Extra Time?

[sashek]

Hi All,

I'd like to know how the escorts feel about "open-ended" meetings, with a guaranteed minimum time? For example, is it proper etiquette to book an appointment for, say, two hours, with the understanding ahead of time that it could be extended to an evening or overnight, at the appropriate rates, if the session is going well? Or would an arrangement like this be considered unfair, in that the escort would basically have written off the rest of his evening, when the session might end after the original two hours? Perhaps this question has been discussed in the past - if so, sorry about that.

Sashek

[ErikMcAlister]

I'd say that if you're going to guarantee the fee for the extra time, I wouldn't mind making sure I leave it open. Time management can be important.

Other folks might share some thoughts, too, but I'm not fond of the whole "I want you for an hour, but if I like you, I want you for the night, since I know that you have NOTHING going on in your life other than waiting around for me to decide" thing. :-)

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Sashek!

 

Personally I have no problem with that kind of sessions. As always, the rule is: Ask your escort.

Don't assume that he will be available if you are interested. If you think that you might want to extend the session, asking him will not only allow him to make the necessary arrangements, but will ensure you that he knows, is prepared and there is no unexpected pressure on either side when the moment arrives.

 

Also, if you are in that kind of session, I recommend you to let your escort know as soon as you decide that you want to extend. What I mean with that, is that if (for example) you don't want him to stay longer, let him know before the two hours mark, so he will be able to decide until what time he stays. Remember that it is you who has the power in that moment and it might be a little umcomfortable for him to ask "So, do you think there is chemistry? Should I stay longer?"

 

Personally I always assume that it will be a two hours session and will leave accordingly even if I am having a great time. It is your work to say "But no, I would like you to stay longer, if you are okay with it".

 

And of course, make sure that if you want him to stay for an overnight the two hours fee will be included in the price of the overnight... (Or not). Just make sure that you two are agreeing in everything.

 

You can't never ask too much.

 

Have a great time! (And I hope that the chemistry does happen for you guys).

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Out of the Ordinary

 

It is not that common but not that out of the ordinary either. The exact situation, without the client letting me know in advance, happened to me twice. The only problem was that one instance, the client kept extending the session past the point where he would be paying the equivilent of my overnight (12 hour rate) for a 7 hour session. Since we started during the day, it also could not be a true overnight (plus, his ball and chain was coming home on a 10:00 p.m. flight that day).

 

It has never happened to me otherwise, other than I want an hour but may want two, or I want 2 hours or 3 situations, which as Juan said, I honestly do not see a good reason for an escort to be concerned about, unless they are running a tight schedule or booking themselves back to back. In which case, they would simply say, I am sorry but I have plans. So you, the client, run that risk.

 

The other risk is how much time you may want. As I said, a one hour turning into 2 or 3 is one thing, but a one or two hour session turning into a overnight or a full day (no matter how many twink escorts submit their own fake reviews claiming that this, in fact, happened) may be expecting too much on the part of the client. The escort may very well not be prepared for that long a session, may have other plans, or may have other obligations (and I mean non-escort related ones).

 

The best thing to do, again as Juan suggested, is to talk this over and be prepared to deal with the answer, just like you would prefer your escort deal with uncertainty.