411 on Boinextdoor in Chicago

[+ dctraveler]

20 hours ago, VersOral said:

Two apology/excuses for him in an hour? I can see speaking up for someone you've had a good experience with but, that seems excessive. I'll never book with someone whom multiple people report back on being rude and unprofessional. Too many providers out there post they're available when they aren't. There's no need to be rude to potential clients when at work, and not available for services they advertise.  

First of all, I had an a-OK experience with him and would not repeat. 

I've had an offline chat with another user and we both agreed that he gets a thrill out of the attention he gets from a new client. Couple recent comments on this thread confirm that as well. New clients beware. 

Edited May 16, 2023 by dctraveler

[Texan4Fun]

On 5/15/2023 at 8:15 AM, dctraveler said:

First of all, I had an a-OK experience with him and would not repeat. 

I've had an offline chat with another user and we both agreed that he gets a thrill out of the attention he gets from a new client. Couple recent comments on this thread confirm that as well. New clients beware. 

Tried to book him last Sunday but he didn't have 90 mins available as he had 5 guys right before me so could only do an hour.  I said we can do another weekend as I prefer the longer sessions,  he launched into me and became rude, saying forget trying to book a session.  We talked and he apologized for jumping to the conclusion that I was assuming his review on his profile was accurate/that's why I asked for another date.  We rescheduled for yesterday.

A few times during the week confirmed we were still OK.  40 minutes before we were supposed to meet he texted with this long story about how he was busy with work and only wanted to do 60 minutes instead of 90, but would make 90 work if I wanted that.  Said I preferred 90 as he knew and he said understood, but went silent.  15 mins before we were supposed to meet, I asked what was up and he said he can't do 90 minute sessions anymore and to have a good weekend.  It was a joke to him that he had to cancel.  Incredibly unprofessional.

This guy clearly likes the game of scheduling and cancelling last minute because of "work". As @dctraveler said - beware.

 

[Lohengrin1979]

4 hours ago, Texan4Fun said:

Tried to book him last Sunday but he didn't have 90 mins available as he had 5 guys right before me so could only do an hour.  I said we can do another weekend as I prefer the longer sessions,  he launched into me and became rude, saying forget trying to book a session.  We talked and he apologized for jumping to the conclusion that I was assuming his review on his profile was accurate/that's why I asked for another date.  We rescheduled for yesterday.

A few times during the week confirmed we were still OK.  40 minutes before we were supposed to meet he texted with this long story about how he was busy with work and only wanted to do 60 minutes instead of 90, but would make 90 work if I wanted that.  Said I preferred 90 as he knew and he said understood, but went silent.  15 mins before we were supposed to meet, I asked what was up and he said he can't do 90 minute sessions anymore and to have a good weekend.  It was a joke to him that he had to cancel.  Incredibly unprofessional.

This guy clearly likes the game of scheduling and cancelling last minute because of "work". As @dctraveler said - beware.

 

6 one-hour massage appointments in one day?! I would never hire a masseur who packed their day like that. That’s a cash grab. They aren’t interested in providing quality service to their clients if they’re stacking appointments like that. I highly doubt your 90 minute massage, had it ever finally occurred, would’ve been worth the money paid.

[+ dctraveler]

7 hours ago, Texan4Fun said:

Tried to book him last Sunday but he didn't have 90 mins available as he had 5 guys right before me so could only do an hour.  I said we can do another weekend as I prefer the longer sessions,  he launched into me and became rude, saying forget trying to book a session.  We talked and he apologized for jumping to the conclusion that I was assuming his review on his profile was accurate/that's why I asked for another date.  We rescheduled for yesterday.

A few times during the week confirmed we were still OK.  40 minutes before we were supposed to meet he texted with this long story about how he was busy with work and only wanted to do 60 minutes instead of 90, but would make 90 work if I wanted that.  Said I preferred 90 as he knew and he said understood, but went silent.  15 mins before we were supposed to meet, I asked what was up and he said he can't do 90 minute sessions anymore and to have a good weekend.  It was a joke to him that he had to cancel.  Incredibly unprofessional.

This guy clearly likes the game of scheduling and cancelling last minute because of "work". As @dctraveler said - beware.

 

Wow sorry to hear that you went through this with him. It looks like his attitude and attention issues are only getting worse as time goes by. 

[Texan4Fun]

On 5/23/2023 at 5:07 AM, dctraveler said:

Wow sorry to hear that you went through this with him. It looks like his attitude and attention issues are only getting worse as time goes by. 

@dctraveler - was strange how quickly the conversation turned.  Should have realized the red flag the first time.

Looks like we aren't "safe" again as the attention junkie already unfroze his profile and is back on the prowl 🤣.

[Guest BoiNextDoor]

Done, my profile was fully deleted. Thanks everyone.