The "GOOD" Top

[Guest jrpSCORP]

What is the one extra special thing you do as a top that keeps the bottoms coming back again and again ? Are there any special techniques? I'm sure we can't assume that a fuck is a fuck.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Philosophy and Technique

 

I really do love to fuck and, as some escorts get off on being paid or being admired, I enjoy the responsiveness of the man I am with, knowing that I am causing it. In short, I love my job.

 

As you all know, I could write volumes but it is as simple as that. I enjoy this and that comes across. A big dick, a handsome face, a beautiful body, sexual attraction - all of these things are essential elements to the bottom, but if I did not like what I was doing and I did not know what I was doing, those elements would be essentially meaningless to him.

[chrismac]

RE: Philosophy and Technique

 

>A big dick, a

>handsome face, a beautiful body, sexual attraction - all of

>these things are essential elements to the bottom, but if I

>did not like what I was doing and I did not know what I was

>doing, those elements would be essentially meaningless to

>him.

 

Truer words were never spoken...

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Philosophy and Technique

 

>A big dick, a

>handsome face, a beautiful body, sexual attraction - all of

>these things are essential elements to the bottom

 

Not true at all. I don't prefer big dicks (ouch!) and not every bottom is into handsome faces or beautiful bodies. What's important to a bottom is what's important to that bottom. That's why you really need to communicate with your partner...and that's the key to a good top. And I learned all of this from the best top I ever had (you-know-who).

[Guest 123]

RE: Philosophy and Technique

 

>>A big dick, a

>>handsome face, a beautiful body, sexual attraction - all of

>>these things are essential elements to the bottom

>

>Not true at all. I don't prefer big dicks (ouch!) and not

>every bottom is into handsome faces or beautiful bodies.

>What's important to a bottom is what's important to that

>bottom. That's why you really need to communicate with your

>partner...and that's the key to a good top. And I learned

>all of this from the best top I ever had (you-know-who).

 

ME :7

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

RE: Philosophy and Technique

 

>> sexual attraction - all of

>>these things are essential elements to the bottom

>

>Not true at all. I don't prefer big dicks (ouch!) and not

>every bottom is into handsome faces or beautiful bodies.

>What's important to a bottom is what's important to that

>bottom. That's why you really need to communicate with your

>partner...and that's the key to a good top.

 

Sexual attraction includes being turned on and turning on your partner. It is not just tactile. It is also mental and even emotional. Obviously, this requires listening, paying attention and caring.

 

Trust me, Mr. Munroe. I know of which I speak and no one had to teach me over the course of fifteen years....

[btmstudnyc]

RE: Philosophy and Technique

 

I think that the key to being a good "top." Is being passionate about the whole thing. Yes, every bottom wants it a slightly different way, once you know their modus operendi (how the hell do you spell that Laurent) you will 'defintly' satisfy them. I know when I'm on the bottom, I want to know the top can't live without my ass (even if he hates me for it.) He can be gentle, or rough(each bottom has a favorite)...but he better make me think that my ass is the only ass that he wants in that moment.

 

A top can really kill the moment...When he looks at the clock. Then you know he's worried that the VIAGRA is running out.

 

JIM

 

You know...I don't think I will ever be able to spell 'definitely' correctly ever since I was scarred by that POST about mispelling escorts.

 

 

 

:+

[Guest Blink]

RE: Philosophy and Technique

 

Jim...you are my fav. You reminded me of somebody special.

 

:-)

 

Anyway, I strongly agree with you. The two guys in my life feel that my ass is the only ass they want. A few nights ago, my boyfriend got carried away and fucked me like there was no tomorrow. He does that when something troubles him. He must have known something about my recent fling.

 

By the way, did I say "two guys in my life"? This is not happening. I need to cool down on Joel.

 

Tops are good when they really enjoy what they are doing and really like the bottom. The first time I slept with my boyfriend, he topped me the whole night. I have to ask him to stop amidst his reluctance.