"Discrection", Lets hear it What are the rules ? and whats bad and whats good .

[+ David-SF]

This is an invitation to any escort/poster/client to please post what they consider "Discretion" in communicating with clients about other escorts never about other clients.

here is why

 

I was asked by another escort to not talk or mention them to clients on the MC or email or phone reason "Discretion"

 

On many occasions a client will happily boast about some of the wonderful escorts he has hired in the past.

 

.....Yes some will complain about this escort and that escort, describing the experience they want to avoid again.

that's all well and good, bad chemistry bad night, whatever.

 

I never used to be uncomfortable talking about escorts I have met in the past, always keeping it cheerful and lite and complimentary if I truly felt that way.

 

this post is 99% about speaking positively about other escorts you have met not bashing the ones you do not like.

 

I want my clients to experience the guys I have met and played with because they are HOT! and it is a good thing.

why would someone not want to be referred to in a good casual conversation in a positive light.

[+ Lucky]

I think free speech rules and that you are entitled and allowed to say anything that is truthfully in your experience. You owe no other escort an obligation to keep secret something that is less than flattering to him. That said, you do need to consider that you are in the business too, and you're understanding of how things can get twisted should also be a guide in deciding what is appropriate to say. The golden rule, so to speak, applies.

[+ ArVaGuy]

David,

 

I have to agree with Lucky that the golden rule applies here - treat others as you would like to be treated. But this request makes me wonder why this escort has such concerns about discretion that he’s asked that you not “put in a good word” about him with clients. Maybe he’s been burned by such and some client has carried a tale back to him. Or perhaps it’s the other way around and he’s made some less than complimentary comments about his competition.

 

It’s kind of natural that clients and escorts may discuss each other during session interludes. No doubt we’ve all done it in one way or another. However, there’s a fine line between truthful sharing and malicious gossip. Suffice it that one needs to maintain a delicate balance on whether or not to give credence to any positive or negative comment.

 

David you have been spoken of very highly by one of your fellow escorts in San Francisco. Your name came up by chance in our conversation. I’ve been seeing this guy for a very long time and he’s complimented you on your professionalism and client services. I've known him long enough to respect his opinion without question. If he say's you are ...um "tops"...in your field then I trust that implicitly. :9

 

To me a recommendation by a fellow escort can go along way in vetting whether or not to hire someone. Particularly since I’ve cut back on hiring new guys due to the ever increasing rates coupled with what seems to be a corresponding decrease in the quality of services delivered by some escorts.

 

My advice would be that you forget about this escort’s request for discretion. By that I mean forget about him entirely and don’t recommend him to any of your clients. Obviously his business is good enough that he does not need referrals from a fellow escort. No doubt you know plenty of other high quality escorts like your self that you can feel comfortable recommending to your clients. His loss is their gain.

[Bart]

Well I have had an escort specifically ask me not to post a review or spread the good word about him. He is a great escort who I have had great times with and his name has even come up here and I will reply privately and not get into specifics other than to say contact him directly and you will have a great time.

 

David as each of you are independent contractors, I have respected each of the guys enough to know how best to handle his own business. He can charge as see fits, advertise in his own manner, etc. to whatever extent he chooses as long as the client is not impacted deceitfully or with malice. So David when an escort wants to pass up praise from an exceptional escort like yourself, he is the one to suffer so all you can do is back away and say "Okay do it your way," even if you do not agree.