3 Ways with couples in LTR

[mercury40]

Wondering if any escorts get requests with couples in LTR looking to spice things things up by hiring an escort for a 3 way? If so, have you had any feed back from the couple saying their sex life has gotten more interesting because of it? How do you handle being with a couple who may have different needs and give them equal time? Do you double your fee for a 3 way? Is this too many questions?

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

How Many Apples Would John Have Left?

 

>Wondering if any escorts get requests with couples in LTR

>looking to spice things things up by hiring an escort for a 3

>way?

 

Some of the requests that I receive is from a couple where the gentlemen who is normally the top wishes to be topped. Another frequent request is a couple where the top wishes to arrange a birthday present for the bottom by "tag teaming" him. This is also often, strange as it may seem, an anniversary present.

 

I am not sure I could say that this is done to spice up their mutual sex life. In some of these cases, the couples have hired in the past, so this is not new to them. Some of these couple hire and then never do so again nor do they explore "others" outside the realm of escorting.

 

>If so, have you had any feed back from the couple saying

>their sex life has gotten more interesting because of it?

 

I have a couple who hires me regularly. They have been together 20 plus years. They frequently travel together on gay cruises and, apparently, a lot of casual sex happens on those things. I know they have hired others in the past, partially for convenience (to get what they want when they want it) and because they both have a busy, complicated schedule. The thing I really like about them is that they both seem very devoted to one another (I have stayed over and had dinner with them and spent enough time talking with each of them one on one over the last two years) and still have good sex one on one with each other.

 

I think in long term relationships with male/male couples, the desire for outside interests is often there, either subsumed or ignored, but present. I believe allowing it a release, whether with strangers, friends with privileges or escorts, can be a good idea, as long as the two parties are honest with one another and observe whatever ground rules are set. I do not know if interesting would be the right description, but I believe that allowing others into the sexual aspect of long term relationships has been and can be healthy for some couples.

 

>How do you handle being with a couple

>who may have different needs

>and give them equal time?

 

Ideally, you have a lot of information, ask a lot of questions and you pay close attention to both of them before, during and afterwards. It is definitely the most challenging aspect of this work, in my opinion.

 

Do you double your fee for a 3 way?

 

I do not. I do realize that some escorts do, but I personally decided long ago that I am being paid for my time, not what I do during that time and have stuck with that in every set of circumstances I have been presented with.

 

 

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[Guest ChicagoCorey]

Back in the day when I was doing it, I had a lot of guys visiting on business who would hook up with me, and it was an important part of the experience for them that their significant other knew about it and was going to get all the details. I thought this uusally a pretty good sign of a healthy, fun relationship. Typically, I was usually hired to do soomehat the other didn't usually do -- meaning I fucked the guy who usually topped or bottomed for the bottom -- though sometimes it was just some sort of attiribute I possessed that got them both going fantasy-wise (youth, smoothness, red hair, etc)

 

I had a local client who hired me quite a few times who had a long term partner whom, I thought knew about me being hired, but I was never sure. I'd been to their home many times. Once, as I was headed out to an appointment with a new client, I realized as I got directions to his place that I'd been there before. He was obviously the partner of the guy who'd already hired me. I wasn't sure what to do, so I played as if I'd never been there before. It was an okay experience, but I had a weird feeling about it all. Afterwards, I'd left my watch there (escort faux pas #124) -- and the one who knew me messaged me to ask how to get it back to me. It turned out when his partner was interested in trying out an escort, he'd recommended me to him. They were sorry that I felt a little put in the middle, but were appreciative of my discretion.

[Vincent_Michael]

I have been Hired once by a couple and it was one of the best things I ever did...they had ben together 27years..I have stayed freinds with one of them and over time they have split up al left anouther because one of them found other emotional intrests shall we say...Sex in the end can complcate things and I think you should be away that having you cake and eating it to is hard to do....Think

[BigK]

I wonder how many have met with male/female couples in LTR's? x(

[Vincent_Michael]

I have never met a Female or male Relationship....I dont know how to relate to that

[Guest AdamLVescort]

I was just login in and saw this post I used to do a lot of 3ways w/ couples. I still keep in touch with some of them and things still keep on rolling. My guess is the difference in picking up someone online vs. hiring. When a guy hires an escort, there is some assurance that he can go and come as he pleases, where as picking up someone online its iffy and could cause some issues in a relationship if that person gets more involved.

 

Personally I think it is great for a couple to get to experience a scenario like this. Now that I no longer escort and have a bf of almost 2 yrs, lol I have 3 ways and have hired several escorts.

 

Later,

Adam

XOXO

[BigK]

Hey Adam...nice to see your post. Hope all is well with you and wish you the best!

 

BigK

[Juan Vancouver]

My favourite subject!

 

Man how I love this! I can say that I have been very fortunate when it comes to couples. I do a lot of work like this, and I think that I get much more than some of my friends, because of a simple fact: I am a real bisexual versatile. in my case, everything goes. :9

 

I have had the couple trying to spice things up for the first time, and in that case, my duty is to find the way in which I can give both the same level of attention, respect their boundaries, and help them to expand their limits even if they are not aware of that. Often I feel that my work is more like a couples therapy counselor than an escort. All the times, results have been a really fun experience where we all had lots of fun and feel open and ready to try it the next time. Once a couple finds out that they can have fun without jealousy, they will feel more free to explore different things.

 

I also have the veterans on threesomes. Couples that have done it all. Couples that call me to share the "know how", couples that need a third for Fantasy enactment. Have had groups, two escorts for two clients, two for one, (or more) etc. The possibilities are enormous!

 

When it comes to giving both partners what they need, as one of my reviewers describes me, I am the dfeinition of multi-tasking... I love it!

 

Yes, I often meet male-female couples, which suits me perfectly because thats one of my favourite scenarios... To please the guy, to please the girl, to please both of them and in the end... to be pleased... (What could be better?)

 

Until a few months ago I used to charge double the fee for a couple. Now I charge a little less. Like 160% as oposed to 200%. And yes, I charge more because one has to do a lot of work in that kind of sessions. Fulfill two different people, focus your energy, attention, body, emotions in two simultaneous (And sometimes absolutely different) ways.

 

I put a lot of heart and mind to this kind of sessions, because I know that a lot is in stake. If the session is successful, the couple will feel reassured, confident, close, happy and they will feel at ease to try some other things... They might be free of the ghost of jealousy and perhaps this will allow them to be a little bit more honest when it comes to communicate their needs, wants, fantasies and fetishes, which in my opinion, is one of the pilars of a healthy relationship.

 

It's such heavy hard work... But someone has to do the dirty work, right?

 

LET THE COUPLES COME TO ME......

 

(I might not answer if you ask me something... but if I am smiling, and moaning, and keep busy and both of you are having fun... it is very likely that I am having a great time too!)

[Vincent_Michael]

No they wrote a review on me...just have to read it.

 

Very loving men...Boy and did they make me happy!