No Joy from Prostate Play

[relaxdudeitsjustsex]

For years I have tried toys to stimulate my prostate and get joy like so many others.  No matter what toy I stick up my ass, vibrating, ribbed etc...I just don't really feel anything.  I love the idea of getting fucked but I just don't really feel anything.   Does anyone else have same problem?

[Guest]

I had the same problem until I didn’t. I pursued prostate pleasure for 15 years and got nothing. Then I had a prostate massage that changed everything. It turns out that I just wasn’t doing it right. 

[jeezifonly]

It’s not uncommon to be indifferent to it for a long time (different from finding it painful which should come up at your next visit to your MD)

Sometimes it’s got to do with your body position during penetration. Whether alone or with a partner try various positions and see if that helps. Whether finger, toy or cock, the angle of entry plays a big role.

One BF helped me by recommending my manual self-identification of it - a mound walnut size and texture - and massage around the outside of the bump in circular motions. It was not about the in-n-out across it, but pressing on the ring of soft tissue around it. It’s way more pleasurable than having something ram into it. After you know how to maximize that particular aspect, you’ll figure how to use your lower abs to reliably move that part of the wall into the ideal zone. Once you can do that, you may not come out of your room for a week. 😵‍💫🫠🤪