. He led me to his unit and he mentioned that he just moved there after having roommates in his previous apartment. He led me to the room and offered the chair for me to put my clothes on before getting on the table. He didn't open the sheets to indicate that I should go under notre did he mentioned that I should. But I did anyway. It's only therapeutic anyway. 

It was good. He gives a really good massage. He was clothed of course. At one point I started to get hard, but he didn't say anything. There were a couple of times where I thought he's getting a bit closer for therapeutic, but I didn't pursue it. After the appointment, I paid him via Zelle and that's when I found out his real name. Saw his Instagram page and he likes to surround himself with twinks/jocks type.

Overall, the massage was great for therapeutic. I do get one once in a while so he might ve my go to for that. He didn't come across as aloof, minus the first greeting outfit.

[whmf]

8 hours ago, MassageDrew said:

I think his real name is Bret. I decided to book a massage with him and his Zelle account does go under that first name. 

About the massage, I went in with the knowledge that it was going to be fully therapeutic. The communication to book the appointment was actually nice. I read about the aloof attitude, but that did not come across. He was quite nice tbh. He asked if I had any questions, but declined to inquire further. I wasn't going to push for anything outside a therapeutic experience if he doesn't offer it. I contacted him on a Saturday wanting to book for a Monday evening as he might be fully booked on Sunday. I apologized for the short notice, and I usually book a week or so in advance in general. He said that he could take me in on Sunday, so I obliged.

I arrived in his area a few minutes earlier so I just stayed in the car. I texted him that I should be the shortly. On my way, he mentioned that he open the gate for me and will be waiting by the door. Now, he was wearing a pink blazer or something with a similar shade over at tshirt. He was wearing a linen or khaki shorts. I almost felt bad wearing a tshirt and sweats. He led me to his unit and he mentioned that he just moved there after having roommates in his previous apartment. He led me to the room and offered the chair for me to put my clothes on before getting on the table. He didn't open the sheets to indicate that I should go under notre did he mentioned that I should. But I did anyway. It's only therapeutic anyway. 

It was good. He gives a really good massage. He was clothed of course. At one point I started to get hard, but he didn't say anything. There were a couple of times where I thought he's getting a bit closer for therapeutic, but I didn't pursue it. After the appointment, I paid him via Zelle and that's when I found out his real name. Saw his Instagram page and he likes to surround himself with twinks/jocks type.

Overall, the massage was great for therapeutic. I do get one once in a while so he might ve my go to for that. He didn't come across as aloof, minus the first greeting outfit.

That's how it started for me, too!