411 Damien in Chicago

[bichiguy]

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/45632/

 

Any one in here try yet?

 

 

[xsslg]

Hmmm maybe MF is being buggy at the moment but I couldn't find either his number or his email on the site 

[ketut]

8 hours ago, xsslg said:

Hmmm maybe MF is being buggy at the moment but I couldn't find either his number or his email on the site 

his number is there for me now

[Lohengrin1979]

Masseur finder stops displaying contact information at like 11pm or midnight. Mustn’t encourage those late night massage calls, apparently.

[bichiguy]

12 hours ago, xsslg said:

Hmmm maybe MF is being buggy at the moment but I couldn't find either his number or his email on the site 

you going to pull the trigger and try (before 11 pm lol)

[Mhs]

I recently tried (before 11pm). Excellent therapeutic experience. While texting to arrange, he was clear and straightforward in what to expect (and what *not* to expect - i.e. things would stay strictly therapeutic.) The massage was fully draped & incorporated aromatherapy. He’s got a thorough technique and laidback, calming vibes. Happy to share more details in DM…although honestly, there’s not much more to share.

[bichiguy]

And just like that, I don't need to pursue further.

Thanks so much Mhs, even if it is therapeutic, not a big fan of draping or aromatherapy lol.

[xsslg]

21 hours ago, Mhs said:

I recently tried (before 11pm). Excellent therapeutic experience. While texting to arrange, he was clear and straightforward in what to expect (and what *not* to expect - i.e. things would stay strictly therapeutic.) The massage was fully draped & incorporated aromatherapy. He’s got a thorough technique and laidback, calming vibes. Happy to share more details in DM…although honestly, there’s not much more to share.

Bummer! Itd be real nice if there can be extras because he's quite cute 

Edited August 26, 2023 by xsslg

[mrjones]

I tried to book with him but he was aloof. 

[bichiguy]

So now he is Bret? Is he still only therapeutic? lol

[fs12395]

He's therapeutic. I agree about the aloofness. Messaging was a little rough. He sounded condescending and warmed near the end.

First visit: the therapeutic side was very good. DIdn't like the draping, but yes, his technique was good. S

econd time: his aloofness was so dramatic that I thought he didn't have my number saved. If it's still bad on the third time, will no longer see him.

Rates are great though.

Would love to hear others experiences.

[Marc in Calif]

12 minutes ago, fs12395 said:

He's therapeutic. I agree about the aloofness. Messaging was a little rough. He sounded condescending and warmed near the end.

First visit: the therapeutic side was very good. DIdn't like the draping, but yes, his technique was good. S

econd time: his aloofness was so dramatic that I thought he didn't have my number saved. If it's still bad on the third time, will no longer see him.

Why are you planning to see him a third time? What do you expect will change after he gave you two rough, aloof sessions?

[fs12395]

7 hours ago, Marc in Calif said:

Why are you planning to see him a third time? What do you expect will change after he gave you two rough, aloof sessions?

It was that the therapeutic in the first one was actually really good, and for the rate, it was worth doing.

[fs12395]

Yeah, I did go a third time, and it was disappointing.

He was late to buzz me up, and still had me out within less than 90 minutes (I paid for 2 hours). Before the session, I asked him if it's the same rate as always, he said it was. He texted me (politely) after  to tell me he believes that I shorted him money. I told him to scroll up, but still venmoed him the difference of what he wanted, but with a personal resolution that in his case, it's his character, not his skills, that are not professional or attractive to me in any way.

I hope you guys don't go through any of that with him if you try. It's unfortunate, I felt our rapport in person was good.

Edited May 7 by fs12395
Trying to make sure I'm not mean! :)

[bichiguy]

6 minutes ago, fs12395 said:

Yeah, I did go a third time, and it was disappointing.

He was late to buzz me up, and still had me out within less than 90 minutes (I paid for 2 hours). Before the session, I asked him if it's the same rate as always, he said it was. He texted me (politely) after  to tell me he believes that I shorted him money. I told him to scroll up, but still venmoed him the difference of what he wanted, but with the resolution that in his case, it's his character, not his skills, that are not professional or attractive to me in any way.

I hope you guys don't go through it with him.

ugh sorry you went through that, and thanks for sharing.  I get the try multiple times as if it is good and there is chemistry either more can happen (and most of has stories of that) or its a good massage and a good rate.

 

[mostlywatching]

Hey there. I mostly lurk in the background and didn't have an account. I contacted Bret today after reading these and asked some polite questions about his massages. I debated posting our exchange but feel like it might not be fair to him (I'm not embarrassed of a single thing I said). But this was my initial message:

 

Hi I was interested in booking a session with you but had some questions:
1. What elements of sensuality (if any) do you allow?
2. I saw some reviews online that say that you shorted significant time. If I booked, I just want to make sure that the full session length is honored.
3. Do you do deep tissue massage?
Thank you.

He then went absolutely berserk. He called me a jerk, creep and rapist, then told me he'd call the police if I messaged him (while he kept messaging). It seems like he's going through some kind of trauma or psychological stress. I was going to post the conversation, but I think it would be more hurtful toward him than helpful. I just also felt like people should be warned that something is really off.