Knowing what you know now, what you do differently in yur 1st Massage?

[newdad]

Maybe us first timers can learn from your story.

[+ EVdude]

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[Guest]

Well, it depends on whether you are talking about my very first massage in general, which was a female masseur in my hometown where I kept my shorts on and did not flip over.  - Or if you are talking about my first full-body massage with an lgbt friendly masseur.

Although honestly, in either event, I dont think I would change anything.  I think they were the experiences I needed at those particular times in my life and gave me the sense that I wanted to explore further. That's what led me to this site.  Now I have had experiences after those first times that were not good and I continue to learn lessons from those.

[Bluefin]

Wouldn’t change anything about my first experience. 

However, advice for a newbie: NEVER pay up front or give a deposit. Professional and legit providers will never ask you for this. 

[musclestuduws]

Sincerely, I don’t remember my first experience. I think it was a masseur I found on Craigslist in 2005 or 6 because that’s how I got started. I had been trading massages with other guys from there and at some point I decided to find a professional. I did learn early on to communicate and tell a masseur what I wanted and how I liked it. And to get up and leave in a cordial manner if the massage is dismal. Unfortunately there are lots of scammers in the business. Don’t be shy, you’re the client and paying for a service. 

Edited February 4, 2023 by musclestuduws