Why so much passive aggression among so many dudes?

[TallMuscl37]

Am I the only one noticing this trend or has it always been this way?

I just notice in 2 areas of life: 1 are the men who don’t respond to messages, or communicate. This can be clients, hookups, “acquaintances”, or after exchanging info from a new guy. Instead of just being real about something, they just drift in silence.

The other area are the clients who “fight” when trying to set up a session. Especially, especially…the hookup app sites (which I use sparingly for that reason), however that’s sometimes the only way to connect in smaller markets since many of the bigger sites are unknown.
 

Like these men want to get laid, or suck a dick…yet they want to be a bitch and argue over the most basic protocols. Yes, you need a number to show up. No, I’m not going to give my room/apt. # without one. Had one do this yesterday. Kept saying “nevermind” anytime I asked basic stuff. He eventually texted me but by that point, I was discouraged and went to bed. It was already 4 a.m., my patience isn’t particularly long at that hour, even though I am a night owl and can stay up past 3 if I need to. But how can I be turned on, if someone is being hardheaded and making it difficult to set stuff up. 
 

What is up with it all 🤦🏽‍♂️

Edited June 8, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut