Is it always the same?

[Guest countryboy76]

From reading different ads from various sites that advertise escorts it seems that all of the guys pretty much market themselves to provide the same type of service or services to their clients. Of the reviews that I've read that have been posted by clients in regards to the time spent with the escort, they are all pretty much the same as to how they spent their time together.

 

How often is an escort contacted for the sole purpose of attending a social event with a client, such as class reunion, dinner party or the like? Where all the client is looking for is to have a good looking guy accompany him as his date/companion to the event and nothing more?

 

CB76

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

No, It Is Not

 

Like many of these questions, the best and most accurate (and, of course, the most generic answer) is, "It depends."

 

I have been to a high school reunion as someone's male partner (a very handsome man with success in business but not in romance), as the "boyfriend" to meet the parents of another man, to a HRCF dinner, to a number of dining establishments, a double header at the Pac-10 Tournament last year, and to a charity auction.

 

Some of these later involved intimacy, most did not. On some that did not, I had otherwise been intimate with some of the clients. Some of these clients I was never intimate with and that was not ever the purpose.

[TightBodyTouch]

Based on my own experiences I can only support Franco's claim that each appointment depends on the escort and client in question. In fact, it is probably more common than reported here for many escorts to accompany men, and women too, to events and engagements where they serve far more roles than merely a fun time in the bedroom.

 

I don't appreciate it when vast generalizations are made here in a forum but I will suggest that many of the clients who have asked me out to public functions are simply not the type of men who post reviews of their experiences and if the same is true for other clients' tastes then that may explain why you don't see more accounts of that type of thing here. Clients who appreciate discretion from their escorts and insist on their public behavoir keeping a low profile are not likely to turn around and give detailed chronicles of how their dates have turned out.

 

I've been out with men while posing as a family member, boyfriend, and a few times I've even been taken along to a clients workplace where an assortment of explanations covered our relationship. Carrying on these "roles" was not only functional in these settings but completely entertaining for both my clients and myself.

 

There are, of course, other times when no charade was necessary but accompanying clients to public events was the main purpose of our date rather than intimate time alone. Artist's openings, rock concerts, ball games, street fairs, and evenings to the theatre are all outings I have had lots of fun attending with different men and I know of other escorts who also have these kinds of dates. I've also been out along with other escorts when a client likes to be surrounded by more than just one boy to choose from.

 

It may also be true that some escorts aren't available for these kinds of dates, preferring shorter and more physical encounters. There are surely escorts who are more "companion" types and somehow clients seem to find us.

[AaronScottDC]

I agree with TJ in Denver. Most of the guys who have invited me to attend more social events with them are not the type who would write a review of such an encounter. So, you probably wouldn't find too many accounts of this type of service listed in the reviews on this site.

 

While most of my clients are looking for a nice relaxing massage, maybe a drink or two and then some more intimate type of meeting with me, some have certainly been looking for more companionship than anything else. I have had several evenings with guys that included dinner and/or drinks and then afterwards, we did not head to the bedroom for any more excitement. I have also been invited to Broadway shows and on vacations with clients. During these trips, we might engage in more intimate contact at times, but the vast majority of the time we were just enjoying each other's company. It is certainly more interesting to share a particular experience with someone than to go it alone, so some of my clients asked me along for the companionship aspect of my services.

 

As Franco points out, too, some escorts are certainly better at being a social companion and some are better at getting it on in the bedroom. I think you can tell quite easily from perusing the reviews on this site which ones excell in which type of setting.

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[btmstudnyc]

Not always the same

 

Franco pretty much summed it up. I would also question what your sources are too. Sometimes the internet can take you right to the sex scorts. Actually, in the Yellow Pages....they have lots of agencies that are specifically for companions who are strictly actors...Who will do all sorts of gyrations not including sex, or kissing or cuddling or even playing boyfriend. Some are even hired to play the jealous ex-boyfriend. I have seen and heard it all.

 

I'd love to hear if anyone had any crazy scenes that they played out...I have only played boyfriend, and High School Prom date...

 

JIM

If it dont fit, force it

btmstudnyc@aol.com

[LovesYng]

RE: Not always the same

 

I have hired plenty of escorts/companions when I travel for business, really don't like traveling alone. I would say that a good part 75% are only for the companionship on my trips. Even at times I would ask the companion to leave for a couple of hours because I have a escort coming over and also at times the companion would stay and join in, that part was always up to him. Sometimes he would turn into a escort for me, but it was not the real reason he was with me. I would say that a good 98% of them don't get reviewed because I did not hire them as a escort and they are fine with that. The companion/young stud is taking care of quite well because I love spoiling them and they love getting spoiled, who don't:7 plus they are well compensated for the trip.

 

During the day he is free to do as he wants because I'm working but in the evening he is with me. We do dinners shows, plays, concerts and visit some of the orchestras during our stay away even anything he wants to do also, not a one sided trip:+

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Good Question...

 

I would have to say that not one of my guys is like any other one of my guys~ a good thing considering repetition might get a little monotonus after awhile. I guarantee i would retire from escorting if this was the situation, as the variety of experiences & situations i am put in is one of many reasons i love this industry.

 

For example, i have attended state & national political conventions where i've made some great connections while filling in the gaps of my political knowlege. Attending the Oscars & Tonys have also been a highlight for me. Honestly, being able to schmooze with an industry crowd (political or otherwise) & spend some time with a client is what i would consider a top notch evening...

 

 

Well, granted some additional time to wrinkle the sheets

 

 

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[Guest countryboy76]

RE: Not always the same

 

Most of the escorts I see listed are on-line, and that has been somewhat limited, considering the number of sites that are out there. But curiousity got the best of me and I had to ask.

 

Granted, discretion is always number one, which may have an effect on the absence of such reviews. But you raise another question in my mind, 2 in the same week and it's only Tuesday.

 

Why not post a review complimenting an escort on his abilities to fit into or handle any situation or role that the client requests?

 

From the answers I've gotten to the original question, the casual fun between and escort and client is such a small part of what an escort can and does provide, but it is the largest factor, if not the only factor that comes into play when a review is posted.

 

CB76

[Guest jeffOH]

I suppose that I'm more of a prostitute than an escort. I've had the occasional request to attend this or that function with a client. I did go to see Jerry Seinfeld with a client this past December when he was here in town, but for the most part, it's about the sex. Not much "escorting", at least according to the dictionary definition.

 

JEFF jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Guest RetrdEscrt]

I'm with Jeff the difference between an 'Escort' in the traditional sense i.e someone who escorts another to an event be it a dinner/show/movie whatever the occasion is the true meaning of Escort its one of those words that has been appropriated to mean something else,basically it's because saying Whore or Prostitute doesnt make it the kind of thing some clients would feel comfortable with.

 

I've done plenty of general 'escorting'appts over the years Oscars/Golden Globes/AMFAR dinners and other benefits included,and yeah its a blast if the client is cool and thats the other thing a client will only do this sorta stuff if he is comfortable with YOU and knows that you wont blab.

 

A couple of previous posters hit the nail on the head when they said that those sort of clients would not dream of writing reviews of nights like that,when i was escorting the type of client i had which was very upscale and expensive wanted the fact that i could keep my mouth shut (at the appropriate time of course :9 )because they wanted

DISCRETION at all times .

 

The sort of clients that pay $3k a night dont post reviews....

[VaHawk]

>I'm with Jeff the difference between an 'Escort' in the

>traditional sense i.e someone who escorts another to an event

>be it a dinner/show/movie whatever the occasion is the true

>meaning of Escort its one of those words that has been

>appropriated to mean something else,basically it's because

>saying Whore or Prostitute doesnt make it the kind of thing

>some clients would feel comfortable with.

 

And yet everyone wants to burn FFF at the stake for saying the exact same thing!!!! I think using the word escort when the only thing that transpires in the encounter is sex, is a true misnomer. I think using the term escort in these situations is a way for both the client and the escort to put a legitimacy on the transaction that whore or prositute doesn't engender.

 

>The sort of clients that pay $3k a night dont post

>reviews....

 

I always knew you were high class! No cheap hooker on your part. Love it and love the fact that there is one escort, even if he is a retired one who can understand the difference between a whore and an escort.